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Maybe after haveing a pushy screaming wife in the west and losing almost everything i owned and paid for. I thought , next wife i get will have to be smarter than me so she can help me not parasite off me. Self sufficient so doesnt need my money. Honest so i dont have to sleep with 1 eye open. Reliable.Soft voice so i enjoy the sound of her voice. Good looking so i enjoy looking at her. Want to make her man happy.

I knew,impossible i can get all these things from a western woman . My Thai wife is all of these things and more. After 10 years together,i know i am the luckiest man alive. Right time ,right place. I wish everybody was as lucky as i am.

I always tell her " im going to die before her so i can follow her when she dies and go with her into the next life. Then we can have longer together next life"

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Maybe after haveing a pushy screaming wife in the west and losing almost everything i owned and paid for. I thought , next wife i get will have to be smarter than me so she can help me not parasite off me. Self sufficient so doesnt need my money. Honest so i dont have to sleep with 1 eye open. Reliable.Soft voice so i enjoy the sound of her voice. Good looking so i enjoy looking at her. Want to make her man happy.

I knew,impossible i can get all these things from a western woman . My Thai wife is all of these things and more. After 10 years together,i know i am the luckiest man alive. Right time ,right place. I wish everybody was as lucky as i am.

I always tell her " im going to die before her so i can follow her when she dies and go with her into the next life. Then we can have longer together next life"

Cheers Cobbler

Obviously still bitter but

at some point you loved

your ex-wife. You can't tar

all Western women with

the same brush.

What happens if you

suddenly decide your

Thai wife is the devil

incarnate? Does that

mean all Thai women

will make your hate

list too?

Millions of Western men

are perfectly happy with

Western women.

no choice, 555
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Maybe after haveing a pushy screaming wife in the west and losing almost everything i owned and paid for. I thought , next wife i get will have to be smarter than me so she can help me not parasite off me. Self sufficient so doesnt need my money. Honest so i dont have to sleep with 1 eye open. Reliable.Soft voice so i enjoy the sound of her voice. Good looking so i enjoy looking at her. Want to make her man happy.

I knew,impossible i can get all these things from a western woman . My Thai wife is all of these things and more. After 10 years together,i know i am the luckiest man alive. Right time ,right place. I wish everybody was as lucky as i am.

I always tell her " im going to die before her so i can follow her when she dies and go with her into the next life. Then we can have longer together next life"

Cheers Cobbler

Same Same 11years

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When I have a big problem these days, a Thai girl is usually the root cause of it so I discuss it with her. In some cases a few years back it involved a court case involving a large property. In another case a serious medical issue. All in Thai. Not boring.

As far as my personal 'mental stimulation' these days it involves international diplomatic treaties at the UN in New York and Geneva, the EU Single Market, and a couple of Court cases in the US at the Appellate and Supreme Court level. Most people in the US don't know about it or would be able to discuss it so I certainly would not expect a Thai girl to be able go discuss it whether she speaks English or not.

I never have problems with Thai girls. They're not as clever as they think they are. The tricky ones generally show their hand early and often so it's easy to steer clear of them, or manipulate them by leading them to believe they're fooling you.

I see -- I was not talking about 'where to go out for dinner' type problems. Court case involving significant property. Severe illness. These things happen in life no matter where you are. However, glad hear that you have a life without any such problems.

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Hahaha never happen. My wife is 1 in a million.

Dont worry i know good and bad everywhere.

I know many western men stay with there western wives because they know they will l9se big time if they leave. So they live a very oppressed life.

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Hahaha never happen. My wife is 1 in a million.

Dont worry i know good and bad everywhere.

I know many western men stay with there western wives because they know they will l9se big time if they leave. So they live a very oppressed life.

No........she is 2 in a million Don't forget my Thai wife

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Maybe after haveing a pushy screaming wife in the west and losing almost everything i owned and paid for. I thought , next wife i get will have to be smarter than me so she can help me not parasite off me. Self sufficient so doesnt need my money. Honest so i dont have to sleep with 1 eye open. Reliable.Soft voice so i enjoy the sound of her voice. Good looking so i enjoy looking at her. Want to make her man happy.

I knew,impossible i can get all these things from a western woman . My Thai wife is all of these things and more. After 10 years together,i know i am the luckiest man alive. Right time ,right place. I wish everybody was as lucky as i am.

