Wow my first visit to Thailand and im in love

[Forbenj1]

"I have read so many horror stories"

All on TV and not a peep until he gets a boner for a soapy girl and then he signs up for the first post

Didnt have anything to post about before .... Unless her hotel name tag was part of an outfit I really think she had another job ... If I find someone else in town is there still not a very good chance she has been paid for play at some point?

[SoiBiker]

Sorry it's not more interesting mate ... I heard all the stories and warnings I just never believed these girls could be so charming.

I mean she even had to leave a couple hours the day I was leaving and was going to meet me in town after i had already checked out. I had not paid a dime in 3 days except for 1000baht to let her leave. If she was just suckering me i don't think she would do that.

@ never die .... That's what's driving me nuts. I'm out of town for 3 more days before I see the wife. Several times I have seen myself just spilling my guts and if she is mad oh well if she digs in and makes things better i will feel horrible. Even if my first girl doesn't make the cut I have the feeling that girls like her in better jobs are everywhere.

Glad you`ve fallen in love with a soapy girl and decided to make a clean start.

I hope it's not a washout.

[Forbenj1]

I know I know it's a slippery slope

[cyberfarang]

I will heed the advice to not send more. But I'm sure when/if I see her again I will be compelled to help her.

You are a good man. Ignore most of the other posters advice. This girl sounds like a gem, a one in a million catch for someone like you. If you want to keep her send at least 50000 baht a month and even that is less then she deserves and not forgetting all Thai women love gold, so don`t be cheap, buy her rings and necklaces nothing under 300000 baht if you really want to impress her. Oh yes, I almost forgot her family. I think a new house for the parents would be a nice token of your sincerity and love for this girl.

You are a lucky man. Good luck and maybe you`ll invite me to the wedding.

[smokie36]

Enjoy the ride.....

Ahh the white charger...I love those...the suspense...the race.....and then when they fall off the bewilderment and shame.

It's glorious!

[Forbenj1]

Just cause I fall for a pay for play does not mean im dumb enough to invite you to wedding .... Will 14 carrot jewelry do or does it need to be 24k? Ha! Honestly was hoping a couple of Answers we be more like ... Hey if you can get her out of the industry she will love you even more for it because these girls are only there because they feel they have no other option and hate it .... So much for wishful thinking I guess?

[rgs2001uk]

She lub you too mutt.

[smokie36]

She lub you too mutt.

You and me both too...but I guess we just made good choices.

Or are we really more handsome than most?....probably both.

Khrup!

Edit: Circumventing the word censor of course.

Edited June 15, 2016 by smokie36

[canuckamuck]

I know I know it's a slippery slope

A bit racist there mate?

[Forbenj1]

Soapy? Slippery? No racist there ...

[Squeegee]

The OP claims he's read many horror stories, apparently he's even heard "all the stories and warnings" and yet he goes on to disqualify himself as follows:

Honestly was hoping a couple of Answers we be more like ... Hey if you can get her out of the industry she will love you even more for it because these girls are only there because they feel they have no other option and hate it .... So much for wishful thinking I guess?

So which is it, troll or bloody fool?

OP you sound utterly clueless so there may be a few stories and warnings you missed.

Here isn't the place to show off how well you can fall from the top of a Christmas tree (in Thailand they're called balconies). It's better to go read up on the Readers Submissions of the stickmanbangkok website then come back here later when you're more suitably cynical (in all seriousness, knowledgeable based on others' experiences as well as your own).

Then you won't get flamed just for innocently starting a conversation about something new that's caught your eye. Instead we'll find something else to flame you about.

What, no tip? You tight arse.

[PS. Clueless not because you quite rightly suspect some of these ladies are partner material for some folks, but because you are missing simple schoolboy stuff.]

Edited June 15, 2016 by Squeegee

[cyberfarang]

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[Forbenj1]

The OP claims he's read many horror stories, apparently he's even heard "all the stories and warnings" and yet he goes on to disqualify himself as follows:

Honestly was hoping a couple of Answers we be more like ... Hey if you can get her out of the industry she will love you even more for it because these girls are only there because they feel they have no other option and hate it .... So much for wishful thinking I guess?

So which is it, troll or bloody fool?

OP you sound utterly clueless so there may be a few stories and warnings you missed.

Here isn't the place to show off how well you can fall from the top of a Christmas tree (in Thailand they're called balconies). It's better to go read up on the Readers Submissions of the stickmanbangkok website then come back here later when you're more suitably cynical (in all seriousness, knowledgeable based on others' experiences as well as your own).

Then you won't get flamed just for innocently starting a conversation about something new that's caught your eye. Instead we'll find something else to flame you about.

What, no tip? You tight arse.

[PS. Clueless not because you quite rightly suspect some of these ladies are partner material for some folks, but because you are missing simple schoolboy stuff.]

I've read a lot of sticky with stuff like his top ten mistakes. All you read is negative. There has to be some positives out there. I expect the flaming. I really am not new to the game just new to se Asia. I think the folks trying to tell me to look outside the sex trade are just a naive to where these girls are and have been. If there are diamonds in the rough I think this girl is one. I understand there may be none and I am not trying to convince anyone they are wrong. I've never seen a girl that paid for her own stuff and never asked for anything and spent days spoiling you like a king. I mean sure I paid admissions to zoos and dinner but phone plans and seven eleven drinks were paid for before I knew she was Checking out. I just don't see how it could be that these girls could have figured out how to stay so sweet if they were really hardened professionals.

