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  1. Online forums often become breeding grounds for argumentativeness and hostility, particularly among older men, due to a confluence of psychosocial factors tied to identity, social dynamics, and aging-related challenges. Below is an analysis of key contributors: Social Isolation and Loss of Purpose Older men face heightened risks of social disconnectedness due to retirement, widowhood, or declining health, which can erode their sense of autonomy and self-worth36. This isolation may drive them to seek validation through online engagement, where disagreements become a misguided substitute for meaningful connection6. For example: Retirement or loss of work identity removes a traditional source of masculine pride, leading some to assert dominance in online debates4. Physical limitations or chronic pain can amplify frustration, which is redirected into aggressive online behavior3. Masculinity and Identity Threats Dominant cultural narratives tie masculinity to control, productivity, and stoicism. Aging often undermines these traits, creating psychological tension: Loss of control: Older men may perceive online arguments as a way to reclaim agency, particularly when faced with age-related declines in physical or cognitive abilities46. Defensive posturing: Correcting others or "winning" debates reinforces a fragile self-image tied to competence, as described in accounts of men who equate disagreement with personal failure14. Internalized stigma: Reluctance to discuss mental health or vulnerability offline may manifest as hostility online, where anonymity allows unfiltered expression36. Forum Design and Anonymity Platform dynamics exacerbate conflicts: Public visibility: Posts are seen by broad audiences, inviting scrutiny and turning debates into performative acts of self-validation57. Lack of moderation: Poorly regulated forums enable "flame wars," where users prioritize dominance over constructive dialogue27. Asynchronous communication: The absence of real-time feedback (e.g., tone, body language) fosters misinterpretation and escalation57. Coping Mechanisms and Escalation For some older men, online arguments serve as maladaptive coping strategies: Avoiding shame: Withdrawing from real-world interactions to evade ageism or stigma, while seeking control in anonymous spaces46. Cognitive rigidity: Aging may correlate with less flexibility in accepting alternative viewpoints, intensifying confrontations26. Mortality awareness: Confronting life-limiting diagnoses or bereavement can heighten existential frustration, channeled into online conflicts34. In summary, the interplay of aging-related identity crises, social isolation, and platform design creates a fertile environment for contentious online behavior. Addressing this issue requires interventions that foster offline social connectedness, redefine masculine identity beyond productivity, and improve forum moderation to reduce toxic interactions367. 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  2. Why Many People Overlook Donald Trump’s Character, Lying, and Deception A significant portion of the American electorate remains loyal to Donald Trump despite widespread acknowledgment of his dishonesty and controversial character. Multiple factors-psychological, cultural, political, and historical-help explain this phenomenon. Psychological and Group Dynamics Trump’s appeal is partly rooted in a “cult of personality,” where his followers display intense loyalty and psychological susceptibility to his persona6. This dynamic fosters a sense of group identity and belonging, making it difficult for supporters to break away even when confronted with evidence of dishonesty or moral failings36. Over time, repeated support through various controversies creates escalating personal commitment. Leaving the group would require supporters to admit they were wrong before, a psychologically difficult step3. Moral and Factual Flexibility Research shows that many supporters do not necessarily believe Trump’s falsehoods are literally true but support them because they align with their political goals or emotional truths25. This phenomenon, called “moral flexibility,” means people justify falsehoods if they feel these statements serve a greater purpose or reflect their grievances2. Supporters often view Trump’s lies as “truthy”-they correspond to what they feel or suspect is true, even if not factually accurate5. Redefining “Character” Historically, American voters have sometimes defined “character” not by honesty or integrity, but by perceived strength, effectiveness, and the ability to “get things done”4. Trump’s forceful persona and claims of achievement