I always tell her " im going to die before her so i can follow her when she dies and go with her into the next life. Then we can have longer together next life"

Cheers Cobbler

Obviously still bitter but

at some point you loved

your ex-wife. You can't tar

all Western women with

the same brush.

What happens if you

suddenly decide your

Thai wife is the devil

incarnate? Does that

mean all Thai women

will make your hate

list too?

Millions of Western men

are perfectly happy with

Western women.

impossible she is 1 in a million. I know good and bad everywhere. Many western men live very oppressed lives ,too afraid to leave there western wives. They know they will lose nearly everything they have worked for.

As my father says,its my fault i married the woman 555.

Im not bitter anymore,but dont expect me to respect or trust a person who holds that much power over me. #21father's google that and see for yourself the stats in australia. Far too scarey

Cheers Cobbler

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Maybe after haveing a pushy screaming wife in the west and losing almost everything i owned and paid for. I thought , next wife i get will have to be smarter than me so she can help me not parasite off me. Self sufficient so doesnt need my money. Honest so i dont have to sleep with 1 eye open. Reliable.Soft voice so i enjoy the sound of her voice. Good looking so i enjoy looking at her. Want to make her man happy.

I knew,impossible i can get all these things from a western woman . My Thai wife is all of these things and more. After 10 years together,i know i am the luckiest man alive. Right time ,right place. I wish everybody was as lucky as i am.

I always tell her " im going to die before her so i can follow her when she dies and go with her into the next life. Then we can have longer together next life"

Cheers Cobbler

Obviously still bitter but

at some point you loved

your ex-wife. You can't tar

all Western women with

the same brush.

What happens if you

suddenly decide your

Thai wife is the devil

incarnate? Does that

mean all Thai women

will make your hate

list too?

Millions of Western men

are perfectly happy with

Western women.

impossible she is 1 in a million. I know good and bad everywhere. Many western men live very oppressed lives ,too afraid to leave there western wives. They know they will lose nearly everything they have worked for.

As my father says,its my fault i married the woman 555.

Im not bitter anymore,but dont expect me to respect or trust a person who holds that much power over me. #21father's google that and see for yourself the stats in australia. Far too scarey

Cheers Cobbler

Oh how unusual..... A

farang who thinks his

is 'different'. Look, pal,

no one's saying that

you won't be happy for

ever because you

might be.

All I'm saying is that

countless Western men

have been where you

are and come out the

other end distraught

enough to join the

'flying club'

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After 21 years, three relationships and over 50 pay for play adventures I seriously think if you are looking for a deep meaningful relationship, then a Thai woman is unlikely to provide one. There are exceptions of course but most are shallow, illogical, greedy and after a time very boring. Makes no difference if they are hi so or from Issan.

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Maybe after haveing a pushy screaming wife in the west and losing almost everything i owned and paid for. I thought , next wife i get will have to be smarter than me so she can help me not parasite off me. Self sufficient so doesnt need my money. Honest so i dont have to sleep with 1 eye open. Reliable.Soft voice so i enjoy the sound of her voice. Good looking so i enjoy looking at her. Want to make her man happy.

I knew,impossible i can get all these things from a western woman . My Thai wife is all of these things and more. After 10 years together,i know i am the luckiest man alive. Right time ,right place. I wish everybody was as lucky as i am.

I always tell her " im going to die before her so i can follow her when she dies and go with her into the next life. Then we can have longer together next life"

Cheers Cobbler

Obviously still bitter but

at some point you loved

your ex-wife. You can't tar

all Western women with

the same brush.

What happens if you

suddenly decide your

Thai wife is the devil

incarnate? Does that

mean all Thai women

will make your hate

list too?

Millions of Western men

are perfectly happy with

Western women.

impossible she is 1 in a million. I know good and bad everywhere. Many western men live very oppressed lives ,too afraid to leave there western wives. They know they will lose nearly everything they have worked for.

As my father says,its my fault i married the woman 555.

Im not bitter anymore,but dont expect me to respect or trust a person who holds that much power over me. #21father's google that and see for yourself the stats in australia. Far too scarey

Cheers Cobbler

Oh how unusual..... A

farang who thinks his

is 'different'. Look, pal,

no one's saying that

you won't be happy for

ever because you

might be.

