Married a girl, my age, I met at university, I was doing a B.Sc, she was doing a B.Ed.
So I wasn't available between age 22 and 52.
When she was divorcing me I had a gf aged 23 in my bed, another age 60 who wanted to be in my bed and was flirting/dating my local pub owner age 40.
But none of the women in my life were ladies I really desired, I just took what was available.
Thailand was a total shock to me, where I could pick and choose from many I found really desirable.
Was happy to pay/support/educate any and all of the women around me.
I'm not short of money, so why wouldn't I share?