fit this older model, making traditional critiques of his character less effective with his base4. Cultural and Political Factors Economic, cultural, and racial anxieties play a role. For some, Trump is seen as a champion against perceived threats to their way of life, making his personal flaws secondary to the larger battle they feel he represents3. Trump’s willingness to break norms and say whatever he wants is admired by some supporters, who see it as evidence of strength and a willingness to fight for them, regardless of the truth5. Summary Table: Key Reasons for Overlooking Trump’s Character Factor Description Personality Cult Intense group loyalty and psychological identification with Trump63 Moral Flexibility Support for lies that align with political or emotional truths25 Redefinition of Character Emphasis on strength and effectiveness over honesty4 Cultural/Political Grievance Focus on perceived threats and loyalty to group identity35 Admiration of Rule-Breaking Envy or approval of Trump’s ability to defy norms5 Conclusion Many Trump supporters are willing to overlook or rationalize his character flaws, constant lying, and deception because these traits are seen as serving a greater political or cultural purpose, reinforcing group identity, and embodying a style of leadership they value. The phenomenon is complex and rooted in both individual psychology and broader social forces23456. Citations: https://newlinesmag.com/argument/the-mass-psychology-of-trumpism/ https://www.colorado.edu/today/2024/03/04/facts-ignored-truth-flexible-when-falsehoods-support-political-beliefs https://news.berkeley.edu/2020/12/07/despite-drift-toward-authoritarianism-trump-voters-stay-loyal-why/ https://time.com/7014479/donald-trump-character-history/ https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2024/11/trump-voters-like-lying-deception-feature/ https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/trumps-personality-cult-plays-a-part-in-his-political-appeal/ https://www.psypost.org/the-psychological-puzzle-of-donald-trump-eye-opening-findings-from-20-studies/ https://www.concordmonitor.com/My-Turn-Why-Voters-Overlooked-Trump-s-Legal-and-Ethical-Issues-57965473 https://www.imperial.ac.uk/business-school/ib-knowledge/management/neuroticism-deprivation-and-racial-bias-trumps-unique-authoritarian-appeal/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trumpism https://abcnews.go.com/538/voters-chose-trump/story?id=115827243 https://link.motherjones.com/public/35444637 https://www.apa.org/news/podcasts/speaking-of-psychology/political-messaging https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/finding-a-new-home/202407/what-donald-trumps-most-loyal-followers-may-have-in-common https://www.fairobserver.com/world-news/us-news/its-simplistic-to-assume-trumps-devoted-voters-are-irrational/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-social-emotional-brain/202410/why-voters-support-trump-despite-his-alleged-misdeeds https://www.psychiatrist.com/news/the-psychology-of-political-polarization/ https://www.rte.ie/brainstorm/2024/1106/1400174-trump-supporters-loyalty-legal-cases/ https://therapygroupdc.com/therapist-dc-blog/the-psychology-of-political-violence/ https://www.ifkw.uni-muenchen.de/lehrbereiche/reinemann/projekte/chapter-8-hameleers-et-al.pdf Answer from Perplexity: pplx.ai/share
  3. Psychological Factors That Lead People to Overlook Trump’s Character Flaws Several well-established psychological mechanisms help explain why many people are willing to overlook or rationalize Donald Trump’s character flaws, including dishonesty, aggression, and lack of empathy. 1. Identification with Power and Strength Many supporters are drawn to Trump’s display of power and self-confidence, often as a way to compensate for their own inner feelings of weakness or inadequacy. By aligning with a figure who appears strong and unburdened by self-doubt, they experience a vicarious sense of empowerment and relief from their own inner conflicts2. This identification with a "strongman" serves as psychological proof to themselves that they are not weak, making loyalty to Trump feel like an expression of personal strength2. 2. The Halo Effect The "halo effect" is a cognitive bias where admiration for one trait (such as perceived toughness or effectiveness) leads people to assume the person also possesses other positive traits, even in the face of evidence to the contrary. For example, Trump's reputation as a "tough guy who gets things done" can overshadow his negative qualities, causing supporters to discount or rationalize his flaws3. 