mizou198 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 3 minutes ago, Bluespunk said: She didn’t ask to be murdered. maybe not murder, but she asked for troubles. Ignore this is like putting your hand into a fire and expect to don't get burn I'm sure you guys, @Bluespunk and @giddyup would be the first to say something similar if the situation were opposite and if it was the guy who were murdered ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) 4 minutes ago, mizou198 said: maybe not murder, but she asked for troubles. Ignore this is like putting your hand into a fire and expect to don't get burn I'm sure you guys, @Bluespunk and @giddyup would be the first to say something similar if the situation were opposite and if it was the guy who were murdered ? There have been plenty of cases of guys exploiting vulnerable women for money, can't say I've heard about too many being murdered for it. Not saying women don't kill out of jealousy, they do. Edited September 6, 2018 by giddyup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizou198 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 4 minutes ago, KiChakayan said: No. I had a good friend, my paragliding instructor. He chose to get the extra exhilaration from base jumping. One day he misjudged the catabatic flow. RIP Pascal. perfect example. But i'm sorry for your friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluespunk Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 5 minutes ago, KiChakayan said: No. I had a good friend, my paragliding instructor. He chose to get the extra exhilaration from base jumping. One day he misjudged the catabatic flow. RIP Pascal. All she did was make her own choices. She died because a pathetic, fragile ego male, could not cope with the fact he did not own or control her. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 3 hours ago, giddyup said: Wake up, they weren't boyfriends, they were customers. c'mon a boyfriend in Netherlands who sponsored her money every month , yet another Thai boyfriend who finished her life. I didnt justified her boyfriend , but what you sow shal you reap...if you play with fire chances are you get burned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluespunk Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 5 minutes ago, mizou198 said: maybe not murder, but she asked for troubles. Ignore this is like putting your hand into a fire and expect to don't get burn I'm sure you guys, @Bluespunk and @giddyup would be the first to say something similar if the situation were opposite and if it was the guy who were murdered ? No I wouldn’t. If the other person in a relationship acts in a manner you dislike, walk away. Relationships do not equate ownership. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) 4 minutes ago, NonthaburiBear said: c'mon a boyfriend in Netherlands who sponsored her money every month , yet another Thai boyfriend who finished her life. I didnt justified her boyfriend , but what you sow shal you reap...if you play with fire chances are you get burned If you are dumb enough to be sending money to a good-looking Thai girl, Russian, Ukrainian, whatever, then you deserve to be burned. You are just too gullible to survive in the real world. If someone offers me a 50% interest return on my investment then absconds with my money, is it my fault or theirs? Edited September 6, 2018 by giddyup 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizou198 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 1 minute ago, giddyup said: If you are dumb enough to be sending money to a good-looking Thai girl, Russian, Ukrainian, whatever, then you deserve to be burned. You are just too gullible to survive in the real world. Actually, nong nurse made bad choices and was not able to survive in this real world. but @NonthaburiBear is still there to bring a valuable contribution. therefore, i'm more willing to follow his advices that hers to survive... It's not being dumb but duped. And this is the root of our misunderstanding. But ok. i m not sure we could say much more about this case. you have a very sharp opinion. I respect it. But i don't agree with you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 4 minutes ago, mizou198 said: It's not being dumb but duped. And this is the root of our misunderstanding. They wouldn't be duped if they weren't dumb, or should I more kindly call them naive, unworldly, gullible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 53 minutes ago, mizou198 said: What you re suggesting here is this guy should not had been so involved into the relationship considering that he is ugly and he should have known she was there for the money ? ? Even movie and rock stars have to pay for LTRs. Famous/good looking guys can get a couple of bangs on credit, but try for more and it will cost likely you a house/alimony and child maintenance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 31 minutes ago, giddyup said: There have been plenty of cases of guys exploiting vulnerable women for money, Vulnerable no, she looked more like a predator to me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 Just now, BritManToo said: Vulnerable no, she looked more like a predator to me. Read what I said. I was talking about guys who exploit women, not this case obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizou198 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 3 minutes ago, giddyup said: They wouldn't be duped if they weren't dumb, or should I more kindly call them naive, unworldly, gullible. It's called victim blaming then ? ok, so at the end you agree that the guy was a victim in first instance in some way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) 5 minutes ago, giddyup said: Read what I said. I was talking about guys who exploit women, not this case obviously. From what I've seen during my life there are very few men who have managed to exploit women. It's nearly always women exploiting men, I've certainly managed to lose a house or two, and the women were nowhere near this attractive! Edited September 6, 2018 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 Just now, mizou198 said: It's called victim blaming then ? ok, so at the end you agree that the guy was a victim in first instance in some way. Victim blaming? I would call the deceased woman the victim, the guys were just victims of their own fantasies. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) 5 minutes ago, BritManToo said: From what I've seen during my life there are very few men who have managed to exploit women. It's nearly always women exploiting men, I've certainly managed to lose a house or two! One house, understandable, two houses, unforgivable. Some people never learn. I know a guy here who has lost 3 houses to 3 different women, now he is penniless and surviving on a meager pension. Was he exploited, hardly. Edited September 6, 2018 by giddyup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mizou198 Posted September 6, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted September 6, 2018 6 minutes ago, giddyup said: One house, understandable, two houses, unforgivable. Some people never learn. I know a guy here who has lost 3 houses to 3 different women, now he is penniless and surviving on a meager pension. Was he exploited, hardly. ? ok you re a kind of radical feminist bot or something similar. Your posts defend two opposite ideas. one day you invite people to avoid victim blaming, the next day, victim blaming is acceptable if they are men who are duped. They get scammed because they are dumb.. their fault Do you realize it's exactly the same reasoning of blaming nong nurse to get killed because of her choices right ? 