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fredwiggy

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  1. I will try it as soon as I can afford it regularly. It's mainly what Stallone has used over the years. You do need to be tested regularly by a sports doctor for any changes that aren't good. I just want to keep what I have for as long as possible. My joints were hurt by lifting so heavy for so long so I just work out lighter now. Problem here is that the only gym doesn't open until 2 PM, and I've been used to training early mornings for over 45 years.
  2. I, along with millions of others, failed in marriages because of a few things. I got into studying relationships, narcissism, psychology in regards to relationships, child rearing and more for a very long time,reading over 65 books and thousands of articles, and it didn't matter one bit because of the choices I made from attraction, and not getting to know them longer. There are a few things that keep people together,the first being commitment. Commitment to each other to make the marriage work no matter what. This means being faithful, honest, non abusive, caring, loving and having future plans that coincide. This with a few mutual interests will make any relationship last. Mental illnesses, narcissism, and depression, which are both illnesses, will ruin most relationships so if one partner has them it will be very hard to make things work, especially if they don't recognize their problem or admit that they have one if they do. It's true that most schools do not prepare children for life's lessons. They teach basics that we will use, but not the most important things, like interpersonal relationships and child rearing. That everyone learns by trial and mostly error.
  3. As you can see, I'm on your side because some of what you mention is experienced here by myself and most others, although some are blind to see or won't admit it because they are brown nosers. I don't see them as annoying although many are. You and i don't belong here, as is the same for many others who tolerate things because they either hate where they came from or are happy here because it's more affordable and the women are very pretty and available (though a price must be paid). You don't have to ignore everyone here. Just try and fit in. This is another way of life, and far behind what we grew up with. A lot of the people here are just honest, everyday farmers who live, and work, to eat. If they never leave the country, they don't know what the world is really like, unless someone tells them lies or exaggerations, like all farangs are rich. Merchants with shops and stalls are also just trying to survive, and working here on a farm, (yes, I've done it many times for my ex's family and now gf's family) is as hard as any work you will ever do labor wise. I don't like prejudice, and they show it here daily, but it's shown daily in the US also, so they're not exempt. Again, just get along, fit in, smile and smile back. You don't have to let anyone know your true feelings, as smiles here show. Until you leave, just act like you are back home, as far as how you treat others. You can never lose if you "act" nice. Don't let what others do bother you so much. They go home to miserable lives and aren't as happy as you think. This is worldwide.
  4. Where we pay for them to stay there, and they get into a system some never get out of. Losing money is the best teacher for most. Especially for a first offense. Of course repeat offenders they'll have to up the ante. Locking people up doesn't teach them much besides hatred for those that did it. We're talking about non violent offenses where no one else is involved besides them and maybe a retail outlet.
  5. Makes complete sense if it's regarding cases that will go to court. A person shoplifting, having one joint in possession or spitting on the street (examples) would be fined and not jailed, leaving more room in jails for those arrested for harder crimes. Why waste taxpayers money incarcerating some when they can pay a fine and (maybe) learn a lesson? People in the US went to jail for possession of weed, and now it's legal in many states, and eventually will be in all. Money talks, and ignorance doesn't last forever.
  6. It's actually more than 50% in most studies and as much as 80%. IQ, meaning the intelligence quotient, will not usually change and is based on others of your age when tested. Your abilities can definitely change, if you are a reader (constant) and a person who challenges themselves all the time. This means scores can change as we age for some. Some research has shown that scores are not stable, and can change while still a teen. Brain damage can change an IQ, as well as emotional and physical abuse in childhood.
  7. IQ is mostly genetic, as much as 80% in some studies, and more than 50% in all studies. Why you got ahead isn't all about intelligence but drive. People have proven time and again that want is sometimes better than have. Thais that have been outside Thailand are exactly the same as those that have stayed, besides the fact they have found a partner to get them out, so are lucky in that respect. Those who visit for reasons other than spouses are usually students, who still might not be any smarter than their peers at home but just had more money to travel with. Those, like my school owner friend here, who have been educated in America, have nothing but good to say about the education system there, as opposed to what's here.
  8. Some people look at life as a precious thing, not to be taken for granted and let go so easily. As a Christian, I look to a new life with God, without all the pain and shiit this life has. I know some only believe this is all we have, and that's sad, because this life is a temporary thing for everyone, and some never get to experience any joy from it. No one enjoys pain, and I don't understand why the older you get, the more pain you usually have. I'll fight to the end, even knowing the inevitable will come, as there are things on earth I enjoy, and things I haven't yet done. When you have children, you dedicate your lives to their futures, even though they can be ungrateful until they have children of their own, so they finally get it. It's never too late to do the things you always wanted to do, unless you give up.
