Right I know il get the usual drivel. I met my wife as a school teacher, travel guide ect, that's ok whatever gets you to sleep.

However in all honesty how many people married a Thai that wasn't either ever in the game or looking for a way out of poverty.

Id be genuinely interested in the responses and porkies.

Oh dear! I'll humour you. Not a bar worker, next.

No; she just cashier

Even on an anonymous forum, how many men do you think are going to answer this honestly?

Mine was a marriage broker, does that count? Next.

My wife is an educated Thai (Chinese) from a decent family in Phuket, (Me 52, her 37).. she wasn't a sex-trade worker as far as I know..

Here's your useless trivia for the day: before I met her in 2007, she had been in a sexual affair with one Thai women in particular for several years, I know because she told me - her former lover tried to break us up 8 years ago. She probably had other female partners, but I don't ask, and she would probably say MY BOK ( I won't say, lol) if I did..

She told me she had many Thai boyfriends in the past, still keeps in touch with one on Facebook, which is my bpen rai in my mind..

IMHO - An inordinate amount of farang pick from the tiny pool of sex-trade workers for relationships, which compromise but 2 or 3% of Thai women.. largely ignoring the other 90 plus % of good available Thai women, (given that most Thai women marry Thai men)..

It's not my job to speculate on why about 50% of farang seek out from the 3% of Thai women ( sex-trade workers) for a relationship. Up to them

That they may have certain personality types is probable, given what we see out there over many years of observation..

signed,

incoming..

If I was living in Thailand in 2006, I may have gone for a bar girl myself, as I liked them, liked partying, and am a little high risk myself at times..at least I was in the past. Instead i just dallied with them, all the while looking for an educated Thai woman, thinking they may be less likely to rip you off..

My problem was I was living and working in Canada, and just coming to Thailand for 3 months a year..I didn't figure a bar girl would wait 8-9 months for me to return, or be able to get a visitors visa to come all the way to Canada to get laid.. LOL

signed,

but a sexy Thai government female employee sure can get a visitors visa to come to Canada, or Holland, or France...

Red that's what its all about, but for every one of you there is a thousand walking round big c telling everyone therir wife was a professional. Im just trying to get to the bottom of why the porkies just let it all out.

I was talking to my friend's wife at the bar as she was dancing and buying me drinks....she said she wasn't.

oh wait......

My wife was genuinely a trained school teacher who left uni right in the middle of the financial crisis, so ended up working for the highway police for a few years.

I wouldnt dare to put a percentage on your question. A lot or a little.

Its just out of curiousity really. The other day back in my country I was speaking to another fella that I know that married a soi 6 virgin. Now he sits there telling the whole sauna how she was a travel guide ect, everyone was trying not to actually laugh in his face. Listen its no problem if you married an ex bar girl. Just why the lies life is too short to tell porkies that no one believes anyway. It makes for better conversation if you say you met over a heiniken and 1000 baht note.

Its obvious some men met their missus by normal means but id put it at less than 1 percent.

The same % that go true the university as sex worker, many of my Thai friends sponsor girls or 3 hour job. .

Is the OP suggesting that being former sex workers is somehow the default position for farang wives in Isaan by phrasing the question in this way? If not, why bother asking and not just ask, "what was your wife's job before you married her?"? And why should anyone feel even moderately obliged to answer such an offensively constructed question?

It was her first week in the bar... She never had anyone else!

Its just out of curiousity really. The other day back in my country I was speaking to another fella that I know that married a soi 6 virgin. Now he sits there telling the whole sauna how she was a travel guide ect, everyone was trying not to actually laugh in his face. Listen its no problem if you married an ex bar girl. Just why the lies life is too short to tell porkies that no one believes anyway. It makes for better conversation if you say you met over a heiniken and 1000 baht note.

Its obvious some men met their missus by normal means but id put it at less than 1 percent.

So if your wife had been a Sex Worker, would you tell your friends?

_{Yes she was and I do, whats the shame in it? Obviously a long time ago so its all water under the bridge.}

A number of defensive comments smell of denial. Like I say there is no shame in it, id prefer a sinner to a liar anyday.

_{Yes she was and I do, whats the shame in it? Obviously a long time ago so its all water under the bridge.}

I had her n she was pretty good back then,what happened?

She had the op then, its never the same.

She had the op then, its never the same.

I'm so pleased I contributed to your happiness .

Demanding bloke, isn't he? I want to know, so you must tell me. Tell me your secret because I'm bored today, and no porkies or I'll get upset. Got that?

So, here's my story - six ex-wives, all worked in Lolitas, and all left me to work in Rappongi, but I still send them money every month. It's the god's honest truth. It must be, coz I'm too pathetic to get a real woman.

_{100 to one your one of the foreighners I see in Big c with a full shopping trolley looking like your going to cry at the till. Just tell us where you met your partner, let it all out.}

^^does jacquline pearce know?

witawok that made no sense at all, just reinforced what I see in my wifes village every time I go. Deamers paying for dreams. Expensivly.

_{100 to one your one of the foreighners I see in Big c with a full shopping trolley looking like your going to cry at the till. Just tell us where you met your partner, let it all out.}

I suspect that you've recently been stung. Let it all out.

_{Yes she was and I do, whats the shame in it? Obviously a long time ago so its all water under the bridge.}

As I said, "but for the grace of God go I..".. just kidding manxninja - I respect the working girls in general - I could never have married my Thai wife without showing her and her family that I could support her -regardless of her status or former occupation..

In another life, I would have gone with bar girl - too late now - if I wanna keep my pecker out of a maa key lien's gullet...lol

If you do a little due diligence and ***test them, there are plenty of decent working women out there RIGHT NOW...in Patts, Phuket and Chiang Mai.. so long as they get out of the game early enough..lol

*** I tested my future Thai wife by leaving her with a duplicate debit card when I went home to Canada to work for 6 months - I left a maximum of 60,000 baht ( $2,0000 USD) in the account, and if it disappeared i would know she was NFG.. IT DID NOT disappear - and the test lasted over a year - presto - I had a keeper..

What does it matter

I would be more embarrassed to tell people my wife is a lawyer than an ex sex worker

I met mine when I was a youngster to be honest at 22, she was a cashier in a babnkok bar, not assed either way, she also assisted at a local school as a teaching assistant. In the grand scheme of things she probably slept for cash. However I have no problem how men met their wives, just the pathetic nature f lying to educated people that know they married a street walker. Hey just be up front by the replies here, even anonomysly some guys still cant admit it. BTW hope you have a long and happy married life.

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Edited December 27, 201411 yr by MrTee

I met my wife outside the Sofitel Hotel 15 yrs ago. I asked and she assisted me to understand atm machine. 'Was very diff then' she has 2 degrees and now works in KFC as a manager in control of European imports and exports. SHE HAS NEVER BEEN IN A BAR