WAS HE KILLED? Friends of Brit who plunged from Thai balcony while going through bitter divorce believe he was MURDERED

[MaeJoMTB]

3 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

IThe biggest part of the problem here, is the extreme emasculation that is taking place in the West. Most men, in the US, Europe, and Oz, are no longer real men, when it comes to dealing with their women. Their women have made their lives so difficult, and alot of women have gotten so far away from their innate femininity, and have become dominant, and super controlling, and men just go along with it. Most men have become so hungry for love, or emotionally desperate for some kindness, and TLC. And most are so desirous of being around a real woman, who knows how to act like a woman, and manifest the dignity, within femininity. So, it is easy for the con artists, like this worm Jariyaporn, to take advantage of emotionally wounded men, who seem to be willing to do anything to regain a semblance of normality in their lives, with a decent woman. 

  

Off topic,

It's actually welfare, the laws, the courts and the police causing the problems.

Can't really blame the women for taking advantage of those, I would if the situation were reversed.

[Justfine]

"He had "spent a fortune" on his "former hooker" wife"

Gee I wonder why it went sour.

[Justfine]

16 minutes ago, welovesundaysatspace said:

I don’t understand what the one has to do with the other. Even in a “whole new world” you have two eyes to see all those things I mentioned above, don’t you? How can a new world turn you blind on both eyes?

 

Love makes people blind sometimes. But how can fall in love with a bargirl in the first place?

Not love. It's lust. Some people are very lonely.

[JLCrab]

Whether pushed, jumped, or accident, the poor guy is dead. Some want to use that unhappy outcome as an opportunity to say that he was a chump, but that they are not nor would ever be a chump ... or doormat.

 

Good for you.

[rumak]

4 minutes ago, welovesundaysatspace said:

Whether you want to date a high-ranking Thai with a dodgy family background would be a different story. My point was that I wouldn’t date a batgirl or similar low-life. 

You are to be commended (though "date" might not be what many men are looking for when they see a bargirl (or batgirl for that matter).     Being in your mid thirties you probably have more chance of not "lowering your standards".   Give it time, young man  haha.   One advantage of getting older and having gone through life's adventures though....is being able to "understand" that not everyone is the same, and not

everyone has the same outlook on life as ones self.

[cornishcarlos]

58 minutes ago, riverhigh said:

People like me don't get legally married.

 

Ugly ? Boring ? Poor ? 

[rumak]

2 minutes ago, cornishcarlos said:

 

Ugly ? Boring ? Poor ? 

YES......those are the ones that usually are forced into getting married   !!!   

[crazyk]

Its right what they said here of his "former hooker" wife.i used to do a lot of short times then find a nice 1 stay with her maybe weeks .months or years.but when they start asking then demanding expensive things like scooters.high end phones or a house she's out of the door with all her stuff packed in 7/11 bags thrown at her.most expats are so gullible

[HAKAPALITA]

7 hours ago, BobBKK said:

They never learn...  'ex-hooker'  just DON'T DO IT Thais just don't have the same ethical system (i.e. they don't have one) as the West so don't take the chance!  easy!

Well theres a few thousand Thai Visa readers who havent been scammed , and are quite happy.!.

[MaeJoMTB]

1 minute ago, HAKAPALITA said:

Well theres a few thousand Thai Visa readers who havent been scammed , and are quite happy.!.

Not sure there's even 1,000 ThaiVisa readers.

[MaeJoMTB]

31 minutes ago, welovesundaysatspace said:

Whether you want to date a high-ranking Thai with a dodgy family background would be a different question. My point was that I wouldn’t date a bargirl or similar low-life, and that those people cannot hide it. 

I enjoy batgirls.

It ain't their family I'm interested in sleeping with.

But it would be interesting in knowing the high place you choose yours from ........ TEFLer by any chance?

[Jip99]

8 hours ago, cornishcarlos said:

 

He would have been entitled to 50% of everything acquired during the marriage..Whether that outweighed his lawyers fees, is another matter... 

 

 

I think you will will find that adds up to a grand total somewhere near diddly-squat.

 

Car in her name, bike in her name, land in her name...jewelry...

 

I don’t see your words “his investment “ having much value in this case.

[HooHaa]

17 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

I enjoy batgirls.

It ain't their family I'm interested in sleeping with.

But it would be interesting in knowing the high place you choose yours from ........ TEFLer by any chance?

Ah, the issan expat caste system asserts itself.
 

[observer90210]

Never put anything in the name of a local and make it clear in your wills,  both in Thailand and abroad,  that in case of any "sudden termination", the house on leasehold will be sold and the money will go to anybody abroad, but nobody in Thailand !! (because you were smart and did not buy land or anything in your girl's name)

 

As for the cash, just the minimum in the bank to calm down the *ç%%@ visa immigration requirements and that's it......

 

As for the monthly expenses, be the only one able to wire it each month from your home account, thus if you suddenly depart, nobody else to transfer the ca$h as it wont come in automatically !!  Very important and make sure the woman on your side is aware of this.

 

For those not yet into the trap of marriage, ask yourselves why you cannot just have a regular girlfriend/sexfriend in Thailand ???, and what necessity to marry ?....... just to make up for something you missed back home ??  and end up on retirement to get ripped off, cheated (or worse)  by some Thai lady or her family ??? 

