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i was curious to know what Thais and Farangs are spending on their mia nois .

typically what they spend on rental , cash supply ,expenses , car or bike etc .?

now before some smartass declares anything betwen x & y bahts bla bla bla , i was interested in known examples if they know such a thing .

Ones hears of Thais having 7 or 8 mia nois and farang expats having one or 2 ..

so what are the running costs and advantages and disadvantages of stashing away a mia noi or 2 .

how long do they hang on to their mia nois before they get bored and leave , or are usurped by another mia noi .

(we all know they get their leg over when they feel like it so no obvious answers thanks) "}

( and we know they are a status symbol of sorts ...)

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Ones hears of Thais having 7 or 8 mia nois and farang expats having one or 2 ..

so what are the running costs and advantages and disadvantages of stashing away a mia noi or 2 .

How many girls can you afford to maintain?

What kind of girls can you afford to maintain?

There is no rule, money is key.

How much can you afford to pay?

As for the advantages? None but I am not Thai and not that old yet,... :o:D

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Sorry, no comments from my side.

Cars, boats and any form of ladies, (mia nois, shiao tai tais, just friends)

I feel no need to discuss. If you have to ask for a price, it just means you cannot afford it.

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Great posting, Axel. Now that admins/mods are trying to clean up this place a bit, these such threads are still going. Just one thing, if one can't be faithful and is looking for info on having a mia noi/mistress or whatever, why bother getting married in the first place?

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Eric, I see nothing wrong in the question you have asked.

I know of a local Thai business owner, in his sixties, who is looking for a mia noi and is offering 20k per month. This is considered a very good offer.

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Lovelycutie: Yes.. I'd be all for cleaning the board up... but I see this one more as a question about an established social concept in Thailand, just out of curiosity.. And as long as the discussion is civlized it's not all that offensive really...?

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Just one thing, if one can't be faithful and is looking for info on having a mia noi/mistress or whatever, why bother getting married in the first place?

Thanks Elsie (I like this better than LC :o )

To get married is very serious and I think even today people who say

"I do" actually mean it.

What happens afterwards is the difficult part. Some are honest to each other and look for a divorce, others go secretely (or not so scretely) astray but stay together for childrens' sake.

Everything can happen.

Back home the head honcho (you would call him Prime Minister) is on wife No. 4, the foreign minister just divorced and working on wife No. 5.

Now in such cases, I daresay something mentally wrong with each of them, but not my biz.

I stick to my own until I find a better one, I promised her. :D

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What happens afterwards is the difficult part. Some are honest to each other and look for a divorce, others go secretely (or not so scretely) astray but stay together for childrens' sake.

Everything can happen.

I can understand this, actually the latter was what my mother did. My parents should have got a divorce ages ago as they couldn't (and still can't) stand one another. My mother decided to bear with him even though he was a drunkie and got violent sometimes. She told me she stayed for our sake as she couldn't have taken care of her little girls all by herself.

Now, they haven't got any respect for one another. When something tiny went wrong, Dad would yell at us and stuff. He used to slap me, just because he was drunk, stressed out, and looking for someone to blame for his own mistakes. He even grabbed a knife once and was marching to my room. Then, he found my little sister (only around 9 years old) crying with fear in my arms (sorry, no fear or tears from me). So, he just yelled at me and left. Mind you, on the wall in front of my room, I can still see blood stain there. Never clean it up as I want him to see it every time he walks past.

So, at some level, I don't really believe in "for the kids' sake" much.

And no, he doesn't have a mia noi. I know for a fact as I am the one who is getting money into his bank account and is checking his credit card statement. :o

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I know for a fact as I am the one who is getting money into his bank account and is checking his credit card statement. :o

If it was my father, I would sure not support him,...

But I guess you do it for the other members of the family.

Or maybe it's in the Thai culture.

Anyway, I really admire you, LC.

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>>>>Now, they haven't got any respect for one another. When something tiny went wrong, Dad would yell at us and stuff. He used to slap me, just because he was drunk, stressed out, and looking for someone to blame for his own mistakes. He even grabbed a knife once and was marching to my room. Then, he found my little sister (only around 9 years old) crying with fear in my arms (sorry, no fear or tears from me). So, he just yelled at me and left. Mind you, on the wall in front of my room, I can still see blood stain there. Never clean it up as I want him to see it every time he walks past.<<<<<

Sounds like a normal evening at any families house here in the US

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Bite my tongue- hard enuf having one relationship, but multiple and paying for them? I guess I don't understand why someone would want such hassle and if they did why not be single?

Multiply what a pain in the arse such a scenario would be I think I would rather jump off a building then deal with that rubbish! :o

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I can never work out why some girls wear high heels...isn,t walking complicated enough ? As for a mistress.......get out of here, I need that complication in my life?

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