Believe what I am told. I have over 27 years of experience living in Thailand. I have lived in Bangkok and Pattaya and been a fairly regular visitor of Phuket. I now live in a more secluded part of Thailand, but still visit all three places. Like a 7 day trip every month. I go out a lot during my week of travel, and have never encountered any problems, over 27 years. So, of course you have seen this, and you have seen that, and your girlfriend is telling porkies. Maybe you and guys like you should start think with your F-ing brains. if you are positive, friendly, have a smile and socialize with people on all levels and nationalities, you will have no problem in Thailand. If you are of the negative kind that you are it will rub off on people. Already feel that I need a shower.