Seriously?
8% of Police are female?
871 senior appointments in the Army were male and 18 female.
82% of those in parliament are male? 18% female
Not to mention, there are no laws protecting wives and GFs when their partners leave them holding the children
Plus, there are thousands of "advisors" who target Russia, etc. It's a proxy war - plain and simple.
https://www.voanews.com/a/us-mulls-sending-more-military-advisers-to-ukraine/7579949.html
Sure - many, many links DYOR
https://www.npr.org/2024/01/23/1226251751/u-s-vets-fighting-for-ukraine-in-war-with-russia-dont-want-american-support-to-w#:~:text=The U.S. military is not,send more help to Kyiv.
Hopefully, your wife reported the Police to their station officer via an official Police complaint form. But, no, I am a realist - many Thais hate farangs and think we are lower than them, so your story does not surprise me.