I think it’s an online freelancer thing. Not something you see in a bar with a girl being called over or people leering at a gogo in the middle of a bunch of guys.
Look for single western women or single female backpackers around your condo or female couples that look like they are not interested in guys.
It always looks a bit odd in Thailand, but then you realize what it may be, and you figure that’s ok, it just feels out of the norm. You can also feel that they are not at all into meeting other foreigners and kind of doing their own thing. It’s bush licking.