3. Defense Mechanisms and Escapism Psychological defenses such as denial, projection, and rationalization play a role. Supporters may deny or minimize Trump's flaws to protect their own self-image or worldview. By projecting their frustrations and grievances onto Trump's enemies, they avoid confronting uncomfortable truths about themselves or their circumstances25. Trump’s rhetoric often frames his followers as righteous victims, which allows them to externalize blame and avoid personal responsibility for their own challenges2. 4. Normalization and Cognitive Dissonance Repeated exposure to Trump’s behavior leads to a normalization effect, where initially shocking or unacceptable actions become more tolerated over time. This cognitive adaptation helps reduce the discomfort of supporting someone whose actions might otherwise conflict with personal or societal values7. Supporters resolve cognitive dissonance-the mental discomfort of holding conflicting beliefs-by justifying or minimizing Trump’s negative behaviors, especially if they believe he advances their interests or values27. 5. Attraction to Authoritarian Traits Some psychological research suggests that individuals with a preference for order, authority, and clear in-group/out-group distinctions are more likely to support leaders who display authoritarian or narcissistic traits, even if those traits include dishonesty or aggression6. 6. Trauma and Emotional Resonance Many people who have experienced trauma or feel aggrieved may unconsciously resonate with Trump’s grandiosity, defiance, and reality-denial, mistaking these traits for strength or security. This can lead to misperceptions, such as viewing manipulation as political savvy or selfishness as economic wisdom5. Summary Table: Key Psychological Factors Factor Description Identification with Power Followers feel empowered by aligning with a strong, assertive leader Halo Effect Admiration for one trait overshadows awareness of flaws Defense Mechanisms Denial, projection, and rationalization protect self-image Normalization/Cognitive Dissonance Repeated exposure and justification reduce discomfort Attraction to Authoritarianism Preference for order and authority leads to support for strongman traits Emotional Resonance/Trauma Shared feelings of grievance or trauma foster emotional connection These intertwined psychological factors help explain why many people are willing to overlook or rationalize Donald Trump’s character flaws, focusing instead on the traits or narratives that resonate most with their psychological needs and worldview2357. Citations: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2016/06/the-mind-of-donald-trump/480771/ https://whywesuffer.com/why-people-support-donald-trump/ https://www.thebrink.me/why-do-we-give-bad-men-power-2/ https://evonomics.com/lakoff-no-one-knows-why-he-is-winning/ https://drgabormate.com/trump-clinton-trauma/ https://academic.oup.com/isq/article/66/1/sqab083/6400442 https://www.vox.com/the-big-idea/2017/1/10/14220790/normalization-trump-psychology-cognitive-science https://www.voterstudygroup.org/publication/the-five-types-trump-voters https://www.reddit.com/r/AskALiberal/comments/1edmsg8/how_has_trump_so_effectively_brainwashed_millions/ Answer from Perplexity: pplx.ai/share
  4. Of course not. For one thing the computer tech - software and hardware - will have been completely changed and non-restorable. There's really no point in trying to discuss the obvious with these EV nutjobs.
  5. The "Left", too. Left - Right politics keeps people blindly divided so TPTB can get their one-world government.
  6. Tomorrow's headlines: Climate Change: Is Stupidity the Reason? Overheating Birds Make Global Turbulence Worse EVs Keep 8-year-old Miners Employed - and Muscular
  7. ... with "Pathetic". No red-blooded AN reader feels sadness at some damned post.
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  8. In today's news twist ... Antisemitism Found to be Accelerating Climate Change
  9. Is your Gold really Gold? What matters is that the guy buying it off you thinks it is.
  10. Which "conspiracy theories" do you believe are true (or have some basis in truth)? The ones that are most censored.
  11. Ignoring me won't change that you've still got several potentially explosive batteries inside and parked next to your house. And anyway, what do the Chinese know about EV batteries? 🤣 The cope!
  12. As I have pointed out before, lithium iron phosphate batteries can and do experience thermal runaway. Here are some scientific studies for you to educate yourself: https://duckduckgo.com/?q=can+Lithium+Iron+Phosphate+batteries+experiencee+thermal+runaway%3F&t=ffab&ia=web
  13. Doesn't matter the make or where it was, the guy standing close to the erupting EV was Bandersnatch. "This can't be happening ..."
