Interesting comment!
No woman has ever wanted to have sex with me for enjoyment (and I honestly can't say I'm surprised by that decision).
And I've always let them choose me for paid sex, so there can't be that much repulsion involved.
Let me make a comparison .......
Beer isn't my first choice of alcoholic drink, but I can still drink it without vomiting, especially if someone else is paying for it.
I prefer chips with my meals, but if it comes with rice, I can choke it down.
Life is a series of compromises, where we live, how we earn money, the car we drive, who we bang, most of us just accept what's available, as settling for a bit less than what we actually want isn't really that big a deal for most of us.