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 7 minutes ago, mizou198 said: ? ok you re a kind of radical feminist bot or something similar. Your posts defend two opposite ideas. one day you invite people to avoid victim blaming, the next day, victim blaming is acceptable if they are men who are duped. They get scammed because they are dumb.. their fault Do you realize it's exactly the same reasoning of blaming nong nurse to get killed because of her choices right ? Killing someone is no justification for your own stupidity and naivety. My final word. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaksimMislavsky Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 6 hours ago, NonthaburiBear said: cheat on her man He was no man of hers hence no cheating. A customer or an occasional date - as you prefer to put it ("khop har kan" - seeing each other - as it goes in the Thai news source). They were not living together as a couple nor anything to that effect. Although he was struggling to get in possession of her, failed, and couldn't cope with it like a full-grown man. A brave, smart, independent woman she was, yes, employing her looks and wits to her best advantage, rightfully so. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaksimMislavsky Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 5 hours ago, oldlakey said: There is no chance of protecting prostitutes who play their clients There is. Prosecute the killer full-time and don't blame the victim publicly as it encourages future violence against "prostitutes who play their clients" by implying that the shooter was actually not so much in the wrong thus contributing to upholding the convention that his act was somewhat socially acceptable as "she was asking for it" 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rimmer Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 An off topic troll video has been removed, please take note of the following rule: 9) You will not post inflammatory messages on the forum, or attempt to disrupt discussions to upset its participants, or trolling. Trolling can be defined as the act of purposefully antagonizing other people on the internet by posting controversial, inflammatory, irrelevant or off-topic messages with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response or to generally disrupt normal on-topic discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nice Boyd Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 don't know she was a pretty good actressThey all would give The Oscars a run for their money Sent from my iPhone using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 2 hours ago, giddyup said: Killing someone is no justification for your own stupidity and naivety. My final word. i agree, but what comes around goes around. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaksimMislavsky Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 22 hours ago, impulse said: What if she had been with one of her other guys when the shooter opened up? Now, she herself has answered your question in a developing story reported in a newer thread: "Sia Lop found out that she had gone to his [another man she dated named Tee] house after going to an entertainment venue in the city to the west of Bangkok. He went there to confront her and sent her a picture of him armed with a gun to threaten her. She decided to come out and meet him at the end of the soi to avoid trouble with the household at Tee's place. Nurse was then shot dead with a 9mm gun in her red plate car." Irresponsible. Careless. Making wrong choices. Or was she? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerrit2561 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 9 minutes ago, MaksimMislavsky said: Now, she herself has answered your question in a developing story reported in a newer thread: "Sia Lop found out that she had gone to his [another man she dated named Tee] house after going to an entertainment venue in the city to the west of Bangkok. He went there to confront her and sent her a picture of him armed with a gun to threaten her. She decided to come out and meet him at the end of the soi to avoid trouble with the household at Tee's place. Nurse was then shot dead with a 9mm gun in her red plate car." Irresponsible. Careless. Making wrong choices. Or was she? Wrong choice. She should have called police, and wait inside. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaksimMislavsky Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 2 minutes ago, Gerrit2561 said: Wrong choice. She should have called police, and wait inside. Apparently she tried to avoid causing trouble to Sia Lop, either... Rather than being concerned about her own safety. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 39 minutes ago, NonthaburiBear said: i agree, but what comes around goes around. So stringing a couple of dopes along justifies her being murdered? Bizarre logic, but expected. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizou198 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, MaksimMislavsky said: Apparently she tried to avoid causing trouble to Sia Lop, either... Rather than being concerned about her own safety. Sure, she deserves a posthumous medal Tomorrow i ll light a fire in a forest, then i will call the fire men. I hope people will see that i'm a true hero. There are 2 options : 1- she was dumb 2- she was a manipulator. Option 2 seems more likely considering what we know from her and her choices of life But maybe i m wrong...she can be both, 1 and 2 Again, i feel sorry for her. Or more specifically, sorry for her kids. They will grow without her and it s very sad. Edited September 6, 2018 by mizou198 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaksimMislavsky Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) 21 minutes ago, mizou198 said: There are 2 options : 1- she was dumb 2- she was a manipulator. Option 2 seems more likely considering what we know from her and her choices of life But maybe i m wrong...she can be both, 1 and 2 This rather applies to ai Sia Lop as he tried to intimidate an independent woman of certain walk of life (which fact was known to him) into being his exclusive property. Failing with that, he resorted to gunning her down in a desperate possessive greed fuelled bid of not letting anyone else ever enjoy her company. Through his action he has caused significant harm to others and landed himself in trouble. Edited September 6, 2018 by MaksimMislavsky Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaksimMislavsky Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 26 minutes ago, mizou198 said: Sure, she deserves a posthumous medal She deserves sympathy and not being posthumously blamed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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