You seem to attract the weirdos. The only one I ever met claimed to be the Dali Llama, but he was interesting to talk to.
Define normal? IMO there is no such thing, but if there was, a normal guy would go to school, get a job, get married, raise kids and die shortly after retiring. No way a "normal" guy would emigrate to Thailand to live, IMO.
BTW womanising is a genetic imperative for men, so it's completely normal. What is abnormal is the idea that men should have one woman in their life, which has only been the dictat for a fraction of the 50,000 or so years that humans have been wandering around on the planet.