 

All the women in Thailand are obviously not bad...but many are...no offence please to the "I-am-happy-married-for-10-years"..... And if the girls likes you, she stays no matter how much or how little you give her.

 

Be safe you old grouches out there and always be worth more alive then dead.....have fun in the mean time !!!!!

[Bluespunk]

6 hours ago, Lake Palmer said:

This is expatthailover, where any problem a farang encounters (including ones proven to be murdered) is their own fault, "they shouldn't come here if they don't know the dangers etc."

 

Yesterday he was complaining about a farang women who go seriously injured when a lorry drove into the taxi she was in.

First post and having a pop at expatthailover.

 

Excellent debut...

[brling]

6 hours ago, BEngBKK said:

There are god diggers in all countries.... And not only women

Exactly, but this is a Thai forum. Now do you get it ? Duh

[Justfine]

34 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

I enjoy batgirls.

It ain't their family I'm interested in sleeping with.

But it would be interesting in knowing the high place you choose yours from ........ TEFLer by any chance?

Daughters of Batman?

[brling]

6 hours ago, meatboy said:

that's a little bit strong.bar hookers as you call them are FORCED into being a bar girls.

   "FORCED",  time to wise up "meaty", and dont believe what they tell you.

[SpeakeasyThai]

44 minutes ago, HooHaa said:

Ah, the issan expat caste system asserts itself.
 

Ha! Being  humourous again?

Pity it's a one way street due to pompus self importance issues.

Lol

[dunroaming]

9 hours ago, ezzra said:

All too familiar story, an old geezer fall in love with a Thai bar girl, ' she falls in love with him, big wedding lots of drinks and food and big dowry,

lavishing her and her family with money and gifts, bar girl has a boyfriend on the side using the old guy money to support him, old guy find out, fighting fighting and more fighting, old guy desperte

and lost as to what is a happening here, more money on lawyers, try to save the marriage, nothing works, old guy either goes back home a broken man or jump from a balcony, suicide, will be the police findings.....

 

Clearly you knew the couple personally judging by your post.  Or is it just hot air?

[welovesundaysatspace]

33 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

would be interesting in knowing the high place you choose yours from ........ TEFLer by any chance?

Don’t know what a TEFLer is. But is meeting girls really rocket science? Ever considered that it could work the same here as back home, where you (probably) wouldn’t look in brothels either, but meet girls through friends, at work, in the library, during workout, as part of a club, or even on Tinder? Why do people think this is a different planet?

[Jip99]

2 minutes ago, welovesundaysatspace said:

Why do people think this is a different planet?

 

 

Are you saying that you don’t know that Thailand is a different planet...seriously?

 

 

You are doomed!

[welovesundaysatspace]

4 minutes ago, Jip99 said:

 

Are you saying that you don’t know that Thailand is a different planet...seriously?

 

You are doomed!

Looking at stories like this, it seems more like the people who believe Thailand is a different planet are doomed ;-)

[BangkokReady]

10 hours ago, webfact said:

Ex-British Steel worker John Toms  from Neath, Wales, allegedly burned through his life savings and 'ran up £100K debts' to give wife Thanyaporn Donsakul cash and gifts

Maybe they wanted to kill him to get some of his debt?

 

68 years old, loads of debt, Thai wife leaving him.  Literally had nothing to live for and zero motive to be murdered.

[HooHaa]

23 minutes ago, SpeakeasyThai said:

Ha! Being  humourous again?

Pity it's a one way street due to pompus self importance issues.

Lol

Yup. Waiting on a file, need to stay entertained somehow. 

 

That said, as we have learned in another thread, stalking is bad.

 

Shame.

[Shouldhaveknownbetter]

4 hours ago, welovesundaysatspace said:

I said it somewhere else already: Why do people still engage with hookers? You wouldn’t do it back home. Why do it here?

 

Get a quality girl. Someone who owns her own car and condo; who has her own six figure salary; someone who can, without embarrassment or shame, be introduced to you friends and family, or taken to a company dinner; someone who has proper education; someone who lived abroad; someone who doesn’t mind paying her share of the bill; etc etc. Sure, someone like that can still screw. But how big is the risk compared to engaging with a prostitute, and how big is the chance that the relationship will work out well compared to a relationship with a hooker? 

 

Whatever happened to this poor fella, whether it was suicide or murder, I’m sure it would not have happened if he had engaged with a quality girl. 

I know one of those.  Her family would disown her if she ever brought home a westerner. 

[SpeakeasyThai]

3 minutes ago, HooHaa said:

Yup. Waiting on a file, need to stay entertained somehow. 

 

That said, as we have learned in another thread, stalking is bad.

 

Shame.

So i hope  you've finally now leant this elementary lesson:

If you can't take it, don't dish it out.

[welovesundaysatspace]

3 minutes ago, Shouldhaveknownbetter said:

I know one of those.  Her family would disown her if she ever brought home a westerner. 

And? So what? 

[Shouldhaveknownbetter]

4 minutes ago, welovesundaysatspace said:

And? So what? 

The  point being, is that a Thai female who has everything going for her, most likely comes from a proud Thai family who would not appreciate their daughter dating Westerners.

[welovesundaysatspace]

1 minute ago, Shouldhaveknownbetter said:

The  point being, is that a Thai female who has everything going for her, most likely comes from a proud Thai family who would not appreciate their daughter dating Westerners.

And you come to that conclusion based on knowing just one of those? Wow. Let me tell you you’re wrong.