[cyberfarang]

The OP claims he's read many horror stories, apparently he's even heard "all the stories and warnings" and yet he goes on to disqualify himself as follows:

Honestly was hoping a couple of Answers we be more like ... Hey if you can get her out of the industry she will love you even more for it because these girls are only there because they feel they have no other option and hate it .... So much for wishful thinking I guess?

So which is it, troll or bloody fool?

OP you sound utterly clueless so there may be a few stories and warnings you missed.

Here isn't the place to show off how well you can fall from the top of a Christmas tree (in Thailand they're called balconies). It's better to go read up on the Readers Submissions of the stickmanbangkok website then come back here later when you're more suitably cynical (in all seriousness, knowledgeable based on others' experiences as well as your own).

Then you won't get flamed just for innocently starting a conversation about something new that's caught your eye. Instead we'll find something else to flame you about.

What, no tip? You tight arse.

[PS. Clueless not because you quite rightly suspect some of these ladies are partner material for some folks, but because you are missing simple schoolboy stuff.]

I've read a lot of sticky with stuff like his top ten mistakes. All you read is negative. There has to be some positives out there. I expect the flaming. I really am not new to the game just new to se Asia. I think the folks trying to tell me to look outside the sex trade are just a naive to where these girls are and have been. If there are diamonds in the rough I think this girl is one. I understand there may be none and I am not trying to convince anyone they are wrong. I've never seen a girl that paid for her own stuff and never asked for anything and spent days spoiling you like a king. I mean sure I paid admissions to zoos and dinner but phone plans and seven eleven drinks were paid for before I knew she was Checking out. I just don't see how it could be that these girls could have figured out how to stay so sweet if they were really hardened professionals.

Good luck.

[sipi]

An unhappy marriage and a soapy girl.

Living the dream.

[tonray]

Just cause I fall for a pay for play does not mean im dumb enough to invite you to wedding .... Will 14 carrot jewelry do or does it need to be 24k? Ha! Honestly was hoping a couple of Answers we be more like ... Hey if you can get her out of the industry she will love you even more for it because these girls are only there because they feel they have no other option and hate it .... So much for wishful thinking I guess?

You had better save the carrots for the reception appetizers and stick with real gems if you love her.

[mca]

I know I know it's a slippery slope

A bit racist there mate?

I think he meant slippery soap mate. Bloody auto correcting spellcheckers!

[neverdie]

Did you check for the meat and 2 veg ?

I wonder if he will buy her a soapy salon?

[neverdie]

An unhappy marriage and a soapy girl.

Living the dream.

All he needs to do is invest some money into his own soapatorium and start writing e novels about how much he knows about everything.

[Forbenj1]

Okay so I hate to eat crow so soon but she just sent me pics of her wrecked scooter and her busted up leg! If money request follows I'll already have to eat my words. Have a laugh guys ... Have a laugh...

[neverdie]

Okay so I hate to eat crow so soon but she just sent me pics of her wrecked scooter and her busted up leg! If money request follows I'll already have to eat my words. Have a laugh guys ... Have a laugh...

555555555

Haven't stopped since you posted the OP.

Are you any relation of 'where you stay''s

[Forbenj1]

If she asks for money he is prolly my dad and brother.

[tandor]

A troll in love lust.

In my case 'rust'.

[thairay]

Just cause I fall for a pay for play does not mean im dumb enough to invite you to wedding .... Will 14 carrot jewelry do or does it need to be 24k? Ha! Honestly was hoping a couple of Answers we be more like ... Hey if you can get her out of the industry she will love you even more for it because these girls are only there because they feel they have no other option and hate it .... So much for wishful thinking I guess?

Hey, if you can get her out of the industry [industry 555], she will ,,,,Ah bo..ocks i cant be assed bet she can though

[SantiSuk]

Newbie posts in Pub&Ents forum and some TVF members seem to treat him seriously. Easy to see who the plonkers are here.

Why don't y'all start a club where each member has to write a new "I've fallen for a P4P girl, can this be love" thread so you can exercise your hobby?

[canuckamuck]

Soapy? Slippery? No racist there ...

Thought you were making a funny about and Asian soapy shops and Slippery slopes.

There's material for a pretty good joke in there.

[i claudius]

Lets hope it has a HAPPY ENDING

[NickJ]

I know her as well.....she never lies.

And shacking up with a squeaky clean prostitute has its advantages!!!!

Edited June 16, 2016 by NickJ

[Merylhighground]

I'm waiting for the OP to get all angry and start to have a pop at all the 'old men' who aren't getting all the young HiSo crumpet he is for 'free' and rattling about how his 'gym honed young physique' is irresistible to the cream of Thai womanhood ..against the 'flabby physiques' of the TV membership.....

That's the usual MO...... I wonder if this is the same bozo/troll who was worried about sexting some 'real estate' lass a month or so ago......

[NancyL]

Newbie posts in Pub&Ents forum and some TVF members seem to treat him seriously. Easy to see who the plonkers are here.

Why don't y'all start a club where each member has to write a new "I've fallen for a P4P girl, can this be love" thread so you can exercise your hobby?

Now, in all fairness, the poor chap did initially post in the general forum but was soon escorted into the welcoming environs of the Pub.