fredwiggy

Listen to your words Bob. A keeper should never be subjected to you being around other women, as they are the hardest thing a man can find on earth.

Another assumption based on personal opinions. Many here have good wives and girlfriends, and living in another country doesn't exempt you from gold diggers. A poor country has more looking for someone to take better care of them , as the locals many times fail. All do not have Thai boyfriends. and some have never been near a farang. My own girlfriend was married to a useless local who didn't work or support his family, tried to sell her to his friend, and abused her. I'm the second man in her life and she said in the beginning she would never be with another Thai. I hear this many times and it's not all about the cash. Stay out of tourist areas and your chances of meeting a woman not through the wringer is better.

STI's can be caught by most anyone, as women that aren't loose can also get one, as can men. My point is that your chances of getting an STI from a prostitute is much higher than from a normal women. That's a well know fact. Medicines can help when you get an STI, but are not a guarantee against getting one.

STI's can happen with many women, but with hookers your chances are way higher of catching something. Like I said, if you don't like white women, leave them to the billions that do, they won't miss you.

That wasn't about me, but putting you into a quote, Claiming most have bad breath STI's or are smelly means you've been with a lot, "or are you saying, "I've had 3 women, and they're all smelly with bad breath and STI's? Some here assume all and what they mean is the ones they've been with. .. ..... As far as me personally, I've been with many women and not one had an STI. A few had bad breath at times, as everyone does. Ongoing is a problem.

Started by Christians, who use God as a helping tool, but again, they accept everyone, including Atheists, and it's more a spiritual thing, knowing you can help yourself if you really want to.I know a few friends that attended, and stopped or curtailed their drinking, and God was never pushed on them nor anyone else while they attended.

Claiming most have bad breath STI's or are smelly means you've been with a lot, or are you saying, "I've had 3 women, and they're all smelly with bad breath and STI's? If you don't like white women, why bother using Viagra?. Better to let them be with someone who appreciates a woman no matter the skin color. White skin is cherished by many, especially here, as many Thais use whitening cream to look western. Problem is, it makes them look odd. Thais are supposed to be brown(ish).

True, but what you catch might stay with you a long time, or forever. And Australia, along with all other countries, has young, beautiful women for sale.

It does work, at a good rate, especially when combined with hospital treatment first. AA is spiritual based and not religious. There are many Atheists that attend...........https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2746426/

What is your definition of fat? One pound more fat than you need, 10 pounds over what's recommended by charts? Which doesn't take into account body fat percentages, because many have very little fat and are considered overweight. 20 pounds, 30? A BMI of 25 is considered overweight. Is overweight a disease or only obesity? Overweight leads to obesity many times. How does one become obese? Overnight? No, of course not, it takes time, so their thinking is already off when they start and let themselves get to that BMI of 25. That would be considered a disease. Diseases many times start slow, like cancer and heart disease, then get out of control because prevention isn't applied.

Some have opinions and some things are facts, and also disputed. This is one link, as there are many on both sides................https://www.drugrehab.com/addiction/alcohol/alcoholism-disease-choice/

He is actually right in his thinking. Obesity is recognized as a disease by many health professionals, but some disagree.............https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obesity/symptoms-causes/syc-20375742

Genetics are maybe half of how a person becomes an alcoholic. Most everyone has friends who drink, and most everyone tries a drink when they are young. Part rebellion, part curiosity, part wanting to fit in. The problem arises when either a person is prone , by genetics, to keep going overboard, or liking the taste of drink, and drinking with friends until they get hooked. Some people should never drink, either being predisposed or by a weakness to let it take control. A person can drink wine or a beer everyday and not be an alcoholic, if they can go without it when they want. Drinking a twelve pack or a bottle of whiskey every day is a problem. The body gets used to drinking and the mind also wants it. Many have depression worldwide and drink to make the hurt go away, at least for awhile. Self medicating is done with drink and drugs, whatever their choice, and isn't a substitute for an antidepressant drug (the right one). So many see their parents drinking a lot and think it's okay. My mom and dad drank a little now and then, and I saw it as socializing. I tried drinking when I was young, getting drunk a few times and not liking it. I was always into fitness, so that kept me away from most of it. I got into wine, learning a lot about it, and enjoyed, with friends, many bottles of good wine. Even had a collection of a few hundred bottles. I always shared and never drank alone that I can remember, and with the wine, it was a couple of glasses and not to get wasted. I can take it or leave it, and I'm glad, because I've seen what it can do to friends. Some drink to forget, but it doesn't happen for long. Life is till there when you're sober. Some drink because they are hurting and angry and again, life comes back, and anger and drinking gets many in real trouble. The only way to "cure" it, is not doing it. Will power has to be learned if you already don't have it, and AA is there because many don't. Just like having depression, talking to others in the know, feeling heard, helps more than most anything.

