NoshowJones Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 1 minute ago, ginjag said: Wait for the wind to change lol Wait where? You could wait for days. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny2017 Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 2 minutes ago, ginjag said: Wait for the wind to change lol It's already here. The wind of change blows straight Into the face of time Like a storm wind that will ring The freedom bell for peace of mind Let your balalaika sing What my guitar wants to say 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post cyberfarang Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 23 hours ago, thedemon said: All hassles in Thailand can be eliminated with money. So you're just not doing it right. Actually, you`ve nailed it on the head. Don`t need to be rich, just having enough savings put by for a rainy day and a lifetime secured sufficient income to live a comfortable stress free lifestyle in Thailand, certainly makes the whole experience much more pleasant, but of course this applies anywhere. Coming from Britain that has changed beyond all recognition, is no longer the land that represents me, so cannot see myself ever leaving Thailand, because there are no greener pastures elsewhere. It`s far from perfect but I make the most of my life here. Those who continually moan and complain and rarely content, will never find happiness. If I had more more money, perhaps I would consider living elsewhere, but like the majority of us, have to make the most of what I have and in my own way, feel privileged and grateful that I am here. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jenny2017 Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 1 minute ago, cyberfarang said: Actually, you`ve nailed it on the head. Don`t need to be rich, just having enough savings put by for a rainy day and a lifetime secured sufficient income to live a comfortable stress free lifestyle in Thailand, certainly makes the whole experience much more pleasant, but of course this applies anywhere. Coming from Britain that has changed beyond all recognition, is no longer the land that represents me, so cannot see myself ever leaving Thailand, because there are no greener pastures elsewhere. It`s far from perfect but I make the most of my life here. Those who continually moan and complain and rarely content, will never find happiness. If I had more more money, perhaps I would consider living elsewhere, but like the majority of us, have to make the most of what I have and in my own way, feel privileged and grateful that I am here. 4 A great view of life. Too many people here are blaming the country, but when people lived in a shitty situation back home, the shit just followed them. It's who you are and what you are that makes life good, or miserable. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GinBoy2 Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 1 hour ago, ginjag said: Happy with my animals, BUT would return now ( had I not had my animals-pets)after all these years for my remaining years on this planet Oh I hear you on the pets thing. We agonized before we moved home about the cat ‘issue’. It was almost the breaking point of repatriation, but ultimately we bit the bullet and paid the extortionate fees, time and trouble to get her air freighted home. Now the difference between Thailand & USA when it comes to pets, when we go back to visit Thailand for 12 weeks I can trust people to look after her, feed her, play with her, in general make her life happy. If we’d left her in Thailand, maybe and it’s only a maybe could I have found someone to feed her, let alone anything else. So, I’m fully aligned with the issue of not wanting to leave pets behind. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whaleboneman Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 18 hours ago, 4MyEgo said: You might find it hard to believe, but there are those of us out there who had it all, all meaning what, possessions, but no quality of life, and one day we woke up and sold it all for a better quality of life here in Thailand Vs working 5/7th of your life for that a big salary of $170k plus a year, for no quality of life, paying high taxes to support others, Medicare levies and the cost of living to just reducing that figure even more, and if you had a mortgage, you were left with even less. Early retirement by 10 years has allowed me to enjoy taking in the fresh country air, has eliminated stresses that I used to have in my life, (non existent) since I moved here, paying no taxes on investments to support others which literally gives me what I was on after taxes, Medicare levies, etc etc. I do how I want, when I want, and to know that I have enough money on a comfortable monthly budget that will last me till I am 101 adds to my quality of life here. I return every 18 months where I was born in Sydney for a week, that is enough, I visit mum, my adult daughter and some close friends, none of them are happy, mum who is 83 is constantly complaining that she cannot survive on the pension, my daughter is stressed out seeing what is coming for her future, my friends complain of the cost of living and taxes they pay. Here I sit in the morning drinking my coffee with Mrs happy of 11 years, smelling the fresh air, listening to no cars or bikes going by, just watching the beautiful butterflies as they make their way past us. I am in no rush to go anywhere, why would I ? The problem with most Xpats, and excuse the truth because it hurts, is the majority of xpats didn't plan for their retirement, they drank their wages, now drinking the pension and have nothing to fall back on, personally if I had to depend on the pension to survive, I too would be depressed too, so saying "who are we trying to kid fella", is disingenuine, we are content, and will remain here as long as we are allowed to remain, that said, we can also up and leave at anytime to a new destination, why, because we have the funds to do it, "it does actually makes sense", if you can see past your disbelief and jealousy. For those thinking going back is going to make them happy, well happiness is within, and with full pockets 555 Well I liked your post until you contradicted yourself at the end. