OP
1. Only one reason she would want to get back with you, 43 years later. She’s broke and for some reason she thinks you’re not.
2. Why bring a ham sandwich to a steak house.
3. Sure, post some before photos. If she’s as hot as you say she is, readers never turn down a good wan-.
4. Post both of your current photos. We can decide who’s getting the better deal.