And it ain't always even the relatives that are a problem. It's the everyone else too and even just the place itself.
It does something strange to a woman, going back there.
They change. They go feral. They start gambling, money lending, or they end up in debt and borrowing from the loan sharks. Eventually losing assets
Or they start drinking, they stop taking care of themselves and their homes and turn into a degenerate.
The village has them.
There are bad influences everywhere and they still have the wiring in their brain of a village person, even though they had themselves together living in Bangkok, it is so easy to revert back.
Then, in some cases "the brother" shows up.
I have seen this many times. Taking her back to Hobbit Land is never a good idea. It's like a vortex.