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginjag Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 (edited) 9 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said: Oh I hear you on the pets thing. We agonized before we moved home about the cat ‘issue’. It was almost the breaking point of repatriation, but ultimately we bit the bullet and paid the extortionate fees, time and trouble to get her air freighted home. Now the difference between Thailand & USA when it comes to pets, when we go back to visit Thailand for 12 weeks I can trust people to look after her, feed her, play with her, in general make her life happy. If we’d left her in Thailand, maybe and it’s only a maybe could I have found someone to feed her, let alone anything else. So, I’m fully aligned with the issue of not wanting to leave pets behind. 3 house cats, 16---9 and 2 years, NEVER GO OUT. 2 dogs 10 and 6 years, could not put them through the turmoil of airlifting them back to the UK, I inherited them BUT will have to stay and hopefully outlive them..............It is called LOVE Edited July 18, 2018 by ginjag 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinBoy2 Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 7 minutes ago, ginjag said: 3 house cats, 16---9 and 2 years, NEVER GO OUT. 2 dogs 10 and 6 years, could not put them through the turmoil of airlifting them back to the UK, I inherited them BUT will have to stay and hopefully outlive them..............It is called LOVE I’m totally with you bro. Now I know we may both be setting ourselves up for ridicule but some of our more hard nosed TVF brethren, but for many of us pets are family, sometimes closer, and a lot less judgmental! Yeah you got a tough one with so many, that gets pricey. To put it in context for one teeny tiny cat, between all the vaccinations, microchipping, Thai export paperwork, medical checks in BKK, without even starting on the airfare it all cost around ฿45000, so roughly $1400. Multiply that by your menagerie and it’s getting up there! As for traumatized. Well she wasn’t a happy cat when I finally got her out of customs in Denver, but she survived, and after a week or two was back to normal. Made sure we had packed all her blankets, toys etc in out luggage so when she got home there was her stuff, her smells to help the acclimatization. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malibukid Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 (edited) lived the rock star life before moving here 10 years ago, thank god i came to LOS, i would have been dead by now. Thailand save my life and moved her at the suggestion of my shrink in Beverly Hills who previously had traveled the world before going back to med school. i was suffering from panic attacks and L.A. was not the place to be. sure i miss the clubs and the Mexican food, ski trips and a few friends, but when i go back they are pretty miserable. very happy living a simple life, low maintenance. also many places nearby to visit like Bali, KL, Vietnam, Japan which are more interesting than the States imho. do not need a car here, no diner reservations, no dry cleaning to deal with and no F&^%^&** parking meters. so much street life here, vibrant.. the States seem lifeless to me. walking dead. Edited July 18, 2018 by malibukid 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malibukid Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 3 hours ago, kurtmartens said: For me, this will be the first time back in the US in 12 years .... hopefully will be able to adjust. first time back in 10 last month good luck. not the same country any longer. just more traffic, restaurant prices have tripled. $11 for a smoothie? $12 pad thai? what a joke 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pilotman Posted July 18, 2018 Author Share Posted July 18, 2018 20 hours ago, ChiangMaiLightning2143 said: Sounds like you are looking for an excuse. I don’t need to troll your own posts. Recently though I think you said “if you had not made a promise to a woman” you would never consider Thailand anymore. Stuff it. Get on with your life. Go back to your country. You probably won’t be missed and you don’t owe anything here to anyone. What a bitter post, you clearly have issues you need to address. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 3 hours ago, jenny2017 said: Full of Immigrants is a funny one. Aren't we all Immigrants in Thailand? One Immigrant says to the other Immigrant hey Immigrant, what are you doing here? ? It says in my passport 'non-immigrant', I'm just visiting. 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malibukid Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 21 hours ago, Maradona 10 said: ''Never going back to USA. And I had everything you could ask for there. Sold it all.'' Yea, course you did. If you had everything in the US, was happy and successful, loving family and friends, there's not a chance in hell you would have decided to emigrate to Thailand. Makes ZERO sense. Not sure who you're trying to kid fella. i had everything in the States, it's just that. all the materialistic BS, and the mind set of the people that come with that in the States. sooner or later you grow beyond it unless your a half wit president. the happiness that can be bought is so ephemeral. quantitative thinking does not make for a qualitative life. but go back jack and do it again, the wheel keeps turning round and round. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny2017 Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 (edited) 31 minutes ago, BritManToo said: It says in my passport 'non-immigrant', I'm just visiting. Wannabe Immigrant? I'm visiting the country now for more than 16 years and have only left twice. ? Edited July 18, 2018 by jenny2017 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 (edited) 2 minutes ago, jenny2017 said: Wannabe Immigrant? I'm visiting the country now for more than 16 years and have only left twice. ? Well, I was in the Uk for about two years, been back in Thailand 2-3 months. I can't remember why I went back, and can't remember why I stayed for two years, time just drifts past these days. Edited July 18, 2018 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jenny2017 Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 10 minutes ago, malibukid said: i had everything in the States, it's just that. all the materialistic BS, and the mind set of the people that come with that in the States. sooner or later you grow beyond it unless your a half wit president. the happiness that can be bought is so ephemeral. quantitative thinking does not make for a qualitative life. but go back jack and do it again, the wheel keeps turning round and round. 4 I had Ronald Mc Donald and Disney World back in the States, had my hamburger flipping job, plus a cleaning job, drove a 1971 Honda Civic with a gun in the glove compartment and steel rims, but now I'm only making 35 K as an English teacher !! I made it from a dishwasher to a millionaire. ( Laotian Kip millionaire!) ? 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jak2002003 Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 We are not 'expats' or immigrants in Thailand. We are ALIENS !!! 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ54 Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 I like Thailand.. weather is good, live in the countryside NE. Some issues but they can be found anywhere. All in all good... one exception is HD aside too dang expensive and I enjoy riding. No phones No emails....... perfect 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suetape Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 I’ve lived in Thailand, Germany and Iran. The older I get the happier I am with just visiting Thailand annually. I love Thailand and I also enjoy returning to Florida. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LongTimeLurker Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 On 7/17/2018 at 11:57 AM, Pilotman said: how many of you would leave Thailand if you could I can, and I will. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GinBoy2 Posted July 18, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted July 18, 2018 42 minutes ago, Suetape said: I’ve lived in Thailand, Germany and Iran. The older I get the happier I am with just visiting Thailand annually. I love Thailand and I also enjoy returning to Florida. Thats the dirty rotten truth for most, a category of the post Thai resident, now vacationer of which I fall most definitely into. I still love visiting Thailand, it’s a great vacation destination...just don't go to murder island, rent a jet ski, motorbike or try to go to the Grand Palace on one of those ‘half day closings’ LOL....Oh, and and buy travel insurance But that arrangement only works if you can afford to do the two location thing. I thing JT in a much earlier post summed it up quite well. For a lot of folks it’s to a point where they have burnt bridges, or just basically run out of resources that means the option of returning to their home, either full time or part time just isn’t an option. Then two things happen; either like JT they accept the reality of wanting to return, but can’t afford to. Or, as seems to be more prevalent on here they slip into the uber Thai lifestyle defense mode, where you’re not sure who they are trying to convince, that their life in Thailand is super wonderful. All in all it’s a mixed bag of tricks. We all make our own way and decide what works for us personally. I sure that there are some who genuinely like it full time, those of us that can tolerate part time, and those in the most unfortunate category who are just stuck trying to convince themselves that it’s wonderful 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grusa Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 22 hours ago, Maradona 10 said: The problem with most Xpats, and excuse the truth because it hurts, is the majority of xpats didn't plan for their retirement, they drank their wages, now drinking the pension and have nothing to fall back on, personally if I had to depend on the pension to survive, I too would be depressed too, so saying "who are we trying to kid fella", is disingenuine, we are content, and will remain here as long as we are allowed to remain, that said, we can also up and leave at anytime to a new destination, why, because we have the funds to do it, "it does actually makes sense", if you can see past your disbelief and jealousy. Not necessarily true. My wife (farang) and I DID plan, and we could have lived a very wealthy and happy life anywhere in the world. BUT, the wanking bankers stole it all. We still survive on my state pension and some property rental, the UK government swindled her out of eight years of hers. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