  9. No, older men who don't look or act old, and who are good listeners.
  10. She only likes men who aren't a carbon copy of her ex and who accept her family, listen to her, and are attractive to her, so that leaves you out. And I was referring to the sheep they insist you are into.
  11. You started things by putting your penis where it didn't belong.
  12. The daycare is closed until tomorrow.
  13. Early Queen was great. Later Queen was pop, and I didn't like it much at all. Queen 1 and II were pretty good albums. Sheer Heart Attack and A Night At the Opera are classics, with many good songs on them. Freddie had one of the best male voices in rock.Brian May one of the better guitarists in rock also.
  14. Texas is home to me. New Jersey was home before that. This is home now, but has never felt like home. That's why I'll be moving asap.
  15. I'm thinking, after a childhood of not being around his parents much, he wasn't too happy then. His gifts of singing and lyricism gave him a better life, and it appeared he was happy. He admits being promiscuous and that it was his downfall. He loved what he was doing, and he knows he made millions happy with his songs, so although he died way too soon, I think he was happy with what he did and had.
  16. I don't believe in reincarnation but if it existed, you wouldn't know it when it hit you, as you wouldn't be the same person anyway, and wouldn't know what was before or after. You only get one chance in life, and need to make sure it's made of more good choices than bad.
  17. They'll all people who are there for the feeling of power. They all promise to do things, and some things good are done. Trump is, and always has been, a weirdo, misogynist, racist yoyo. He did some things right because anyone could in his position, especially if they have Congress behind them. Biden is trying to fix things others before him hurt, along with trying to please the citizens. It's impossible because there's two sides that find it hard to agree on much. Infighting doesn't make good futures. There have been presidents that have done some very good things, and some that have made things worse. That's why a president isn't needed. Things should never be left into one person's hands. Especially when they are affecting millions.
  18. Yes, bigotry is definitely behind many adverse opinions, and that's why I don't base anything on other's opinions, even though many can be spot on. I don't think a person with an IQ of 80 is stupid. They just aren't capable of having, or retaining, much knowledge. I see many problems since I've lived here, both in road maintenance and building, along with the telephone and electrical wiring, which is a disaster in itself. Thai's take a lot from other countries because they know it works. They should take more and the problem here is the prejudice towards foreigners many old school have. Ignorance doesn't help your country. Anyone is capable of being annoying to someone. Not understanding their language doesn't help with communication. That leaves little to talk about, hence the mistaken belief they are all stupid, as some think. I don't think Thais are all annoying. Misunderstandings happen a lot here because of the cultural and language differences, and I understand that. Go with the flow. There are things I don't like about both here and back home. I, like the OP, are just much better suited being back home. An average IQ means just that. Many here are very intelligent, and some worldly intelligent. The problem here is that, like in many places, the wrong people are in charge, and they aren't always the smart ones.
  19. When I move it's back home. Already caught quite a few big catfish. They aren't my thing, although they do fight well.
  20. Not afraid but don't want it to come for as long as possible. Want to see my youngest grow up, get into college, find herself, and find a good mate, along with seeing my other children all do well. Want to travel Europe, see at least 7 countries and explore the sights and tastes. Vietnam, Malaysia while I'm still here. Catch a big Marlin in Australia. Hunt and fish in Canada again. Catch a huge Bass, Muskie and Walleye. See that my girlfriend is as happy as possible. Settle back in Texas so I and my youngest can be near people who actually love her. Live to see the Vikings win a Super Bowl.
  21. I can also walk all day and still lift heavy, and I'm 67. Trust me, I know what goes on in the US, and I prefer it to here because it's nowhere near as boring, and I can't hunt here nor fish the species I like.
  22. Prejudiced against old people? You do realize some here could run rings around you and most other younger people don't you? And if we're sitting around doing nothing, how are you able to respond so quickly? I'm at home because it's a weekday and there (again) is very little to do I haven't already done here. I'm watching a movie on TV and replying to your gibberish.
  23. I'm not alone, and you are unaware. For one who claims to know all about every city in Thailand (not) you certainly don't see the forest for the trees.
  24. No, 6 years.
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