All I'm saying is that

countless Western men

have been where you

are and come out the

other end distraught

enough to join the

'flying club'

Oh how unusual . A western feminist who cant stand to see a western man happy 5555 just praying he will end up crawling back to a western woman5555 . Or even better maybe u wish the 28000 ozy me who live permanently in thailand will join the flying club as you put it. Actually now that you mention it, i have a pilots license, i can also fly paraglider and hang glider. Gooood luck with that oh bitter feminist. Xxx

Cheers Cobblet

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After 21 years, three relationships and over 50 pay for play adventures I seriously think if you are looking for a deep meaningful relationship, then a Thai woman is unlikely to provide one. There are exceptions of course but most are shallow, illogical, greedy and after a time very boring. Makes no difference if they are hi so or from Issan.

you make me feel even more lucky after reading your sad post. I wish you can find a wife as good as mine. Shes 1 in a million.

Maybe try outside the bars. Just a thought. Over 50 pay for play,as you said,for sure you dont need me to tell you.if youre looking for gold diggers youre looking in the right place.

Cheers Cobbler

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As the guy above says, it's all what works out for the individual. He wants a girl who communicates well in English. This is Thailand. I prefer to be with Thai women who don't speak English. Completely different dynamic. Relationships are visceral. It's either there or it isn't. Throw out the checklist.

One of the plusses for me with my TGF is that she has very good english ability which means we can have meaningfull conversations when cultural differences are raised wai2.gif

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As the guy above says, it's all what works out for the individual. He wants a girl who communicates well in English. This is Thailand. I prefer to be with Thai women who don't speak English. Completely different dynamic. Relationships are visceral. It's either there or it isn't. Throw out the checklist.

One of the plusses for me with my TGF is that she has very good english ability which means we can have meaningfull conversations when cultural differences are raised wai2.gif

That's nice. We have meaningful conversations in Thai when a meaningful conversation is on the agenda.

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Hahaha never happen. My wife is 1 in a million.

Dont worry i know good and bad everywhere.

I know many western men stay with there western wives because they know they will l9se big time if they leave. So they live a very oppressed life.

No........she is 2 in a million Don't forget my Thai wife

And me. 3 in a million. And there will always someone on here who will be jealous that I have my diamond.
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As the guy above says, it's all what works out for the individual. He wants a girl who communicates well in English. This is Thailand. I prefer to be with Thai women who don't speak English. Completely different dynamic. Relationships are visceral. It's either there or it isn't. Throw out the checklist.

One of the plusses for me with my TGF is that she has very good english ability which means we can have meaningfull conversations when cultural differences are raised wai2.gif

That's nice. We have meaningful conversations in Thai when a meaningful conversation is on the agenda.
JLCRABS in english , not thai.

Cheers cobbler

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Hahaha never happen. My wife is 1 in a million.

Dont worry i know good and bad everywhere.

I know many western men stay with there western wives because they know they will l9se big time if they leave. So they live a very oppressed life.

No........she is 2 in a million Don't forget my Thai wife

And me. 3 in a million. And there will always someone on here who will be jealous that I have my diamond.
mate i think we have some trolling fems here. Fems hate to see western men happy 555. Just wind em up and smell the bras burning with some leg hairs 555

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Oh how unusual . A western feminist who cant stand to see a western man happy 5555 just praying he will end up crawling back to a western woman5555 . Or even better maybe u wish the 28000 ozy me who live permanently in thailand will join the flying club as you put it. Actually now that you mention it, i have a pilots license, i can also fly paraglider and hang glider. Gooood luck with that oh bitter feminist. Xxx

Cheers Cobbler

Hahahahhaaaaa

A Western feminist??

Hardly! I'm just not

stupid enough to paint

broad strokes when

talking about Western

women just because i

couldn't find lasting

happiness with one.

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As the guy above says, it's all what works out for the individual. He wants a girl who communicates well in English. This is Thailand. I prefer to be with Thai women who don't speak English. Completely different dynamic. Relationships are visceral. It's either there or it isn't. Throw out the checklist.

One of the plusses for me with my TGF is that she has very good english ability which means we can have meaningfull conversations when cultural differences are raised wai2.gif

That's nice. We have meaningful conversations in Thai when a meaningful conversation is on the agenda.
JLCRABS in english , not thai.

Cheers cobbler

Call it any way you see it -- there are a lot more female fish in the Thai sea that speak Thai but not English than Thai girls who speak English.,

I've many times -- when it was noted that the Thai girl did not speak English -- been asked: Well then, how do you communicate?

