Where To Find Good Farang Boyfriends?

[britmaveric]

Teeraknaka Ahhh a "Tilak" Well certainly sweet if true darling.

[teeraknaka]

hahahaha...See? at least... you agree with me..

Have a nice day na ka...

[Khun Larry]

This thread was started with my frustation and perhaps some doubt where to find the right people who hang out with in Bangkok. We have not seen decent farangs in bkk for ages As  mid 20s women, well educated we all wonder if guys only go for prostitute for casual sex.

LC, surely I will be very happy to meet you guys.

I think you are experiencing some of the same frustrations farangs have when they want to get away from the BG scene. I know it has been an annoyance to me. The only way I know of to get away from the BG scene in BKK is to take a trip outside the country.

Every venue that I am aware of in Thailand where Farangs go (hotel lobby bar, CM2, Gullivers etc) is infested with Thai working girls. So if you want to meet a Farang you will likely go to one of these places and be presumed to be a worker to some degree.

Second, it seems to me Farangs do not mix with Thais and Thais, especially Thai men, do not mix with farangs outside the above mentioned venues. So the traditional Thai venues will not have single farangs. I know of no place in BKK which has Thai men and Farangs in a 50 - 50 ratio or even 80 - 20 in either favor. Possibly a soapy massage but I don't think that is what you had in mind, is it? .

Although most farangs are tourists and would not be available for a relationship beyond a few weeks a year, I suspect there are sufficient "decent farangs" filtering through. Whether they are interrested in a relationship is another matter.

And a few questions if I may. What is your definition of a decent farang? Where do you go now? If you had faranf BF where would you go together?

Thanks for bringing up this topic.

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[Khun Larry]

thai boyfriend is good.. but farang boyfriend is much sweeter!!!

teeraknaka you certainly look pretty sweet yourself

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[teeraknaka]

...hahahahah

Khob khun ka...khun Larry..

You are so sweet.. I really glad that I came to this site and met a good friend as you... Have a good day..

[stroll]

"Every venue that I am aware of in Thailand where Farangs go (hotel lobby bar, CM2, Gullivers etc) is infested with Thai working girls. So if you want to meet a Farang you will likely go to one of these places and be presumed to be a worker to some degree.

Second, it seems to me Farangs do not mix with Thais and Thais, especially Thai men, do not mix with farangs outside the above mentioned venues. So the traditional Thai venues will not have single farangs. I know of no place in BKK which has Thai men and Farangs in a 50 - 50 ratio or even 80 - 20 in either favor. Possibly a soapy massage but I don't think that is what you had in mind, is it?"

I really don't understand your problem, KL. Presumably you speak some Thai, there are a lot more places to socialise than the dumps you mention, don't you have Thai men friends to go out with? Given the number of Thai men to farangs, you can't expect a 80-20 ratio anywhere when you think about it, but they certainly do mix.

As for where to meet decent Thai women, I don't think they congregate in one place waiting for the right guy to show up, or somebody would have posted about it by now. The same goes for decent farangs. By decent I mean not out for a brief fling and... whatever qualities one might want to specify.

Btw: Porgie, ...ehh, Tilaknaka, your Tinglish isn't convincing.

Have a wonderful nice good day...

[Khun Larry]

I really don't understand your problem, KL. Presumably you speak some Thai, there are a lot more places to socialise than the dumps you mention, don't you have Thai men friends to go out with? Given the number of Thai men to farangs, you can't expect a 80-20 ratio anywhere when you think about it, but they certainly do mix.

As for where to meet decent Thai women, I don't think they congregate in one place waiting for the right guy to show up, or somebody would have posted about it by now. The same goes for decent farangs. By decent I mean not out for a brief fling and... whatever qualities one might want to specify.

Just relaying my experiences. I know a lot of Farangs in BKK but never see them hanging with Thai guys.... you?

If you know of ANY places where Thai men socialize with Farangs regularly garuna list a few places. It would be a welcome change.

Chookdee krup

[stroll]

I am not a great partygoer, but sometimes I go with some Thai friends/neighbours to a local rahn ahan, karaoke or live music venue, where I meet other friends of friends, there would be the odd opportunity for meeting Thai women, not neccessarily the decent type, but also no prostitutes. If I was single, I am sure a few Thai female candidates for a serious or not so serious relationship would be lined up in no time.

It is not so much the place you go to, I know only very few where you'd find a sizable number of farangs mixing with Thais, the 'secret' is to go with the Thais you know, and get to know others that way.

Or go with your Thai and farang mates to one of these:

Witches' Tavern on Soi Tonglor - live music most nights, and there are a few other places to check out in that area, there is a Jazz music bar on Sarasin rd., I think it's called Brown Sugar, haven't been there for ages,

for a younger crowd try Keptowaen (I can't spellit) near Ekamai 3 on weekends, or the bars along RCA, if you are into deafening hard rock there is a place (forgot the name, but you can't miss it) on Soi Lang Suan, live music every night. You won't find a single working girl there, unless brought along by a new 'boyfriend', well, RCA I am not so sure.

