Bday Prang

i million baht against 50,000 baht either you have just made that up or have been very, very badly advised, And as for leaving anything up to "rich parents" you appear to be living in some sort of fantasy land. and have an unnatural fixation on virginity. get some help while you can

"would be the standard" that implies that you are not yet married, it also indicates you have serious issues Will you be subjecting any future potential wife to a medical examination ? let us all know how that works out, I won't be holding my breath

For non-virgins,. you are just another guy in the queue and can be replaced just like that And you were 1st in the queue (at least that's what they told you) and have also been replaced , "just like that" twice. You will always be the subject of their "biggest regret" And as for marrying a virgin, who on earth wants to marry a woman who naturally will be eternally curious as to what another man would be like, a curiosity that these days most women will not allow to remain unanswered As far as I am concerned only people lacking in confidence, or those who are unfortunate enough to be muslims, aspire to marry virgins in this day and age

Errrr.... They are married he has every right to comment on how his wife wants to squander money, I'm pretty sure my missis would have something to say if I returned from the casino 500,000 baht worse off, despite it being my money What contract are you referring to?

that would be an interesting thread, "what has your embassy ever done for you" what forum should it be in?

so you'll be taking care of her then? What ever you may think, embassies clearly do not concern themselves or choose to get involved in matters like this. They are not a member of the emergency services and not charitable rescue organisation. In fact they are not really there for our benefit or to look after us at all. We are effectively all on our own and extremely vulnerable. sleep well

And in reality that is nothing to be ashamed of, Nature and life generally takes its course, bodies do not remain in their prime forever, Should those less than perfect really feel obliged to cover up,

is anybody really bothered where she comes from?

Do you need help? neither do I , so perhaps we are both psycho's

There's another thing, having spent most of my life working on construction sites I am familiar with groups of guys cheering and whistling at the sight of a large breasted woman whether in real life or simply in a photograph Their behaviour when alone is totally different, likewise its a very small minority who visit strip joints and go go bars alone, even though they could easily do so at virtually any time Most men are not obsessed with over sized breasts but few would admit this when in a group

Plenty of bare legs and midriffs exposed at an athletics meeting, few would find that sexually arousing and even fewer would admit to it if they did. Of course nudity is totally separate from sex, it is the attitudes of society, a result of religious interference that have caused the confusion, As I mentioned in my last post , the heathen savages in the jungle are not in a permanent state of sexual arousal due to them being permanently naked, and the last I heard nudist colonies and beaches are not one permanent orgy The covering of our bodies was obviously originally for warmth or protection from the sun and the solitary nature of acts like defecation for example is probably due to sanitary issues and not least to avoid the unpleasant smell not withstanding the fact that its a rather vulnerable position to be in You may be right, for whatever misguided reasons we may well have strived to become "higher" than animals, whether or not we have succeeded is a totally different matter

People only go crazy about breasts because they are generally hidden from view it was the same regarding legs prior to the advent of mini skirts. It is all after all only the result of puritanical religious zealously. For gods sake they used to cover table legs in the UK.in victorian times. Bare breasts and nudity in general would not be a distraction if it were the norm, animals seem to manage ok and even the young heathen savages walking around naked in the jungle seem to avoid the perils of excessive masturbation so beloved of the bible bashers The fact that we are even discussing this perfectly natural thing referred to as nudity is evidence of sexual repression. Religion does indeed have a lot to answer for. and is responsible for all these fixations Breasts after all are primarily for feeding children, the "cleavage" its self does not even exist in a normal nude scenario, and has been falsely constructed to resemble the view we would have enjoyed when we walked on all fours. I assume you are aware of the purpose of lipstick, if we could overtly see what it is supposed to represent it would be superfluous

perhaps he doesn't take himself ever so seriously like some on here lighten up man its a thread about titties

Its not naughty at all really though is it?

Strangely no mention of those elderly Thais who are directly or indirectly subsidised by "charitable" expats who have joined the family, I am sure that is not an inconsiderable number either

What are "non-monetary avenues"

What social security benefits are available here to anybody regardless of their jobs, It seems whoever wrote this rubbish has never actually been here and knows absolutely nothing about Thailand

its hardly staggering when one considers what things were like here 60+ years ago, who writes this rubbish. ?

And at least half of that is consumed by repayments of "no deposit" finance for their brand new 3.0 litre turbo pick ups, then there are motorbikes and regular smartphone upgrades for them and their school age kids. The rest goes on the lottery

who on earth do you think gets 3000 baht a month state pension here, ? other than expats who have had theirs frozen of course Why should everybody be paid monthly? Some only work a few days here and a few days there, would you make them wait 4 weeks before receiving their money, what would that achieve? The majority here don't earn enough to pay any tax for gods sake. No point in them being burdened with trying to fill in a complicated tax return notwithstanding the fact that many are illiterate? What on earth has registering where they live other than in the "blue book" got to do with any of this? By "A better tax policy" i assume you mean more people paying more tax, well in the UK we are taxed to the limit, and the health care system is pretty much a disaster, for those that are forced to rely on it Do you think the corrupt and clueless people in charge of such things here would manage tax payers money any better?

Somewhat more worrying is the fact that the list probably includes Doctors, Teachers, Politicians, Police, and of course Immigration officials

You seem to be obsessed with the knife , most of us are more interested in the bare breasts, the side issues of the knife etc are of little interest to red blooded males

one could always indulge in moderation and simply resolve to wear spectacles like many people traditionally choose to do

I agree about the prudishness, but an opportunity for a bit of puerile adolescent humour is always welcome in these miserable times and should be embraced

Why,? if you don't like it simply move on