I told my old lady recently that I planned to spend all my money before the end. She goes, "what about me?" Well, what about you. I've bought 2 homes, 2 vehicles, you don't work, you don't save the money that comes your way. We have a kid together which will get left over money, property in US.
My MIL has 2 ex husbands who live nearby and neither gives her squat, it's the thai way. So, I don't feel the least bit bad about my way of thinking.