altcarrbob Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 I just wanna go 'ome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoNavy Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 This my 13th year here. I lived in the city of Pattaya for 10 years and enjoyed its fruits for a spell. Made some farang & Thai friends. Later tired of the beach with vendors then farang friends moved or changed. I did not want to have a liquid breakfast and accepted that I had been there done that. Traveled to Cambodia and northern Viet Nam. My roots are rural so met a nice Thai and moved to Isan and live in a small village building my own castle Thai style.. I fly back to the states once a year for a couple of months and then ready to return. Flying is not fun but go business class and that helps. I make it an adventure and enjoy the folks along the way, Have been told aging is NOT for pussies and I learn about that every day. Life is what we make of it and if we don't like it, change something. Attitude? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carken Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 On 7/17/2018 at 4:21 PM, impulse said: That's an appealing thought, right up until there's something that can't be solved in Thailand with the funds available. Sure, the base needs and impulses can be met quite handily with enough cash. But not all needs, and cash doesn't always last as long as retirement. What about missing family left behind, or the realization that it is tough to build a functional support network while surrounded mostly by fellow expats feeding their base desires for sex and booze, and locals whose economic reality has them looking at us like cash cows? And there's no safety net for many guys who, through poor planning, bad luck, or scheming wives, lose their money. At least back home, there's always a way to bring in a few bucks without having to keep your head down so you're not grassed up for WP violations, or for pursuing forbidden occupations. I'm in the process of repatriating after working for around 7 years in Thailand. I may be back. But in the meantime, I'm going to see how it is back home, re-introduce myself to family I haven't seen in many years, work a few more years while I can, and then decide where to retire. I count my Thailand adventure as a positive in my life. But I miss a lot of things back home that aren't available in Thailand at any price. Maybe I won't like it back in Texas. But I liked it there fine before I moved to Asia for the paycheck. I spent most of my childhood growing up in Texas Wichita Falls, San Antonio, Odessa .... Texas is a great place to be from ..... as far from it as one can get 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 10 hours ago, possum1931 said: Not all westerners are like that, neither do all the ordinary Thai people think like that. We are not all members of the barstool brigade. neither are all the ones you generalize about in the UK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poanoi Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 12 hours ago, AYJAYDEE said: arent you an immigrant? no, the difference is that an immigrant is a leach that doesn't contribute a single baht and never will, the immigrant gets paid by the host country and that was the entire rationale for coming in the first instance. this is in stark contrast to expats that always pay their way 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 9 minutes ago, poanoi said: no, the difference is that an immigrant is a leach that doesn't contribute a single baht and never will, the immigrant gets paid by the host country and that was the entire rationale for coming in the first instance. this is in stark contrast to expats that always pay their way ???????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 From Billy Wilder's Some Like it Hot (1958) Marilyn Monroe as 'Sugar' Sugar: I don't want you to think that I'm a drinker. I can stop any time I want to -- only I don't want to. I can leave Thailand any time I want to -- only I don't want to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinBoy2 Posted July 18, 2018 Share Posted July 18, 2018 13 hours ago, malibukid said: lived the rock star life before moving here 10 years ago, thank god i came to LOS, i would have been dead by now. Thailand save my life and moved her at the suggestion of my shrink in Beverly Hills who previously had traveled the world before going back to med school. i was suffering from panic attacks and L.A. was not the place to be. sure i miss the clubs and the Mexican food, ski trips and a few friends, but when i go back they are pretty miserable. very happy living a simple life, low maintenance. also many places nearby to visit like Bali, KL, Vietnam, Japan which are more interesting than the States imho. do not need a car here, no diner reservations, no dry cleaning to deal with and no F&^%^&** parking meters. so much street life here, vibrant.. the States seem lifeless to me. walking dead. You remind me of a friend of mine. He was an artist in Los Angeles in the 80’s, living the scene. Said to me, that when he got married he knew he had to get out, or it was a recipe for divorce, addiction, death, or all of the above. He decided to move to Idaho instead, probably simpler than Thailand, but worked for him, He’s still married, and importantly not dead! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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