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But many of us don't want to do any "women's work". ???? You have to be very flexible to do so

Wow thats quite a statement. Even moderators let it slip? It is as harmful as the action of the "influencer" , but .... For the matter with so called influencers, they always try to get beyond laws and then are surprised they get busted. Face the consequences. Lots of things and getting more and more will be punished. Dictatorship is thriving.

OK open mind. Maybe it is something nice, she has an extra house or so made for maybe holidays, So she has to lie for a surprise. Couldnt think more positive in this. I wondered why all at a sudden so many personal bad stories are running now in the forum. Are we only just feeding an AI ? Probably with all items since AI really came in. As said OP doesnt respond anymore. Just saying, just keep an open mind.

Fact, she is lying. With the lying mood swings occur, it can be hard to live with lies. Gambling history, is she really in the clear on gambling or you just thought so? Is there another guy? You talk about her phone, however you can buy many phones and you wouldnt know. Usufruct not done yet, why not? Should have done that already. No one can tell you what to do, you have to do it by yourself, whatever you do. Pick one of the options and proceed. You already said leaving property isnt an option, leaving her isnt an option.. Then live with lies and ignore, get usufruct and kick her out but you wont, confront her, follow her and confront. But then what next? You must decide. Life could be easy, but sometimes there are bumps on the road, how big is this bump for you? You say 99% of time together, however doubt that, as she has lots of time to visit that village. IF it is gambling and money issue, you could face financial problems (loansharks). And I guess you dont want to hang out with them. There was another OP this week who had the problem, wife gambling, although right under his nose. His wife didnt hide, but changed.

IF there are bad reviews, it means as manager, you are lazy to interact. You sit on your but and just collect. Thai business helped by ridiculous laws. But not only in Thailand it is like this, it is everywhere. Only Thailand has such ridiculous laws. How far you want to go, you take a blacklight with you, checking in in a hotel? Maybe then you are way more troubled. Blacklight shows you hidden things you maybe dont want to know, it can be really absurd. I do give reviews, but mostly later and if im really impressed earlier. I didn t know it could have an impact, as i made a very good review of Kinexchange in Hatyai. For the first time ever i received a feedback notification, it was viewed (last time i saw ) 10000 times. Amazing.

Too many blows to the head? Maybe stop boxing. You ve seen Connor McGregor with the mascotte? Should be an innocent promotion, but he hit full and hard and knocked out the mascotte completely. What was he thinking or didnt he? This boxer guy also lost his mind obviously or is it a new trend, opening doors while flying? Is is yet the second person trying to do so.

Weird saw a Motley crew docu where was said guitar player invented motor driving sound. I didnt agree as Montrose did way earlier. 2 numbers I liked with them, this one and "Gypsy", but Gypsy is really long Uriah Heep You probably know this one with "Black Betty", but picked another one from their greatest hits. Had the album once, but there it is on youtube Mmmm, after that number this one started, great rock song, had to share it. You see so many bands on youtube. ok finish with Clutch, little weird maybe, but I like it

When i first saw her with "'like a virgin" , long time ago, thought she would be a one day fly, but no she kept coming and her music really changed and grew. However she didnt grow in appearance, saw a pic and ...eeeeeeew. What is it with celebrities, they want to look ugly?

he can shake hands then with his former friend Thaksin, who is about to come to Thailand.

Just a simple device (RCBO) would have saved his life.

As I understood the "owner"' wants a pack of money. I dont know about Thai laws in having exotic animals, but neglecting taking care would be an issue. Leaving the gorilla all alone IS neglecting, they live in groups. What costed shipping this gifted elephant out to Thailand? A lot. So there is no excuse for doing right with the gorilla.

