spidermike007

On 8/15/2018 at 12:20 AM, 7by7 said:

 

As have those who want to dictate to other people what they can and cannot wear in public!

 

Before anyone comments; it wouldn't bother me if naturists were allowed to walk around naked whenever and wherever they chose.

It is now legal for women to walk around naked in NYC. During the summer you can find many women topless in the streets. Fun fun.

3 hours ago, superfarang777 said:

Yes I will most likely become some kind of english teacher, at the moment I now try to help I sold a watch I had and loved to buy her a ring, I believe she loves me truly as I see no other reason for her to go above and beyond like that when she had people sending her money before. She didnt work much before as had many sponsors and could just sit at home, but now she has cut them off on her own accord, she now just goes to works makes her drink and barfine quota, she will barfine with customers and just go for drinks and food elsewhere (so she says and goes on profusely about how she does not boom boom).

She is a great girl, has no mother or father in her life, so we are a new family together.

In all of the years I have been in Thailand, I have only heard of a man paying a barfine and taking a woman out to dinner, and nothing more on one occasion. And he was too old to do anything. Just wanted some company. However she did spend the night in his room, butt naked. They just never did anything of consequence. I believe you are living a life of delusion. Nothing you, or she says makes sense. She did not work before? The sponsors never came to Thailand to visit her? They never got busy during their frequent visits? Believing a Thai bar girl, and taking her tales at face value is your number one mistake. Wise up young man.

1 hour ago, jvs said:

Spidermike, i always saw you as a smart man,do you really believe this?I do not believe one word the op is saying.The only thing missing is he is not on some secret mission for the SNS.

Yes, I think you are correct. Sounds just a bit ridiculous. Too many aspects of his story do not add up. What kind of visa does he have? How does he manage to stay here without any money for border runs? Etc. etc. I believe you nailed it. A fairy tale.

1 hour ago, superfarang777 said:

Yes I will most likely become some kind of english teacher, at the moment I now try to help I sold a watch I had and loved to buy her a ring, I believe she loves me truly as I see no other reason for her to go above and beyond like that when she had people sending her money before. She didnt work much before as had many sponsors and could just sit at home, but now she has cut them off on her own accord, she now just goes to works makes her drink and barfine quota, she will barfine with customers and just go for drinks and food elsewhere (so she says and goes on profusely about how she does not boom boom).

She is a great girl, has no mother or father in her life, so we are a new family together.

How long have you been together? Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, they are going to manifest themselves over time. The bottom line is this. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. An environment like this allows us to do so. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take charge. If you are with a big baby, who only looks like a real woman, but in reality is a 13 year old, you will also find that out over time. Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. That is the undoing of most of these guys. Be like Bond. be a real man. Man up. Do yourself proud. 

Lastly, you know she has been working in the biz. Even if she gives it up now, you have no idea how many men she has been with. Could be 50, or 300, or 3,000. There is no way to know, short of hiring a very competent private detective. In my opinion, if it is over 500 she could be damaged psychologically, and it could be impossible for her to ever trust a man or have a truly open heart.

Food for thought? Time is your ally. Use it. Do not jump into anything too quickly here. No need to jump the gun. 

This is an excellent reason not to drive a Ferrari or any other super car in Thailand. There is a temptation to go fast, and that is a very dangerous thing to do here. Regardless of your skill level. There are alot of drivers here who are not in possession of impressive driving skills, nor are they paying attention sufficiently, nor are they planning and calculating correctly, or showing respect to other drivers, when making a move in traffic. So, better to drive with great caution, something the Ferrari driver does not appear to have been doing. 

I believe the yellow 95 is the highest performance gas available in Thailand. 

I do not even know what to say, after reading that post. One thing that comes to mind, is if you do decide to try to make a life with her, perhaps you might want to consider finding some type of career? One cannot suck the blood of others forever. At some point, you have to pay for the oxygen your consume, don't you think, despite the endless level of your "talents". 

I agree. There must be fairness. Fairness to the victims of this tragically incompetent woman, and the owner or the boat. Fairness to their families to get justice. She and the owner of the boat should spend the rest of their lives in prison. 46 counts of manslaughter. Or negligent homicide. When money is the only driving consideration in your life, and nothing else means anything, mistakes are made, and someone has to be held to account. Lock her up!

My heart goes out to all Thai students. It is the last place in the world I would want to be a student. Unless and until they are able to say to their teachers: "You are wrong. This is why I think this is the correct answer", things will never change. 

They are teenagers. They want to have some fun. And the fact that their classmates are some of the prettiest women on earth does not help them to behave! Let them have some fun. Oppressing them makes the forbidden fruit even sweeter. 

That is virtually impossible here. Instead, they are addressing this from the outside in.

The goons in charge are focusing their efforts in all the wrong areas. They are trying to make Thailand a Quaker State. A land of purity. Total BS. Nonsense. Misplaced priorities, and wasted efforts. They should be focusing their efforts on rebuilding the educational system from the ground up. And working on traffic and public safety, easing import tariffs, making visa policy simpler, and more friendly, boosting Western tourism, real crackdowns on slavery, and illegal fishing instead of nonsensical hyperbole, cleaning up the water, the air, the rivers, and the beaches, and other things that actually improve lives.

Little P. Not making Thailand great again. And moving the nation backwards at an astonishing and alarming pace.

Kind of a surprising move. Most Thais do not even seem to notice noise. Unless someone else is creating it! 

Guess he is not going to be able to enjoy the silence much longer. He will however be able to make alot of new friends, who will make him feel right at home in his new surroundings. Good move. Smart man. Objective accomplished. 

