Of course one point first, how in rules, culture or otherwise Thailand is thinking about that?
I know Thai are donating blood, but organs after dying? Maybe they do, but you ll have to inquire.
I see you need a Universal Health Care card, she has?
If the doctor is not active in kidney transplant, resolving, as he should be, find another one then.
Or Thailand has no such a thing as organ donor system, then all holds.
It is or nr 1 or 2.
12 years is a long time and indeed with the death of so many people in traffic, there could easily be the right donor.
I just did a little check and it seems Red Cross in Thailand is active in organ donation.
So maybe inform there.
Contact information
Organs Donation Center, Thai Red Cross
Therdprakiet Somdej Phrayanasungworn (Charoen Suwattano) Bld., 5th Floor
Henry Dunant Road, Pathumwan,
Bangkok 10330
Tel: 1666
To me it looks like the doctor is somehow holding things back.