The poisonous Brother in Law

[Odysseus123]

11 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

Really good to know you are still with us. There was a time a while back,,,

 

I'll keep 'em crossed for Feb'.

 

The BIL thread seemed to ring true with so many. As well as that there was real support and empathy rather than ridicule and sniping. Although there were a couple of 'gate-crashers' they were quickly delt with.

 

Good luck for the future.

Wise Old Owl.

 

I agree.There was a sense of comradeship-of something shared rather then a daily dollop of schadenfreude which (unfortunately) is often ones's lot there.

 

Just to keep folks informed...you may recall that I mentioned an infection which was consuming what was left of my leg.

 

It turns out to be MRSA and it is a hell of a thing to treat necessitating huge amounts of bed rest..so naturally I turn to see what my friends are doing on TV..

 

Once that is cleared up then it is on to the heart..

 

The Aussies are doing okay..altho' I wished they smiled more...

 

THE BEER IS GOOD..lots of boutique breweries now and the wine's not bad either...

[Andrew Dwyer]

I second that!

+ 1

[thaibeachlovers]

5 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

Hey Old Hippy!

 

I have looked for the old posters several times and have had one or two light hearted chats with George on sundry topics..

 

 

Any idea how the Dark Lord is? haven't heard from him for ages.

[Been there done that]

5 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

Wise Old Owl.

 

I agree.There was a sense of comradeship-of something shared rather then a daily dollop of schadenfreude which (unfortunately) is often ones's lot there.

 

Just to keep folks informed...you may recall that I mentioned an infection which was consuming what was left of my leg.

 

It turns out to be MRSA and it is a hell of a thing to treat necessitating huge amounts of bed rest..so naturally I turn to see what my friends are doing on TV..

 

Once that is cleared up then it is on to the heart..

 

The Aussies are doing okay..altho' I wished they smiled more...

 

THE BEER IS GOOD..lots of boutique breweries now and the wine's not bad either...

Drinking alcohol while you have heartissues, not very smart.

[Odysseus123]

8 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Any idea how the Dark Lord is? haven't heard from him for ages.

The last I heard was that he was lining himself up for a good job and leading the life of Riley (I jest) but that was some months ago.....

[rhodie]

9 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

The last I heard was that he was lining himself up for a good job and leading the life of Riley (I jest) but that was some months ago.....

Good to hear you are doing well Ody. Good luck in Feb and keep us posted.

[Odysseus123]

14 hours ago, rhodie said:

Good to hear you are doing well Ody. Good luck in Feb and keep us posted.

Hey Rhodie...good to hear from you-I

knew that you were still lurking out there somewhere!

 

That means that most of the gang are still here which,after all the help you guys gave me,is a very good thing.

 

I am 64 today.There was a time there when I did not think that I was gonna make it....

[Andrew Dwyer]

Happy Birthday Ody

[Been there done that]

6 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

Hey Rhodie...good to hear from you-I

knew that you were still lurking out there somewhere!

 

That means that most of the gang are still here which,after all the help you guys gave me,is a very good thing.

 

I am 64 today.There was a time there when I did not think that I was gonna make it....

God must have a plan for you.

[rhodie]

8 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

Hey Rhodie...good to hear from you-I

knew that you were still lurking out there somewhere!

 

That means that most of the gang are still here which,after all the help you guys gave me,is a very good thing.

 

I am 64 today.There was a time there when I did not think that I was gonna make it....

Well, I hope there are many more ahead for you. Look after yourself mate and have a great day. 

[Odysseus123]

18 hours ago, Andrew Dwyer said:

Happy Birthday Ody

Thanks Andy!

 

I must say that the hansum fella in the photo bears a striking resemblance to my mate "Bruce."

[Scott]

Inflammatory post and replies removed.  

[George FmplesdaCosteedback]

On 12/4/2017 at 1:36 PM, Odysseus123 said:

Wise Old Owl.

 

I agree.There was a sense of comradeship-of something shared rather then a daily dollop of schadenfreude which (unfortunately) is often ones's lot there.

 

Just to keep folks informed...you may recall that I mentioned an infection which was consuming what was left of my leg.

 

It turns out to be MRSA and it is a hell of a thing to treat necessitating huge amounts of bed rest..so naturally I turn to see what my friends are doing on TV..

 

Once that is cleared up then it is on to the heart..

 

The Aussies are doing okay..altho' I wished they smiled more...

 

THE BEER IS GOOD..lots of boutique breweries now and the wine's not bad either...

Decent sausages and pies too I hope.

Sorry to hear it is MRSA, difficult indeed.

