Been there done that

12 minutes ago, jeab1980 said:

Pointless you have no idea but you keep beliving what you like and please do continue to spout your nonesense

I have no idea you write. How wrong can you be. I do not reside in touristplaces alone. I have friends with children all over thailand. I travel and open my eyes. Oh yeah, I think too.

10 minutes ago, Artisi said:

My (Thai)  wife watches our 8 year old boy like a hawk when out and about and doesn't trust anyone outside the family. 

If  the OP's wife doesn't care, I wouldn't allow the child to go either. 

Dependancy. Control. You naively think that that is good. 

Wrong !

51 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Did you read anger into my posts or his?

Yours, its the same demeanor in many of your posts. Have a heart mate. You are wise enough to show that.

43 minutes ago, jeab1980 said:

Suggest you actually open your eyes and look around you. Parenting skills here are not just confined to mom and dad its a family thing from sisters/brothers to aunty/uncle to grandparent's. As this does not or very rarley happens in Western countries, people can sometimes miss understand and form an opinion on what they percive to be bad parenting.

Yes, and all of them, together, still do a bad job. Overhere a village is needed to raise, if in the Thai context that is a proper word ?, a child. I strongely suggest you start to look beyond the facade so you can truly educate yourself. If not, keep sprouting nonsense on here.

29 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

A successful bargirl, i.e. one who gets lots of ladydrinks and barfines, can easily make 100,000 a month.

At 1st glance I laughed when I read your comment. However when doing the maths, its possible. One needs to add that only a very few girls, with discipline and high motivation, would be able to do it. She needs to be in the looksdepartment too.

The deceitful ones would probably be able to make between 150 and 200k a month with various ignorant sponsors abroad. Who do not know the game and each other ofcourse.

3 minutes ago, smotherb said:

It seems I have found a life irritating you. What sort of professional help do you suggest?

A psychologist could maybe point out to you that you do not need to project the anger you have towards yourself onto others. 

Love yourself, love another.

4 minutes ago, Here2008 said:

 

An offensive comment!  

Truthful is a better word my friend !

2 minutes ago, jeab1980 said:

No mainly beacuse people belive everything they read.

Many do yes, I base it on my own parameters and have not seen alot of good parenting here. 

17 minutes ago, Here2008 said:

 

Evidence of paranoia ?  Perhaps the OP (if from the UK) should inform himself of the 'happenings' in places like Rochdale  where child abuse is endemic and industrialised .................. Generally speaking children are safe and well cared for in Thailand.

In the land of the blind , the blind........

1 hour ago, jeab1980 said:

Your post confirms whats bad about expats in Thailand.  Always always jumps to belive anything bad about Thai Mothers.

Well, would that be because there aint much good ?

45 minutes ago, catman20 said:

Im curious have any of you had a situation similar to this?

I met her online, and now she wants to come to BKK and stay with me for a week. I have work so there would be days where I wouldnt be home ( im not okay with that). Im also curious in why just meeting me online she feels ready to just come live with me for a week.

 

 

 

MONEY ??????

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The negativity 

At the end of the day the truth will catch up with you. 

The lovely bullying, lieing and deceiving people never like it. Whereever.

On 8/2/2017 at 0:18 PM, piersbeckett said:

Sure, it's dangerous on Thai roads but for me (as the driver of a pick-up), the most danger is at night; several times over the years I've been driving here, I've had to swerve to avoid either a group of pedestrians, a single pedestrian or a pedestrian pulling a trailer or a bicycle or motorbike with no lights crossing the highway, this mostly on dual or triple carriageways which are not sufficiently lit.

 

Crossing these roads at night for pedestrians is very dangerous but just the wearing of a hi-viz vest or jacket would make it a lot safer.  

 

I suffered on these occasions, a sort of reverse road-rage, a feeling of experiencing a near miss, envisaging the horror of what could have so easily happened.  Driving carefully, unintoxicated and alert as I do is not enough here, a constant expectation of the unexpected is also required!

You forgot one thing, shame on you ; sleeping dogs on the road at night time.

1 hour ago, Berkshire said:

I still don't understand your comment regarding the non English speaking countries.  But I agree that most Thai women in Thailand can't speak English fluently.  Which means that if you want a Thai woman to fall in love with you, you'd pretty much have to speak Thai.

 

The thing is, there are plenty of desperate Thai women who can't properly communicate with a foreigner but would be willing to date and marry one.  That's not "love" but more like having someone "take care." 

You stated in your initial comment that one must speak 2  languages to "love each other". Hence my comment about men originating from non english speaking countries. 

1 hour ago, Berkshire said:

You're not making any sense.  Are you suggesting that Thai women only speak Thai or English?  Seriously?

 

 

In all my years overhere I am happy if a thai person I encounter can speak reasonable english. Rarely I have come across somebody who could speak english fluently. Once, when in hospital, I heard a thai woman speaking Russian.

The average thai, my experiences, only speaks thai and one can get lucky if somebody can speak some english. So where are those people who speak more languages than thai or english ?

7 minutes ago, Berkshire said:

If she doesn't speak your language and you don't speak hers, she does not love you. 

Following your logic, the men originating from non english speaking countries have almost zero chance then 

Re 9: Does she like,  or encourages, it that you read books about thai and foreign relationships and /or the thai female mindset.

Facebooked her. Tattoos, boob and nosejob. Whats real about her ?

Sad indeed for such a young girl.

Call your other son.

I can spoke pot here, no problem, as nobody will grass me.

2 hours ago, Thai Ron said:

Some would say that you're the cheap one having to come to Thailand to be able to afford sexy women.

Decades as a dustman didn't end in a glorious pension, then, I take it?

No mate. Am not a pensioner. 

Good to read that you look down on working class people. Dustman.

You must be a highroller yourself then to make such a pathetic comment.

8 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Been there and done what may I ask. I'd like to learn exactly what life experiences you have gained. Were you a traffic warden for 25 years or something because I have never seen such a bitter individual. I'm trying to find some positives. Has your life screwed up so bad that you take joy in trying to diminish whatever you see? Oh that's right I forgot I know your other username. Explains everything. 

Sorry .

Think you smoke too much pot. Makes you confused I see.

26 years.

7 hours ago, Flying Kiwi said:

You are a disgrace calling any woman cheap, you are likely to be one of those pot belly expats who think all women are in love with him. Bugger off to where you came from. All you do is tarnish the rest of the expat community in Thailand

Truth hurts.

14 hours ago, dbrenn said:

Why on earth do you spend time in Thailand if you hold its people in such low regard? It's their turf, so blending in and keeping a low profile is a much more sensible thing to do.

If the women were not so cheap and sexy, yes, I would not stay here.

16 hours ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Now this thread is about immorality??

If you do not think that being a racist/bigot is not immoral, well then no need to say more.