Your wife denies, so mind is already set on addiction. You can talk whatever you want, but as long as the mind doesnt respond on what you say, it is hopeless. SHE has to switch her mind and is tough to do so. Talking calm and repeating doesnt work. It leaves you only by doing things, that saves YOU and your kid. Step out your bubble. I know you dont like it, but the good past is gone and more going to a hell. Any kind of addiction could be destroying. And this one costs a lot and loansharks are waiting finally. Protect your assets, as many said. Leave, divorce, forget about the Merc for her and townhouse. That is the only thing to do, the harshest thing. There is no other way. All the symptoms are there and will get worse(if not already is), as the top will be, there are loansharks coming to collect. Police involvement, as gambling is forbidden in Thailand, give you more problems with the other addicted card players and families. Wish you succes in this. I know it is easier said then done, but dont be addicted on what once was.

Nasty situation, what can you do, what should you do? Dont think it is wrong to ask some things, discipline from your kid. Saw pic of his bedroom. So you are really tolerant. You had open conversations with him about his thoughts and never the less he is running when he doesn t like it. Maybe try to have another open conversation about his feelings, what is bothering him. Be aware if his answers could be true. It is not always the truth coming out. Try to have it in a fluffy way, but it's a challenge. Could be the pressure of the divorce. Maybe he is blaming you. At the same time he is in puberty, again a change in his life. How to handle, i couldnt say, depends on many factors and then what is the right one and what period has to expire? From one day to the other, or maybe a year. People are in phases of their life and prospections change. In "my" country, a kid can decide on age 12 where they want to live. Of course takes time in court and whatever needed, if it would happen. Once asked my kids but not real answer, so i skipped and didnt push. Eventually my youngest son was kicked by his mom out of her house, when way older. But still mom is so good. She couldnt coop with him for many years and ended when he was about 20-ish, kicking him out of the house. I know he was still visiting his mother afterwards. I thought I did right as father, even while divorced, but nope. Had some arguing about when they have holidays and always no from bi***h. Havent seen the boys now many years. They, when mature, 20-ish, thought they could do contact by just a f**** FB or an email with stupid questions and surprise me with that. Not come to me and have talk, nope. And ok they are now way more older and still not any of the 2, would have thought they were wrong. So be it, i just had to let go. Would have seen it otherwise but nope. ????Let it be , let it be???? Technically you have legal custody and mom should send her son home. I dont see you are unreasonable in your ways. However you just broke up and the kids probably have all kinds of thoughts(?) and the mother bounding is probably way more stronger then just to a dad and then boring dad is demanding room cleaning. DOnt get me wrong, i think you did ok in that, but son has other thoughts. Maybe rebellion due to age and /or divorce. Dont have hope on a jolly going out with the whole family. That ship has sailed. And why would you? You divorced for a reason. You have a tough cookie to crack, wish you succes.

Some reasons were mentioned, like menopause and drugs. And I thought my self , maybe she had a brain attack or even maybe a cancer growing, brain tumor. A brain attack can happen and you dont instantly know about it. Or dementia could also start kicking in. Busy in chatting on line with men. Never the less still above things can be working, but also long time passed issues can come up and now activated in brain, somehow, resulting in bad behavior. You never know how the brain, thoughts are working. Had a college, after several promotions, lost his job. At the same time he was in a divorce. I thought he was quite rational. However decided to commit suicide. Really incredible and not understandable, however pop goes the brain. I ve met people, changing on a severe blow of the head and vulnerable to that. Even were in coma, but changed a lot. I wouldnt care about anyone telling me what to do and leave WITH son. Maybe you can handle, but your son will be damaged. Get out, stay, kick her out. Get new locks and finish all. I ve met also quite some weird situations, but had to finish it myself and go on again. No fun, but a necessity. The future is not written, anything can happen. So wouldnt worry about that, you are living now! Think about your visa and how to handle that if you are on a married visa! Way more important for you and your son.

If you do so much effort for an elephant, then why not do the same for the gorilla in the mall? 25 years in complete solitude with only gazing stupid people.

