How to Catch a Cheater?

[Cheesekraft]

I suspect my Thai GF is cheating on me because of a received text, in English, apologizing for missing her calls. No phone records of the calls. Recently there were several calls back and forth a couple of hours before she was supposedly with her sister; arriving to see me late. For personal reasons, I want to make certain she really is cheating before breaking up with her. How can I do that? I don't have time to follow her around all day.

[Jdiddy]

Waterboard her

[robblok]

Waterboard her

Get a cattle prod and use it on her till she tells it all.

Just make sure you don't damage her as she might go to the cops

And after that better watch yourself when sleeping you might end up without an important part of the male anatomy.

Edited January 8, 2015 by robblok

[uptheos]

If you suspect she's cheating on you, then it's already over.

Move on.

[Bakeman]

There are 8 women to every 1 man in Thailand. If you are concerned then your feelings are probably correct.

1 Down 7 to go I say!

[CharlieH]

Once the trust is gone, its over mate, dont waste anymore time or heartache, start again.

[Jdiddy]

If you really want to find out and have access to her phone, install a few spy aps on her phone like FlexiSpy that runs in the background intercepting phone calls, sms and social media communications and sends it all straight to you

[Costas2008]

OP, if you found the texts and calls...........She is cheating you.

What do you expect? A written confession?

Just say Bye Bye politely...........and kick her out.

Plenty of gorgeous chicks around.

If you have trouble finding a new one.......I can spare one or two of mine..............

[samsensam]

i have zero tolerance with girls messing me around.

if there is no trust you are wasting your time.

get rid and find someone you can trust. there are plenty out there.

[BookMan]

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OP, if you found the texts and calls...........She is cheating you.

What do you expect? A written confession?

Should be enough proof, what you have. I'd say cheater caught
You must already suspect something to be checking.She is deleting her outgoing call register, receives a SMS in English. I assume none of that is normal for her.

As costas says, do u expect a written confession?

If you really want to find out and have access to her phone, install a few spy aps on her phone like FlexiSpy that runs in the background intercepting phone calls, sms and social media communications and sends it all straight to you

Or if you must have 100% proof, then this.

[Crazy chef 1]

OP, if you found the texts and calls...........She is cheating you.

What do you expect? A written confession?

Just say Bye Bye politely...........and kick her out.

Plenty of gorgeous chicks around.

If you have trouble finding a new one.......I can spare one or two of mine..............

badger or gerbil???

but nonsense aside...talk to her and ask what's going on...than decide...

[Crazy chef 1]

vice versa could be painful...how to cheat a catcher...

[DP25]

Unless she has English speaking coworkers that she needs to talk to about work, she is either cheating on you or fishing around for other men.

[marko kok prong]

You could contact Stickman to do one of his investigations for you,if he still is in los.

[ryanhull]

I suspect my Thai GF is cheating on me because of a received text, in English, apologizing for missing her calls.

Didn't you call the number? or have I misread that...

[rijb]

It's probably just her brother.

[Soutpeel]

What a chicken shit and insecure the op is, if you suspect, sher probably is, and its over, ask her to her face, and if she gets all angry and defensive then you know its true and dump her

[sipi]

Thais can be peculiar when it comes to social media. My wife is constantly showing me weird stuff sent to her by her friends, and I mean weird. They always share this stuff around.

However, it seems the trust is already gone; and sometimes good old "gut-feeling" kicks in.

Edited January 8, 2015 by sipi

[realenglish1]

In agreement with most here If you think she is cheating get rid of her No reason to go on the bond of trust has been broken

Just tell her you know about everything and see what her reaction is I suspect she will get very defensive

[Neeeko]

Call that number from another phone and see who picks up..

[Straight8]

i have zero tolerance with girls messing me around.

if there is no trust you are wasting your time.

get rid and find someone you can trust. there are plenty out there.

Really?? I don't disagree with you that there are plenty out there, but a farang here, finding a thai partner, someone they can trust is not so easy. Many factors involved, and unless you chose or aim within your means, it will be a challenge.

If they don't remove themselves from dating sites, facebook etc, they will always be targets.

Who loves putting pics of themselves more than thai females..!!!!

[Garry]

If you really want to find out and have access to her phone, install a few spy aps on her phone like FlexiSpy that runs in the background intercepting phone calls, sms and social media communications and sends it all straight to you

I'm fairly certain if found out, he can be charged under the 'computer crimes act' in Thailand . I'm not saying don't do it, but be aware of the consequences if someone were to make a complaint

[Straight8]

You could contact Stickman to do one of his investigations for you,if he still is in los.

Good ol stick,, yes.. heard he was suppose to be done and dusted sometime early this year. Gotta catch up on his goss and see what's happening, but yes he would be an option if the OP was ok to pay for the service.

[mosquitobill]

Simple just watch her mouth and if her lips are moving she is lying

[AnotherOneAmerican]

Don't dump her, just cheat back.

Cheating is a Thai national pastime, good for all ages and all social classes.

[Gecko123]

Say what????

Somebody sends your girlfriend an English language text message and right away it's grounds for breaking up?

How do you know it wasn't the TrueVisions repair man or even the girlfriend's sister who left the "sorry I missed your call" msg?

[marquis22]

If you really want to find out and have access to her phone, install a few spy aps on her phone like FlexiSpy that runs in the background intercepting phone calls, sms and social media communications and sends it all straight to you

Does FlexiSpy translate Thai data into English if she has a Thai bf or she is a Git?

[Dragigon]

I did hire the services of a private investigators company for some similar case. I don't know if is what are you looking for.

You can contact them in this email [email protected]

The name of the company is Bangkok Protection Agency.

They really do a professional job and I was so happy with the results for my case.

I hope this info can help you and good luck.

[bender92]

Why are you surprised? She may actually be cheating on some other guy with you.

[Tatsujin]

You could contact Stickman to do one of his investigations for you,if he still is in los.

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