 

Anyway you are getting the care you need and very good to get updates from you and a chance for a little exchange in TV once again.

Wish you well and heart ops are much more routine then in yesteryear, so don't worry too much. It is still major surgery and you will need more bed rest.

A good opportunity for some reading.

 

All the best G.

 

 

[George FmplesdaCosteedback]

On 12/4/2017 at 1:36 PM, Odysseus123 said:

Wise Old Owl.

 

I agree.There was a sense of comradeship-of something shared rather then a daily dollop of schadenfreude which (unfortunately) is often ones's lot there.

 

Just to keep folks informed...you may recall that I mentioned an infection which was consuming what was left of my leg.

 

It turns out to be MRSA and it is a hell of a thing to treat necessitating huge amounts of bed rest..so naturally I turn to see what my friends are doing on TV..

 

Once that is cleared up then it is on to the heart..

 

The Aussies are doing okay..altho' I wished they smiled more...

 

THE BEER IS GOOD..lots of boutique breweries now and the wine's not bad either...

Decent sausages, bacon and pies too I hope.

Sorry to hear it is MRSA, difficult indeed.

 

Anyway you are getting the care you need and very good to get updates from you and a chance for a little exchange in TV once again.

Wish you well and heart ops are much more routine then in yesteryear, so don't worry too much. It is still major surgery and you will need more bed rest.

A good opportunity for some reading.

 

All the best G.

 

PS. Only The Dark Lord is missing. News from him would be nice, although as you said we shouldn't worry too much...

 

[George FmplesdaCosteedback]

Cheers to all on this thread.

[Riojasue]

Oh so pleased this thread has new messages. I didn’t actually add anything at the time - wasn’t sure a middle aged Farang woman would be able to add anything. But I have really felt for all of you who’ve had a bad time and many of your stories have really helped me to understand the Thai psyche. I’ve got a really lovely Thai son in law but sometimes it’s hard to understand what’s happening in the thought process and your experiences have helped enormously. Wishing you all the best and please keep us updated with how things are going where you are. Regards. Sue [emoji4]


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[Rc2702]

Update.

 

 

My BIL finally got a car. A pick up truck which is about 15 years old. He crashed it into the gate whilst trying to park it in the front garden on the 2nd day.

 

He became somewhat less enthusiastic about the truck since.

 

He procured loans from his mom (30k) and raised 30k selling cassava. His wife and son were not accounted for so her monthly visit was a bit of a shouting match I'm told. No mention of insurance, licencing or tax since purchase 3 weeks ago! 

 

 

 

 

[George FmplesdaCosteedback]

On 12/12/2017 at 8:34 PM, Riojasue said:

Oh so pleased this thread has new messages. I didn’t actually add anything at the time - wasn’t sure a middle aged Farang woman would be able to add anything. But I have really felt for all of you who’ve had a bad time and many of your stories have really helped me to understand the Thai psyche. I’ve got a really lovely Thai son in law but sometimes it’s hard to understand what’s happening in the thought process and your experiences have helped enormously. Wishing you all the best and please keep us updated with how things are going where you are. Regards. Sue


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Reading the post I guess your daughter married a Thai man.

Maybe you can pass on some info on how the relationship started and progressed to marriage from a female perspective?

TV members can then make a comparison that you might find interesting in the PC equality era.

 

[Odysseus123]

5 hours ago, Rc2702 said:

Update.

 

 

My BIL finally got a car. A pick up truck which is about 15 years old. He crashed it into the gate whilst trying to park it in the front garden on the 2nd day.

 

He became somewhat less enthusiastic about the truck since.

 

He procured loans from his mom (30k) and raised 30k selling cassava. His wife and son were not accounted for so her monthly visit was a bit of a shouting match I'm told. No mention of insurance, licencing or tax since purchase 3 weeks ago! 

 

 

 

 

Update.

 

I have been gone for 8 months now.

 

The stepson still hasn't got a job but he is only 25 so no rush,eh?

 

The stepdaughter has extended her farcical university course for another 2 years-making 6 in all.

 

The BiL continues to skive off his wife and daughter who sell some food at the local market.

 

Now..the good news.I have not wasted a single dollar,baht,shekel,drachma or any other form of currency on a Thai for 34 weeks! 

 

My Asians Anonymous program is clearly working..

[rhodie]

On 4/23/2018 at 6:11 AM, Odysseus123 said:

Update.

 

I have been gone for 8 months now.

 

The stepson still hasn't got a job but he is only 25 so no rush,eh?

 

The stepdaughter has extended her farcical university course for another 2 years-making 6 in all.

 

The BiL continues to skive off his wife and daughter who sell some food at the local market.