Or it is air in the system (whole house) or you have a leakage of water in your system. The leakage seems to shut off the leakage eventually, or air bubble is gone then. You can compress an air bubble and then it decompress again, which switches your pump on and off, but mostly it continues then for longer time until you get rit of the bubble. You said not much cycles and stops then. Does this repeat itself? Due to variations in pressure in your system, your pump starts and stops. It eventually stops, so then pressure is stable. Or is it starting again after a longer period? Is your pressure switch still ok? Contacts of it, not corroded? Wiring ok? No corrosion on wiring? Can you hear the pressure switch switching? You could hear better by putting a screwdriver on the housing direct to your ear, so you can hear if it is switching. If you dont hear switching , it could be the contacts. I dont think there are additional relais to start pump, as it is not high power. But if there are relais used, they also could be bad in contacts. But i dont see them in drawing. The pressure tank, one side filled with certain amount of pressured air, is for stabilizing pressure. An auto pressure regulating device. Membrane inside can move a little up and down to do so. If membrane would break then your pump would do way more cycles, as air is compressible and balance is complete disturbed then. However yours is not doing so. My guess it would be a leakage in the system which shut of itself after some cycles. Leaking O ring somewhere? Toilet valve?

No not Dire Straits, but it has a same sound, marvelous guitar playing. This band just not long ago, met it on youtube, lovely country song. Nice funky band

Well for that mater about copying. johann pachelbel's canon in d major, man lived 1653-1706 There are soooooooooo many guitar players, bands, orchestra's copied and made their own version. See this amazing woman doing Beethoven, well at least she copied and made own version. It puts Beethoven in another way.

Putting it upside down in a box? It was activated immediately by hard handling. To be able to do so, the safety pin was out. Used for another function?

So there was a ruptured appendix, taken out, but from that sepsis still developed or keep on going? Kidney failure due to that? No anti biotics? The sepsis caused dying toes and fingers which had to be amputated? They were lost. She didnt stay in hospital longer? You would expect that with burst appendix AND kidney failure AND low blood pressure AND a dangerous drug. In the thaiger article you can read, she got a medicine for rasing blood pressure, Levophed, a medication used to raise blood pressure. Unfortunately, one of the side effects of this medication is compromised blood circulation to the fingers and toes. Then i dont understand why the woman wasnt hospitalized which such a drug AND all other failures. I would say doctor has neglected a lot in this case, not really the right procedure. She was send home after ruptured appendix, kidney failure, extreme low blood pressure and had a drug which caused the dying fingers and toes. I have serious questions on the doctor(s?), malpractice.

They had another song on youtube, but can be find anymore. Google is really messing up youtube

Fact is the harsh rules, about working, is only for farang. There are other rules for immigrant workers from neighbor countries. Then the rule, whatever a Thai can do, doesnt comply. Lots of immigrant workers in Thailand, occupying professions Thai could do. Once asked the question to Siam Legal: what is the Thai definition of work? Of course they never replied. It is left for interpretation of officers. You are a life, so your body is WORKING everyday, everywhere, it seems they happily dont make a point on that. So if your hobby is to help your wife with jobs, is it work then? You state it as a hobby. You have any machine doing work and you start it with your feet, no manual work. Then what? Or again , it is a hobby.

Well done, to burn it in special incinerator and not like in the past burn it in front of Thai officers, just out in the open.

What you could do after all that time, find a store where they test and can do refills, ask for price. Then have the old bottle and use it, so you can see what is does after such a period and you worked with it, experience. Be aware, where you point it too. Then bring it to the store and have it tested and refilled. My car is now 20 years old, but still not on km for changing driving belt. However decided to do so. There is a mileage for it but no time. I saw the "old" belt, it looked fine, also the ball bearing for the right tension. They also recommend the water pump, as it was on the same place. And that one showed damage, however never had high temperatures. It costed me, but think worthwhile. Of course the garage "let you decide", as i asked first if it was needed. They didnt "know".