Update:
They (Sofar) tried again to remotely update the firmware again, but failed again, so I did it myself.
First USB Stick (32GiB) gave a USB error so used another one (16GiB) and that went oke.
DSP-1 update took the longest, counting UP from 0 - 100%
DSP-2 update took a mere 5 seconds
ARM update took also approx 5 seconds.
Now I hope the trouble I have are gone, but already noticing one thing.
I have Anti-Reflux enabled with Power to 0.00kW and normally it shows in the Screen but not now, send Sofar an email to ask what is wrong with that.
Edit: Problem that AR is enabled and still it exports it's still there. (it's only minor export (10W) but still that would run the meter backwards which I don't want.