I am no Sherlock Holmes but I would say she's an ex bar girl based on the picture alone. 

20 hours ago, smotherb said:

It sounds like she couldn't stand the embarrassment and loss of face for being dropped by a Brit.

 

Nah, pissed her off. The old Brit had reached his "sell by" date. While she worked her butt off cleaning hotel rooms, he sat around at home blowing his pittance on drink, betting on footy, and buying rounds at his fave sports bar. So then she'd had to loan him the money to pay for the food and rent. In no shape to perform what with the age and drinking, he fell down on the stud service and refused to take 'is Viagra pills, claiming they'd cause a heart attack.

 

Though she'd once loved him madly, she just couldn't take it any more and raised hell on the old codger, yelling he'd better shape up. That's when he insisted she leave the room without his paying a pence of what he owed her!

 

At that point she just lost it. 

Edited April 9, 20188 yr by JSixpack

Nice rack on it though . Can see what the randy old English geezer was thinking.

3 hours ago, kingkenny said:

Its made The Mirror in the UK, has his picture also

He will be thrilled about that too.

1 hour ago, JSixpack said:

 

Nah, pissed her off. The old Brit had reached his "sell by" date. While she worked her butt off cleaning hotel rooms, he sat around at home blowing his pittance on drink, betting on footy, and buying rounds at his fave sports bar. So then she'd had to loan him the money to pay for the food and rent. In no shape to perform what with the age and drinking, he fell down on the stud service and refused to take 'is Viagra pills, claiming they'd cause a heart attack.

 

Though she'd once loved him madly, she just couldn't take it any more and raised hell on the old codger, yelling he'd better shape up. That's when he insisted she leave the room without his paying a pence of what he owed her!

 

At that point she just lost it. 

Yeah. like I said.

1 minute ago, smotherb said:

Yeah. like I said.

 

No. Not embarrassment or loss of face. Disappointment and loss of patience.

53 minutes ago, JSixpack said:

 

No. Not embarrassment or loss of face. Disappointment and loss of patience.

Methinks you misread the story.

Nice rack on it though . Can see what the randy old English geezer was thinking.

Probably paid for by the geezer


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20 hours ago, Chivas said:

shes at least 60.......38 my backside

She is 38.Thats what being an alcoholic does to you.

1 hour ago, smotherb said:

Methinks you misread the story.

 

My speculation is as good as yours--and that of the rest of our DSI: TVF investigators.

Edited April 9, 20188 yr by JSixpack

On 4/8/2018 at 8:01 AM, Samui Bodoh said:

I have to ask...

 

How many men in Pattaya are thinking of ending their relationship with their Thai GFs now?

 

And how many just had a change of heart...

 

Or at least a re-think on how to do it...

 

Yes, let them know when you're far far away in a different country LOL

2 minutes ago, JSixpack said:

 

My speculation is as good as yours--and that of the rest of our DSI: TVF investigators.

Well, I must agree that we each are entitled to an opinion. However, I cannot see yours as good as mine.

4 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Well, I must agree that we each are entitled to an opinion. However, I cannot see yours as good as mine.

 

Perhaps that's because the usual stereotypical opinions are so much more comfortable for you. Understood; hardly uncommon. 

On 4/8/2018 at 10:37 PM, welovesundaysatspace said:

It’s actually just one simple step:

 

1. Don’t get a psycho girlfriend in the first place. 

 

Done. 

in an ideal world ok

but cannot pick the psycho Thai girl straight away

they are always so sweet and demure at first

butter wont melt in the mouth

 

that is the beauty of the psycho Thai lady!

8 hours ago, JSixpack said:

 

Perhaps that's because the usual stereotypical opinions are so much more comfortable for you. Understood; hardly uncommon. 

Ah, you see, that too is your opinion.

Yep. Mysterious balcony dives are for those with tri-lingual Marketing Execs as partners....

Or the Ex has a ‘brother’.

On 4/8/2018 at 9:59 PM, 473geo said:

 

I was inclined to try to explain, but I have to say, your experience, needs, and views, are so alien to my experience of Thailand I feel any response I could muster would do little to change your understanding.

     Most probably your understanding of my experiences here are correct ....... I can only surmise that you evidently live in a part of    

     Thailand that I have yet to discover ....... sorry to say that, but in the main, for me anyhow, it is what it is here ....... for instance;

   

     1. I live on a small complex of detached houses. I been here for 15yrs & have had many neighbours come & go. In the very

         beginning they would say "Good morning" when our paths crossed or just the general politeness of "hello" over the garden  

         fence. Other days they'd completly blank you as if you are not there or fail to acknowledge even your presence. I've got use to

         it now as it appears the norm here, even between other Thai families on the complex who ignore each other too. It's not as if  

         we live "on top of each other" either as all the house are large with gardens. Perhaps the people who live here, but are not  

         next door neighbours you can forgive, but they too walk straight past every day without even a nod/smile or greeting.

