Why are Western men so happy in Thailand ?

[berybert]

Well there you are, now you can tell us why you are so much happier here than living in your home countries.

If its just because its hot here all the time or the fact you can sleep with women 40 or 50 years younger than yourself. Or the fact you can eat and drink for less than 300 baht a day, maybe you cant afford to go back to the home land so are just trying to make the best of what you have.

Please don't be shy.

[lovelomsak]

Divorces are cheap. Wouldnot marry in Canada with their ancient divorce laws in this age of equality. Been married here twice since I retired . Can get out of a bad marriage here for the price of a new car in Canada. No need to loss everything

[Brit_Doggie]

Certainly hard to live back home moneywise,not to mention the darn rain and cold spells that last forever,and the cold shoulder from the ex so skipped out here making sure she couldn't attack my hidden funds.

[mesquite]

In the US I'm treated like the dirty old man that I am.

Here I'm treated like the king that I am.

[Costas2008]

Why should I be shy?

Yes I'm enjoying having a wife of 26 years younger than me.

Yes I'm enjoying the cheaper way of living.

Yes, I'm enjoying being treated like a rich man......although I'm not

Yes I'm enjoying the respect I receive from the others.........genuine or not.

Not sure about the weather.......too hot for me.....but both house and car have aircondition

[JLCrab]

I like living here because --after almost 40 years of always owning a car in the USA -- I maybe never have to own a car again ... and I also enjoy not having a wife because, even in Thailand, you can only marry one.

[lovelomsak]

I like living here because --after almost 40 years of always owning a car in the USA -- I maybe never have to own a car again ... and I also enjoy not having a wife because, even in Thailand, you can only marry one.

you can have mia nois and giks

[kannot]

Im much happier here as i can moan all day everyday, back in the Uk moaning was only bi weekly, now thanks to my good fortune I can moan incessantly.

[JLCrab]

I like living here because --after almost 40 years of always owning a car in the USA -- I maybe never have to own a car again ... and I also enjoy not having a wife because, even in Thailand, you can only marry one.

you can have mia nois and giks

It's the old saw: Someone says: I know a lot about marriage -- I've been married and divorced twice. Then the reply: You don't know sh&&t about marriage -- you've been married and divorced twice.

[lovelomsak]

I like living here because --after almost 40 years of always owning a car in the USA -- I maybe never have to own a car again ... and I also enjoy not having a wife because, even in Thailand, you can only marry one.

you can have mia nois and giks

It's the old saw: Someone says: I know a lot about marriage -- I've been married and divorced twice. Then the reply: You don't know sh&&t about marriage -- you've been married and divorced twice.

huh?

[Laughing Gravy]

Ha ha. I love this thread.

Great all round year weather. I am a SAD sufferer.

Generally nice and tolerant people.

Great and diverse food.

The cheapest high end hotels and restaurant's in the world IMHO

Peace and quiet in the Mooban after 7.00pm with no hooligans on street corners.

Really affordable Vets, allowing me to have more than 1 dog.

A great wife who is Thai (Better say that one)

Beautiful ladies everywhere.

Cheap Petrol and Diesel.

Well behaved children who don't roam the streets in gangs shouting obscenities at you.

Not feeling threatened by other males walking around or out in pubs.

The ability to save some money and have a great lifestyle (the envy of all my friends in my birth country)

I could go on but there is a few. In fact it made me smile thinking about them

[topt]

I like living here because --after almost 40 years of always owning a car in the USA -- I maybe never have to own a car again ... and I also enjoy not having a wife because, even in Thailand, you can only marry one.

you can have mia nois and giks

It's the old saw: Someone says: I know a lot about marriage -- I've been married and divorced twice. Then the reply: You don't know sh&&t about marriage -- you've been married and divorced twice.

huh?

Just think about it - although 3 or 4 times probably more relevant

[Bernard Flint]

Hope you are talking about 70 yo minimum, or else you might get into trouble. I have never had sex with someone 40/50 years younger than myself.

I am happy here, because i hate the uk now,and i am a half full glass person and do all things in moderation

[SoiBiker]

The weather, the food, the culture, the people, the experience of living in a completely different part of the world, the challenge of learning a new language and adapting to a new lifestyle, the ease with which one can travel to a whole host of cool places, the fact that people don't take life too seriously, the way things are simpler than they were back where I'm from, the lower cost of living, the craziness of it all, beer with ice outdoors on a warm evening, weekends at the beach etc. etc.

[samsensam]

i spend the half the year here and half back home and am equally happy in both. both have pros and cons and both their pleasures and frustrations.

i'm happy. job done.

[nikmar]

i like that my kid plays outside with his friends until long after its gone dark. He couldnt do that back where Im from.

