Same applies to you .you sound as if it doesn't take much to light your fuse...if I was jailed in any country I wouldn't expect to be welcome ever again.
I'd hazard a guess and say there are very few western men that walk up or down Soi 6 without knowing what Soi 6 is all about and on the hunt for what it's all about.
I was forced to go to Phuket for first week during the pandemic ..I can't imagine wanting to willingly visit the place... felt like a Turkey ready to be plucked by everybody ... never again .
Many of my family members are wine drinkers and are reasonably well off . They have all been to Thailand....once... and have commented that the lack of decent wine at sensible prices contributed significantly to their decision not to return.
I don't drink alcohol so I couldn't care less...
Once , at Suvarnabhumi , they asked me if I had a Thai wife, I laughed and said no , no, Thai wife would take all my money. 3 immigration officers burst out laughing ...I was being honest...wouldn't dream of it.