34 minutes ago, Happyman58 said:

ok, a couple of things will make up his mind. How much cash in his foreign account and can he spend it before he dies, or the opposition is an absolute shambles and he can't lose.Which his so-called loyal men are doing right now to make it that way with these special laws

That is really all I have to say at this moment. He has worked his entire life to deserve this fate. One can only hope justice prevails, with regard to the tangerine tornado.

She is responsible, as are the real Chinese owners, who are now hiding behind the scenes like the real cowards they truly are. If a man or a woman cannot, and will not take responsibility for their actions, the problems they create, the mistakes they make, and the issues they involve themselves in, what are they? Are they still an adult? Are they a complete individual, if they allow themselves to be limited by such infinitely small social convention? Real men or women, simply own a situation, and take responsibility for their errors or mistakes. Small men, social deviants, or emotional adolescents deflect, obfuscate, attempt to confuse, and do everything in their power to deny that they made a mistake, or that they are responsible in any way, or on any level. They make up narratives about fake news, or alternative facts. They say they did everything they could to prevent these deaths. Anything to avoid looking within, for the source of the problem. Anything.

He needs time to meet with his team of CPA's to determine if he has enough billions to live the lifestyle he wants. A new Gulfstream G650ER ($65 million), mansions in ten different capitals, Bentleys, and a large staff of security around the clock. The accountants will determine if the election needs to be postponed again. 

6 hours ago, cyberfarang said:

While the cat`s away, the mice will play, or in this case, while the cat`s away, the mouse will play. Unfortunately these women don`t realise they are playing Russian roulette with strong emotions and get in way over their heads, whereas these situations become out of control.

 

I doubt the Thai guy was a born killer or even a bad person at heart, but it is a fact that Thais are on a very short fuse, they can become blind with rage in a split second. I`ve witnessed several couples having domestics where I live and believe me, it`s scary, they go absolutely berserk.

 

The woman began playing the game and she lost big time.

It appears to always be about face, or the apparent loss of face. Face is no doubt, the greatest form of weakness, a human can engage in. Many will say it is societal, cultural, etc. No matter. It is the absolute and complete lack of the ability to introspect, and look within for the source of any problem, shortcoming, conflict, or issue. It is the polar opposite of spirituality, and therefore an absolute scourge on Buddha, and all of the precepts he taught. By practicing face, you are denying your spiritual heritage. You are refusing to man up. To take responsibility for your actions. If a man or a woman cannot, and will not take responsibility for their actions, the problems they create, the mistakes they make, and the issues they involve themselves in, what are they? Are they still an adult? Are they a complete individual, if they allow themselves to be limited by such infinitely small social convention? 

Who cares what people think of you? For those of us with high self esteem, it just does not matter. Sure, close friends and family. But strangers on the street? Who gives a rat's butt about this? It means nothing what they think, nor what they say about you. They count for nothing. They are just people, and people you do not know, nor will ever see again. Face is rife with self doubt, and by subscribing to this weakness, and man or woman is made a far lesser person. For those of us with high self esteem, we know who we are. What others think, what society thinks, what a guy or gal thinks, means less than zero.

Real men or women, simply own a situation, and take responsibility for their errors or mistakes. Small men, social deviants, or emotional adolescents deflect, obfuscate, attempt to confuse, and do everything in their power to deny that they made a mistake, or that they are responsible in any way, or on any level. They make up narratives about fake news, or alternative facts. Anything to avoid looking within, for the source of the problem. Anything.

12 hours ago, Byron Allen Black said:

Sooner or later this sort of reaction to extremism / terrorism is bound to happen, even in Eurabia. Raising kids to approve of bombings? Take away the children and put them in a re-education camp. Do not return them to the parents until you can confirm that they have forsworn their criminal convictions.

 

Take Germany, where there are autonomous Islamic enclaves where drug-dealing, gun-running and whatever else they please is going on. Sooner or later there will be a crackdown and boy will they be surprised. Bundeswehr / Police surround a block and cut off electrical power and water mains. All must come out and have their IDs check. Those who emerge with guns blazing will be met by superior firepower.

 

Hey, we are talking about GERMANS. And other Europeans who had to fight not so long ago. Will they be passive in the face of racheted Shariah imposition? I kind of doubt it. 

Wahhibism and Sharia both are both boils on the face of humanity, and have no place in a modern world. Both are the polar opposite of religion and do not contain a shred of spirituality. Both are total and complete misunderstandings of truth. It almost appears that they are deliberate misunderstandings, meant to serve another purpose. Make all Muslim women participates in bikini contests annually, to prove they are assimilating. Those that refuse are reported. The men who refuse to watch the contests are reported. Notes will be taken. Something must be done. Not acting, is tantamount to complicity. 

15 hours ago, dick dasterdly said:

If only it was that simple ☹️.

 

A previous poster provided a video link with three young, moslem women explaining why they CHOSE to wear the burka!

 

It boiled down to:-

1) They felt it made their religious beliefs more obvious....  For some obscure reason they thought wearing a scarf wasn't obvious enough....

2) Their parents having moved to the uk were more concerned about integrating, so thought it was preferable to not wear extremist clothing.

3) They (having been born here and therefore integrated), saw no reason not to wear this extremist piece of cloth covering their face.

4) They believed it made everyone 'look at them as themselves - rather than basing their opinion on what they wore/looked like'!

 

The last point made me laugh for a long time - but now I just think it's very sad that they're that stupid ☹️.

Dumb, dumb, dumber, and dumbest. If they really think any of this is the case, it only serves to highlight how much they have not assimilated. I say make all Muslim women participate in annual bikini contests, to demonstrate their true degree of assimilation. Simple solution.