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Oh well let me say it again then,as i did b4. I know good and bad everywhere. However ,knowing the stats as i do in oz Its far too scarey to go down that road again. Best decision i ever made and that was 10 years ago. I just dont understand why a man cant be happy if another man is happy. However if it happened to be a fem i would definitely understand that.

Cheers Cobbler

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As the guy above says, it's all what works out for the individual. He wants a girl who communicates well in English. This is Thailand. I prefer to be with Thai women who don't speak English. Completely different dynamic. Relationships are visceral. It's either there or it isn't. Throw out the checklist.
One of the plusses for me with my TGF is that she has very good english ability which means we can have meaningfull conversations when cultural differences are raised wai2.gif

That's nice. We have meaningful conversations in Thai when a meaningful conversation is on the agenda.
JLCRABS in english , not thai.

Cheers cobbler

Call it any way you see it -- there are a lot more female fish in the Thai sea that speak Thai but not English than Thai girls who speak English.,

I've many times -- when it was noted that the Thai girl did not speak English -- been asked: Well then, how do you communicate?

Amazing hu. Many girls in thai speak thai than english. Love your humor Buddy

Cheers Cobbler

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LOL! Got your hands full there, YS.

Looks like the simple lads are out in force.

Don't waste your time employing logic, bro - they'll never grasp that just because THEIR marriages to Western women didn't work out, it doesn't mean that every guy married to a Westerner is miserable.

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As the guy above says, it's all what works out for the individual. He wants a girl who communicates well in English. This is Thailand. I prefer to be with Thai women who don't speak English. Completely different dynamic. Relationships are visceral. It's either there or it isn't. Throw out the checklist.

One of the plusses for me with my TGF is that she has very good english ability which means we can have meaningfull conversations when cultural differences are raised wai2.gif

That's nice. We have meaningful conversations in Thai when a meaningful conversation is on the agenda.

It is one of the things that gets to me on these threads. Why do they have to speak English? If they were living in England that would be expected, but here we are talking about living in Thailand. A number of posters go on and on about their girlfriends/wives being able to communicate well in English blah blah. But if those posters live here, they should not be demeaning or disparaging others' wives who speak little or no English or those foreigners who married them. They should learn the bloody language of the country within which they live. To me it does not reflect at all well on those posters. Are they even trying to fit in? Are they so lazy they cannot be bothered to learn the language?

Rant over.

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And where, may I ask, did you meet this '1 in a million' ?

I have my suspicions, but pretty sure it was not where you would say where it was.

another non believer. Thinks all thai girls come from the bar. 5555. Maybe they are born there? Do you think so? 555 No thai women are accountants,lawyers,rich. Nope ,all bar girls right 555

Cheers Cobbler

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I just love this thread. So many people standing in line to explain to me how i am wrong. My life should be miserable. I couldnt possibily be happy with an intelligent thai wife. Oh you people are making my day. Such narrow minds. 55555 ok continue. Cheers Cobbler

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And where, may I ask, did you meet this '1 in a million' ?

I have my suspicions, but pretty sure it was not where you would say where it was.

another non believer. Thinks all thai girls come from the bar. 5555. Maybe they are born there? Do you think so? 555 No thai women are accountants,lawyers,rich. Nope ,all bar girls right 555

Cheers Cobbler

That hardly answered the question.

I am pretty sure she is not a lawyer or accountant !

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26 and 77, I put my offer on the table !

You can't beat true love !

True love? That terms seems almost humorous when mentioned on TV. A true relationship takes many forms. Male-female relationships are quite similar to any business or contractual relationship. Although it may be preferable to some to have an emotional offer reciprocated, an offer of assets can also be lasting. It depends greatly upon what each partner is willing to offer and accept.

True love, that sounds funny, like an adult saying i believe in father Christmas. I have an extremely good relationship with my partner of 10 years and we have a son aged 8, she can't speak English but i can speak Thai and my son speaks both languages. Our age difference is 27 years and even though we get on very well i would laugh at anyone saying we are in love.

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I just love this thread. So many people standing in line to explain to me how i am wrong. My life should be miserable. I couldnt possibily be happy with an intelligent thai wife. Oh you people are making my day. Such narrow minds. 55555 ok continue. Cheers Cobbler

Who's saying your life

should be miserable?

Why the persecution

complex?

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