 

Now..the good news.I have not wasted a single dollar,baht,shekel,drachma or any other form of currency on a Thai for 34 weeks! 

 

My Asians Anonymous program is clearly working..

Well done! I hope your health is staying in check. 

[BEVUP]

Good one 

It goes to show that once they have all, as in a fully paid property/house & ect they can easily revert back to the days they were use to

[oldhippy]

3 hours ago, BEVUP said:

Good one 

It goes to show that once they have all, as in a fully paid property/house & ect they can easily revert back to the days they were use to

Not to mention their inbuilt self destuction switch.

[Odysseus123]

20 hours ago, rhodie said:

Well done! I hope your health is staying in check. 

Hi rhodie,

Thank you for asking.

I am just in the process of posting some photos on the 'People in Thailand' thread of the Photography section if anyone is interested.

 

Yes-it is doing okay and I am just in the process of purchasing a townhouse close to all amenities.

Here is my golden valley back in Oz,

 

 

[watcharacters]

 

Congrats, Rc.

 

As I see it you've recognized a  problem and have offered a viable solution for approaching it.    

 

I commend you for the complete thought processing.

 

 

[Odysseus123]

Oh..and for the Aussies amongst us..

 

[totally thaied up]

Love the photos coming from an Aussie.

 

Love the Peach Face Parrot.

 

I am currently watching something from two very different and distinctive perspectives being in this case, two unusual farang/Thai meltdowns. One girl is from the North, and the other girl is from the South. The differences are being the type of girls they are, but they both have something in common. 

 

Family, greed, and Thai Face.

 

One of the girls is university educated, and the other is a bar girl. Both have greedy families, and it is just self-destructing doom for the farangs involved. I am not going anywhere near them or getting involved, but the money wasted in both cases could have seen me retire here nicely forever.

 

Killing off the golden goose (death by a thousand satangs per time it seems) is at this moment, is purely laughable because neither of the girls can see that in the end, they are going to be left with nothing. They were just a tool for the families involved in getting others what they wanted. It seems to be the same thing most the time; tractors, housing, cars and better class of booze for the fathers and brothers and of course, gold.

 

Lord, how I have a sense of hate of gold now after living in this country.

 

However, I must say, I have not seen too much of this destruction since moving to a new village two years ago. Seems where I am, the people are pretty solid and sensible. Still, I have a decent BIL that works very hard but his girlfriend may be another matter. She has various deals going around, and he is paying for them all, and he will be the fall-guy if they go wrong. She has nothing to lose at all and only time can tell.

 

Hope everyone in this thread is well. This thread has helped a lot of people and I am happy to see life still breathed in it. 

 

[rhodie]

Good to hear @Odysseus123. View looks good. Keep enjoying the red wine. 

[Odysseus123]

1 hour ago, rhodie said:

Good to hear @Odysseus123. View looks good. Keep enjoying the red wine. 

 

Thanks cobber-a good glass of decent wine cures many ills-or so I tell my doctors!

 

With luck,I am going to be heading off to the Hunter Valley in a fortnight for a decent meal,a pleasant cuddle,and a bottle (or two) of Bold Ned.

[Rc2702]

So my BIL has litrually got stage fright since he purchased this pick up. Does not even attempt to drive it 200 metres onto the farm. His dad's distraught as he agreed with his wife's constant nagging to let her lend him half the cash. Moms calling my Mrs telling her to pretend the cash was hers in an attempt to get him to just do some work. There's got to be 800 ripe mangos ready to be picked on their farm and no one's bothering. I'm tempted to get down there myself and pick them. Makes me sick to the stomach the thought of all those mangoes just rotting. The funniest thing that happened this week though was my Mrs sister telling the Mrs how their brother had began talking about needing a tractor!

[Odysseus123]

50 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

So my BIL has litrually got stage fright since he purchased this pick up. Does not even attempt to drive it 200 metres onto the farm. His dad's distraught as he agreed with his wife's constant nagging to let her lend him half the cash. Moms calling my Mrs telling her to pretend the cash was hers in an attempt to get him to just do some work. There's got to be 800 ripe mangos ready to be picked on their farm and no one's bothering. I'm tempted to get down there myself and pick them. Makes me sick to the stomach the thought of all those mangoes just rotting. The funniest thing that happened this week though was my Mrs sister telling the Mrs how their brother had began talking about needing a tractor!

He certainly appears to have developed 'work' fright.

 

Whilst there were many delightful things about Isaan-the amount of work fright amongst Thai males was truly amazing.

 

Unless one considers constant bludging as work-they certainly put a lot of time and effort into it.