The only time I have comfort on the usual 12 hour flight across the ocean is when I'm the only one in three seats across so I can lie down. No interest in paying more money for a bit more leg room.

Wearing helmets, both rides, and no more riders.

Whats the alternative to never flying again, especially if you're going overseas? I guess a bot works, but it takes awhile longer.

Some go overboard. My daughter has one arm almost covered, along with a couple more. She was involved in a not so good crowd and that's what they all did. telling them what you think goes in one and out the other.

Benefit of the doubt

Why does your life suck? We all have had problems, and some major. Getting past them is what makes us strong. I'm sure you've had some good times in your life and did things you enjoyed. You're still here, and can still do those things, and more. If you knew all the crapola I've gone through with women and trying to have my children have a stable home, you would sh*t. I never will give up because then the devil and BS wins. I'm only in Thailand until I can re establish my daughter and I back home, otherwise I'm here bored most of the time. Dreams and goals can still be met if you're still alive. I want to catch a big Marlin, shoot a record book buck, catch a huge Bass and Musky, hunt and fish around the states, see Europe, Vietnam, Malaysia and Canada again. There things to enjoy here.

God created us so he knows exactly what we feel. I myself ask why some can enjoy life here and some can't. There are many things here that people love to do. Will we have them when we go to heaven? I'm sure if he can create all of this from his mind, he can have a heaven which has most of it without the pain, wars, arguing and petty nonsense we all go through. All life has meaning to God, and we are the ones who have souls and are of higher intelligence than any others, so we are the priority and why things happen, some bad and some good. Bad can teach even though it hurts us now. There are things here that we can live without, but they are here for his reasons, and I'll find out why when we talk. We have no proof there is life anywhere else besides here, so anything that happens out in the universe might not affect any others. There are tings people like if they reach an older age. That's the things you prioritize on.

Being on social media too much takes you away from real life. There are many things to do outside that don't require lifting. Gardening, going to the beach and watching the waves, seagulls and people. The movies, the gym to do anything physical, which helps the mood. Fishing. I get bored here in the country because there's not much to do here. That's why I'm planning to go back to the US, where I can do all my hobbies and travel. Being outside allows you to find others like yourself you can relate with, instead of hearing us complain here.

Dylan is popular not because he's a good singer, which he isn't. His lyrics are what makes him good. Some of the songs aren't easy to decipher, as they are personal issues in his own wording. This is from Wikipedia.................... Dylan wrote the song as a deliberate attempt to create an anthem of change for the time, influenced by Irish and Scottish ballads.

Many people do live to 85 and more. You've said this before, telling older people they are almost gone. Pretty rude and not something anyone should ever say. Do you think they don't already know they are in their latter years? Do you also not understand no one knows when they are going to pass? Keep your thought patterns to yourself, because people do not want to hear anything negative, especially at that age.

Your past loss with the women shouldn't keep you in this frame of thought. Let it, and them go. There are many women who, especially the ones close to our age, would like to have a decent man to grow old with. Besides human company, which is a major reason we are here, there are hobbies you can take up at most any age, along with again, finding someone to share them with. I have so many places I'd like to visit, yet won't because most of my time has been raising kids. I still have a young one, but I'm still going to go to some of those places. Life is all about living. We were put here for a reason. Something some don't believe because they either hate God or think he doesn't exist because we have no proof besides looking at the wonders he's made and knowing it could only happen from design, from a creator. God doesn't like people to off themselves because life is precious, no matter how short or long. This is temporary, after is forever, and what we do here decides what happens next. If you off yourself, you'll still be meeting God, and then you'd have to explain why. Then he will tell you what you could have done to be happier. Of course there are those who never experience happiness and only pain, but again, this is temporary and nothing compared to forever. If you can walk,talk,see ,eat and feel, there are many things you can still do.

Of course I take life seriously, knowing I'm in my latter years and haven't done or seen near what I want to, aka a bucket list. You can't say most of us don't because you only know what those who reply say, and maybe a few people who you've asked this question.