Career Change for GF?

[Been there done that]

7 hours ago, NanLaew said:

So says someone who obviously has "Been there done that" on Orchard a long, long time ago.

From your 4 posts on this page, this is definately your weakest comment.

 

What did i do to deserve this ?

[GOLDBUGGY]

I think Thailand is like any other place and maybe even more so in Thailand. Without a good education nobody is going to give them a good job.That is how and why they end up working in the Bar as a WG in the first place. That is the first problem you will encounter. 

 

The second problem is the a Bar Girl Life is a pretty exciting one compared to a Parking Lot Attendent, sitting in some booth all day everyday and bored to death for little money. So even if she does find a job like that, the chances of her staying long is very little. Easier for her to go back to a bar.

 

Of course there is the option of setting up a small business for her, but that to is a big mistake. With no experience in this field of work she is bound to fail at this also. So you will just see your money fly out the window as fast as you put it in. 

 

Of course if she was really serious she could go back to school. She seems like she is quite young still. Then continue on through University. But even then you still run the risk of the second problem and she still might end up back in the Bar. 

 

I know many men have found a WG and have enjoyed many years together as husband and wife. Then there is many more where it all went the other way. There is no easy answer for the solution you need.    

[jose34]

Cheers for the responses 

 

She ain't gonna go back to school now doesn't have the time 

 

Singapore not an option

 

Definitely about CV and employment history so still need help on that one

 

"You can take the girl out the bar"

i know she'll never fully stop and thats not my concern just wanted to get her on the straight and narrow 

 

Cheers guys

[Been there done that]

2 hours ago, GOLDBUGGY said:

I think Thailand is like any other place and maybe even more so in Thailand. Without a good education nobody is going to give them a good job.That is how and why they end up working in the Bar as a WG in the first place. That is the first problem you will encounter. 

 

The second problem is the a Bar Girl Life is a pretty exciting one compared to a Parking Lot Attendent, sitting in some booth all day everyday and bored to death for little money. So even if she does find a job like that, the chances of her staying long is very little. Easier for her to go back to a bar.

 

Of course there is the option of setting up a small business for her, but that to is a big mistake. With no experience in this field of work she is bound to fail at this also. So you will just see your money fly out the window as fast as you put it in. 

 

Of course if she was really serious she could go back to school. She seems like she is quite young still. Then continue on through University. But even then you still run the risk of the second problem and she still might end up back in the Bar. 

 

I know many men have found a WG and have enjoyed many years together as husband and wife. Then there is many more where it all went the other way. There is no easy answer for the solution you need.    

Its not a positive picture you paint above 

[JohnMc45]

Don't know if this is any help but believe it is some type of government skills development program.  http://www.dsd.go.th/

[FritsSikkink]

14 hours ago, jose34 said:

Definitely about CV and employment history so still need help on that one

 

That won't work, she will fail massively on a job interview for a good job.

[torrzent]

Hate to be pedantic, but I think the topic should be entitled "Job change" rather than "Career change" as "career" usually implies some sort of training and professional qualifications.

[cyberfarang]

If she`s a prostitute then forget about her, nothing will make her change.

[MaeJoMTB]

8 hours ago, cyberfarang said:

If she`s a prostitute then forget about her, nothing will make her change.

No need to forget about her, just understand she's unlikely to ever want to work.