 

     2. The complex consists of only nine (9) house & it's now about 80% Thai families living here. The residents do not mix at all.  

          It's as if they just keep within the family group & do not welcome "outsiders" to their homes, even during festive seasons,  

          which I find really strange. This has been the norm for almost my entire time living here. Even the children do not mix.

 

          Perhaps it's the culture thing that keeps us so segregated here I'm not sure, but Thai's do have a problem with cultural    

          differences & I'm the first to say to anyone, behaving properly & respecting the culture while you are here is paramount.    

          However, in general, I do not find that the Thai's are very welcoming towards foreigners, which is a real shame, because      

          living here for me has always & still is a dream ................... I just wish it was a friendlier place as the interaction between us

          is so important ............ not just for me personally, but for the good of the country too. 

         

On 4/8/2018 at 9:23 AM, Xyzero said:

I guess love you long time really applies 

Till death us do part comes to mind.

 

Den

On 4/8/2018 at 10:43 AM, RichardColeman said:

Least she did not Bobbit him !

Has that become a verb?

I, you, he she it bobbits. Nice I like it. 5555555

 

Den

6 hours ago, smotherb said:

Ah, you see, that too is your opinion.

 

No. That was a speculation: perhaps. As was my post to which you originally replied, which reversed your stereotypes: not a bargirl, and a Thai morally superior to a deadbeat Brit, except for the unfortunate loss of patience at the end. Sorry.

Edited April 10, 20188 yr by JSixpack

5 hours ago, siamcrut said:

Or the Ex has a ‘brother’.

Of course you are correct. 

 

5 hours ago, siamcrut said:

tri-lingual Marketing Execs

I was merely alluding to an earlier poster that suggested that his wife was way above stabbing him and I was pointing out that she would just get somebody else to do it for her..

 

But most Isaan girls are bilingual (Thai + Kmer and/or Laos) so add in a bit of English and or German/French/Italian etc and suddenly his claim is getting even more leaky....

1 hour ago, denby45 said:

Has that become a verb?

I, you, he she it bobbits. Nice I like it. 5555555

 

Den

Conjugate the verb to Bobb

 

I bobb

you bobbit

he/she/it bobbits

 

 

On 4/8/2018 at 12:54 PM, milys said:

Well I guess people are making the assumption because of most girls staying with farangs are not highly educated and  definitely not trilingual.

They rather met their husband/boyfriend while selling their body.

A slight generalization. Not all of us are with bar girls...

A slight generalization. Not all of us are with bar girls...

And those of us who are with (ex) bargirls are not all with psycho (ex) bargirls.

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16 hours ago, Daveyh said:

     Most probably your understanding of my experiences here are correct ....... I can only surmise that you evidently live in a part of    

     Thailand that I have yet to discover ....... sorry to say that, but in the main, for me anyhow, it is what it is here ....... for instance;

   

     1. I live on a small complex of detached houses. I been here for 15yrs & have had many neighbours come & go. In the very

         beginning they would say "Good morning" when our paths crossed or just the general politeness of "hello" over the garden  

         fence. Other days they'd completly blank you as if you are not there or fail to acknowledge even your presence. I've got use to

         it now as it appears the norm here, even between other Thai families on the complex who ignore each other too. It's not as if  

         we live "on top of each other" either as all the house are large with gardens. Perhaps the people who live here, but are not  

         next door neighbours you can forgive, but they too walk straight past every day without even a nod/smile or greeting.

 

     2. The complex consists of only nine (9) house & it's now about 80% Thai families living here. The residents do not mix at all.  

          It's as if they just keep within the family group & do not welcome "outsiders" to their homes, even during festive seasons,  

          which I find really strange. This has been the norm for almost my entire time living here. Even the children do not mix.

 

          Perhaps it's the culture thing that keeps us so segregated here I'm not sure, but Thai's do have a problem with cultural    

          differences & I'm the first to say to anyone, behaving properly & respecting the culture while you are here is paramount.    

          However, in general, I do not find that the Thai's are very welcoming towards foreigners, which is a real shame, because      

          living here for me has always & still is a dream ................... I just wish it was a friendlier place as the interaction between us

          is so important ............ not just for me personally, but for the good of the country too. 

         

A good read thanks, and I do I understand where you are coming from. My personal opinion is that to an extent western style houses stuff the Thai 'system'

In the old days the ground floor of the house was open, and situated there would be a a 2m square wood trestle, to sit on, eat on, nap on, and nobody was excluded.