[thehelmsman]

The weather, the food, the culture, the people, the experience of living in a completely different part of the world, the challenge of learning a new language and adapting to a new lifestyle, the ease with which one can travel to a whole host of cool places, the fact that people don't take life too seriously, the way things are simpler than they were back where I'm from, the lower cost of living, the craziness of it all, beer with ice outdoors on a warm evening, weekends at the beach etc. etc.

keep posting like this and you'll be the kool kid once again......Nicely and simply stated.

[Seastallion]

Here, my vices cost me $7 per day.

Back home, $40.

Here, I can live ok off the rent of my house back home.

There, I'd have to work.

Back "home", Wifey gets homesick, and no way to make gaeng som fish stomach curry.

Here, she gets NZ-longings but there's fish stomach curry just around the corner to compensate.

No brainer.

[georgemandm]

At less they don't have a go at you like all the di?k heads did to me .

Yes I am happy here for sure and so what if I have a young lady friend to take care of me , makes most of the man very jealous of me when I walk around and yes you out there will say he will do his money , well know I will not because I have to much money and will never ever lose it to a thai lady and if I do it is my money to lose .

I am not that stupid do all my money and what I lose here to a thai is my money and no one else.

Yes it cost f??k all to live here and no I don't go for bar lady's at all I don't need to I am a very good sweet talk .

[jacky54]

Its a cheap hot corrupt shithole what is there to not kike?

[Cypress Hill]

It's dirt cheap to live in Bangkok, the food is heavenly, the people are nice (if you don't get too deep) and the women can be an amusing distraction provided you don't take them too seriously.

What's not to love?

[villagefarang]

This view has something to do with me being happy in Thailand, among many other things.

[kevvy]

It is amazing what photo shop can do

[RichieHuaHin]

It is amazing what photo shop can do

You sound really jealous.

[NeverSure]

Well, as they say, "All's happy that ends happy."

[Seastallion]

It is amazing what photo shop can do

Envious a bit, or have you never seen a panorama like that? Thailand has plenty.

Nice one Villagefarang

[wow64]

The locals are very flexible and accomodating.

Sent from my c64

[Squeegee]

At less they don't have a go at you like all the di?k heads did to me .

Yes I am happy here for sure and so what if I have a young lady friend to take care of me , makes most of the man very jealous of me when I walk around and yes you out there will say he will do his money , well know I will not because I have to much money and will never ever lose it to a thai lady and if I do it is my money to lose .

I am not that stupid do all my money and what I lose here to a thai is my money and no one else.

Yes it cost f??k all to live here and no I don't go for bar lady's at all I don't need to I am a very good sweet talk .

You started your 'positive' topic by criticizing others. Is that how you sweet talk? This topic is the real deal, has humour and is open to all. That's how it's done.

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I'm happy to be in Thailand because I love the late night city vibe; because a BKK commute is like passing through a beauty parade; because on the way down the soi on the back of a motorbike taxi I am reminded how utterly tedious daily life can be back home; so many things we'd be here all day to list them all.

I'm happy to be in Thailand because I love the Leo and plate of delicious inexpensive food whilst melancholy luktung drifts over the paddies into the night; because the love for home truly shines in the countryside; because eating bugs and being eaten by them is almost as much fun as avoiding stepping into the water whilst rat-hunting in the rice fields; because of the morlam sing at the end of the onion harvest; because of the huge Bonfie rockets shot into the clear blue skies; the hundreds of krathong lighting up the lake and lantern lights of love and friendship trailing off to Heaven on a magical night in November.

Just because, really. Too much to say otherwise.

[Aussieroaming]

Happy because I can be

[Songhua]

We're avid road trippers and are constantly heading off in one direction or another for a few days or even weeks.

The great thing about Thailand is that it's full of surprises - there's always something different or unusual to see or experience. It's the people you come across, the food you eat, the places you visit, the things that amaze you or make your jaw drop, the things you never knew existed (or, in some cases didn't know were even possible lol).

We do have some favourites but even those places we can go to many times without ever having to see or do exactly the same things twice.

We have lived (ie for extended periods) in Phuket twice, Bangkok three times and now Chonburi, have worked, not worked and retired, and have thoroughly enjoyed our time in all of them. Sometimes you have to make yourself fit rather than expecting it to fit you ... no sense whinging - that's all part of it. The fun and excitement part of it doesn't always just land in your lap.

One down side is that. as hard as we try to accept that our kids, now both in their twenties, have their own lives in Australia we miss them terribly as we have always been a very close family. For that reason, we're considering spending about four months of each year 'back home' - but our lives in Thailand will always be just as happy as they are there.