  14. Think like a Thai. View your relationships as transactional and regularly evaluate whether you're getting good value.
  15. Panic in Roi Et: Next up: ‘Elvis Spotted on Mars’ and ‘Bigfoot’s Secret Love Affair with Loch Ness Monster.’ 🤖📰😄
  16. Thai newspapers and news sites From: https://www.w3newspapers.com/thailand/ Thai language sites can be read with a translator in your browser; the one pre-installed in Firefox seems to work well. Thai Rath (Thai: ไทยรัฐ) It is one of the most widely circulated newspapers in Thailand. Khao Sod (Thai: ข่าวสด) Leading newspaper published in Thai Language. Daily News (Thai: เดลินิวส์) One of the mass-circulation broadsheet newspapers in Thailand. Kom Chad Luek (Thai: คมชัดลึก) Thai-language daily newspaper published in Bangkok, Thailand by the Nation Multimedia Group. Manager (Thai: ผู้จัดการรายวัน) Thai-language daily newspaper based in Bangkok. The newspaper emphasizes on business news. Bangkok Post English-language daily newspaper published in Thailand. Post Today Naewna Nation English language daily newspaper published in Thailand. Thai Post (Thai: ไทย โพสต) Daily Thai-language newspaper owned by the Thai Journal Group. Pattaya Mail First English-language newspaper published in Pattaya, Thailand. Chiang Rai Times Providing provincial and local news for Chiangrai. Matichon Group Asia Times BangkokBizNews.com Prachachat.net RYT9 gimyong.com thansettakij.com Prachathai ChiangMaiNews Siamrath Inn News Banmuang Phuket News Pattaya One Thai News Agency Chiang Mai Citylife English language publication in the north of Thailand, owned by the Trisila Company Limited. Bangkok Today Siam Turakij Pattaya Blatt Pattaya People lokwannee.com Korat Daily news.sanook.com Hua Hin Today Student Weekly Business Day Bangkok based English language business newspaper. Muslimthai Post Siamdara Thai Stock Exchange Novosti Phuketa (Russian) Bangkok Shuho (Japanese) Another list (includes The Thaiger): https://www.world-newspapers.com/countries/asia/thailand Thailand Newspapers and News Sites This list provides an overview of English-language Thai online news sites. Each entry contains a link as well as a concise description of what you can expect to find on the site. This list will continue to be updated as new websites come online and existing websites cease to exist. Each new entry is screened so expect to find only quality websites that update their news coverage regularly. 2bangkok Independent daily news portal. Bangkok Post Leading English language Thailand newspaper. Chiang Mai Citylife Magazine with information on tourist attractions, hotels, restaurants and bars, as well as general information on Chiang Mai. Chiangmai Mail City's first English language newspaper featuring local news, characters and events relevant to locals and the expatriate community. Chiangrai Times Provincial and local news for Chiangrai. Daily Express Bangkok based tabloid. Hot Properties Magazine Source of information on buying and selling homes, houses and property in Hua Hin. Hua Hin Today News and information from the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. Nation Major independent Thailand newspaper. National News Bureau Official news provided by The Royal Thai Government's News Agency. Pattaya Mail First English language weekly newspaper in Pattaya and the Eastern Seaboard of Thailand. Pattaya One Pattaya newspaper providing the latest news and articles in English and Thai. Pattaya People Community newspaper with hot news and information about Pattaya. Pattaya Today Bi-monthly newspaper providing news stories and information on Pattaya. Thai Examiner Online news portal that covers a wide range of topics aimed at providing Thai news to foreigners. Thai Financial Post Online source for daily financial and economic news about Thailand and Thailand's major trading partners. Thailand 4 News Thailand business and financial news & press releases. The Phuket News Online edition of the weekly national newspaper. The Thaiger Online newspaper with daily news, classified ads, yellow pages, business listings, and calendar of events.
  17. I dunno ... I currently value AseanNow forum posts as constant reminders of the type of person I don't want to become. Or know.
  18. How many km have you put on it?
  19. ... or that the damaged/degraded battery has transformed their EV into a ticking time bomb.
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