Test the issue. Rearrange things yourself. If there is objection then you have the chance to question. I have learned to eliminate "handy" places to deposit things. It seems to me Thais often never designate a specific place for almost anything. Hence a regular search for keys, handbags, documents, cell phones,etc, etc. But furniture? Only if I mention it is ever moved at all to clean under. DISCOVERY TIME !

Then I must be Thai because I scatter things about.....My Thai wife has a place for everything and kept in place - usually categorized by usefulness to what is next to it....I tend to scatter stuff...if, after enough time I don't put them away she will....or if unsure she'll ask me if I'm finished with it as a hint for me to put it away.....her purse, keys, etc are always in the same place - the phone wanders a bit, as does mine

When the planet stops moving, it will be unusual

She moves stuff around from place to place because she has nothing else to do

It is not only Thai women who do this

You should give her a reason to live if her children grew up, so she doesn't end up like the desperate housewife in Marianne Faithful's Ballad of Lucy Jordan.

My lady's like a kwai sometimes, but I've got head and skin like an elephant.

And we both love elephants (we both are a bit narcissistic)

A desperate need for change which remains suppressed.

Its because cleaning means juat moving things into the nearest place where they can't be seen anymore.

Give her a garden....Thais love to garden....

They probably left no other choice.

I asked my gf whether she wants a man or a car.

She took the car.

Maybe you were not "MAN' enough for her,people also marry because they love each other,a fact you seem to have overlooked.

My lady's like a kwai sometimes, but I've got head and skin like an elephant.

And we both love elephants (we both are a bit narcissistic)

You must make a most attractive couple,pray tell do they leave offerings of a religious nature around you,as your self description ,you sound a little like Ganesh the elephant god.

Yes, they give me all kinds of presents, food, flowers, Buddhist amulets and statues - when I dance.

My lady is from Surin, and she surely loves dancing elephants - as long as she's the boss.