Visiting the 'home' above, basically not required, and thus a subtle protection of privacy and security was in place. When I lived at the house of my mother in law I only ever went 'upstairs' for wedding ceremonies everywhere else was open house.

Now we have our own home there is a central area where the family will meet eat and chat, it is as if they have great respect for personal space, but then everything can usually be conducted outside so no need to go inside.

Most people I meet will acknowledge, pass greeting, say something, usually in Thai even though they may well not expect an answer, in the temple the old ladies engage me in conversation, at family gatherings, I am made to feel more than welcome and people appear to enjoy a little conversation. (My Thai not being very good) Funerals and weddings we attend I am always asked to join a group with my wife, school event I was dragged up rather reluctantly for a photo with the regional director and managed a few words with him! Going to the local market always a smile and look of recognition from people who remember me.

So we do have a social life, and to be fair the dearth of discussion on world events or life outside our lives I see as a bonus. Yes visiting others homes in the village we will generally be sitting outside in the breeze. How does that translate into a front door with a garden at the back for Thai people?

I hope you now have an understanding of my take on things as I do yours.

On 4/7/2018 at 11:43 PM, RichardColeman said:

Least she did not Bobbit him !

 

On 08/04/2018 at 5:39 AM, possum1931 said:

Yes, it's fair enough, but it is how much they charge you for about 5 mins work, probably the equivilent of about 3.5 thousand Baht, and you think that's fair?? No wonder they get away with it.

So about the same rate as a plumber back home then.

On 4/8/2018 at 10:35 PM, yuiop said:

yes

don't tell her you want to break up

act normal as if all is fine

meanwhile organize your move (what to take, where to go etc)

be prepared to lose some money (items you cannot easily move, rent deposit etc)

wait for the right moment (she's out with friends, visit family  etc) and move out

run

move to another city

eventually leave some money to her

 

If you own the place you're living in, then I don't know.

 

it may sound coward but that's better than stabbed.

 

 

 

Thanks, I think better to be a coward then getting stabbed or having her jump off a building or threatening suicide to get attention

On 4/10/2018 at 3:12 AM, tingtongtourist said:

in an ideal world ok

but cannot pick the psycho Thai girl straight away

they are always so sweet and demure at first

butter wont melt in the mouth

 

that is the beauty of the psycho Thai lady!

You don’t buy a used car just by looking at the nice coating. And you don’t even have to be a mechanic or engineer to understand a woman’s educational, social, professional, financial, and family background. Come on, it’s no rocket science. No ideal world needed. Just apply common sense. If she looks like that, speaks like a bar girl, can’t behave in public, can’t afford to share the bill, doesn’t earn close to or more a six figure salary per month, doesn’t at least have a bachelor from a reputable educational institution, doesn’t own a car and a condo, cannot hold a conversation about anything slightly more complex than what to eat,... then she’s not girlfriend or wife material. Not saying that there aren’t any poor or not-so well-off girls who can make good partners. But why take the risk? We don’t buy a USB-stick without having read at least a day of reviews and tests, but we marry the next best girl without proper checks? 

Edited April 11, 20188 yr by welovesundaysatspace

On 4/10/2018 at 10:13 AM, Daveyh said:

         next door neighbours you can forgive, but they too walk straight past every day without even a nod/smile or greeting.

 

I've found they often wait for you to offer a greeting first, being rather shy. Also Thais are not very observant of their surroundings and tend to focus on one thing at a time.

 

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  The residents do not mix at all.  

          It's as if they just keep within the family group & do not welcome "outsiders" to their homes, even during festive seasons,  

          which I find really strange. This has been the norm for almost my entire time living here. Even the children do not mix.

 

 

Thais know that relationships w/ outsiders can quickly become sticky. They might even start asking for money. So they keep their distance. Hardly unique to Thais among Asians. Cf. Japanese. So not really strange in context, only to you as farang. Now an upcountry Thai village is rather different, so you might move to one.

 

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 But Thai's do have a problem with cultural differences.

 

Seems you're having the problem w/ the cultural difference. But Thais do have a deep and abiding awareness of who's not Thai and so must be treated differently, as farangs in fact expect and often welcome. Few farangs want a bunch of chilies dumped indiscriminately in their ka pao moo, for example. So dealing w/ a farang means extra work and a voyage into the unknown, usually unwelcome. As noted, Thais are rather shy, contrary to the impression you may receive from massage touts. Finally, there's the language barrier. Nothing goes so far towards having pleasant relationships w/ Thais as knowing Thai and speaking correctly and acting in a polite Thai manner, no matter how strange that seems. Suggests you're not one of the idiots they've encountered or heard about. Are you giving your morning greeting in perfectly pronounced Thai, with a smile? I always receive a pleasant greeting in return.

 

Edited April 11, 20188 yr by JSixpack