Oh yeah, O'Reilly's on Silom rd. very close to Patpong, though; but certainly not 'infested' with working girls.

[Khun Larry]

Thanks stroll

Good list to work from.

Maybe I can join you sometime

Chookdee

[Erawan]

RIGHT HERE LADIES! I'm your man! I'm the BEST choice, I'm look kreung! You get the best of both worlds in one package!

Oh yeah, my brother is also newly single too.

[NedKelly]

She must be loving all this attention.

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[Candyflip]

Well , thanks for all responds here.

This thread started from my panic and now I have calmed down a little bit. Anyway , this thread raised up alot of interesting questions like whether farang men hang out with thai men or if there are any decent farang left out in this country and how " decent" actually means in Thai standard.

Thanks all

I wanna close this thread.

[rainman]

Here comes a dummy with a stupid question. What makes you want a farang boyfriend instead of a thai boyfriend?

[Bluecat]

To answer the original question.

Soi 4 or soi 19, Sukumvit.

Lot and lot of farangs there.

Take your pick,...

[rainman]

To answer the original question.

Soi 4 or soi 19, Sukumvit.

Lot and lot of farangs there.

Take your pick,...

*phew* my soi is not on the list. rainman escapes once again...

[Candyflip]

Lets me answer your dumby question rainman,

Why farang boyfriend not Thai one?

Firstly I dont like Thai look or Asian look even. Second I find it differcult to get along with Thai men as a boyfriend. They are great friend but not boyfriend.

Simply answer is " mai chop "

[rainman]

Makes sense, thank you.

[teeraknaka]

uhm... Have you ever been to " The Bed bar" ?? I am not quite sure.. which is Sukhumwit soi??? I've been there only few times.. alot of handsome farang there ka ... uhmm... sounds great!!!! but there have alot of thai girls as well you will have alot of competitor.. kidding

[rainman]

uhm... Have you ever been to " The Bed bar" ?? I am not quite sure.. which is Sukhumwit soi??? I've been there only few times.. alot of handsome farang there ka ... uhmm... sounds great!!!! but there have alot of thai girls as well you will have alot of competitor.. kidding

i think thats just up the street from me. the thing that looks like a tube?

[teeraknaka]

yehh!!!!!!!! that's right!!!! I thought it's very nice place.. comfortable as the name.."the bed bar".. ...

[mbkudu]

I have never thought before that I would reach the point that I will have to seek for men but as time goes by, more and more my friends are getting married and have stready relationship with their lovers while I am still single.

I wonder where decent farang, who are gentlemen,fair-looking, reasonably educated and SINGLE! are in Bangkok. Sad enough that two of my best friends are facing the same problem; cannot find the right one.

Our profiles are quite similar : young sweet beautiful women at age of 25-27, all graduated Masters degree-- 2 studied in Europe, speak 3 languages--Thai, English,and other European lang., no fianancial problems and SINGLE.

Any suggestion?

Rainman , would you share your successful experience?

Candyflip, obviously your English is really good, but you could play 'dumb baan nok' girl and enroll in an English course at some trendy school that has a stable of young Farang teachers and take your pick. Just like the 'Fish Bowls,' except you are paying, Darling.

[Bluecat]

*phew* my soi is not on the list. rainman escapes once again...

Are you sure? For how long,...?

[Candyflip]

mbkudu, shagging your own teacher is unethical ka, I pass!

[elsie]

Soi 4 or soi 19, Sukumvit.

Lot and lot of farangs there.

I don't think Soi 4 would be an answer, Brue. There are many foreigners, true. But too hard to find ones who want a real relationship and commitment? Dunno. Just what I've heard.

[Khun Larry]

Well , thanks for all responds here.

This thread started from my panic and now I have calmed down a little bit. Anyway , this thread raised up alot of interesting questions like whether farang men hang out with thai men  or  if there are any decent farang left out in this country  and how " decent"  actually means in Thai standard.

Thanks all

I wanna close this thread.

Some questions were asked of you. Might be polite if you would be so kind as to answer.

It is interresting to me that you want to close the thread after accepting information but not providing any in return. Is this the Thai way? Use and move on?

[Erawan]

What's the deal with this anti-Thai sentiment? I don't get it, especially when (I think I'm correct in saying) you are married to a Thai woman yourself? I might be thinking of someone else though... in fact, I may be... Well, the question still stands, perhaps some people have had their fingers burnt once too often.

[Candyflip]

Khun Larry, I have answered all questions about myself so far. What more you expect me to contribute? Point it out what you want me to answer, just saying stuff like " use and move on,is this the way way" would not help you going anywhere. Anyway, if one wanna use and move on , it is not only Thai but farang like you do too. Streotype is idiot!

[dr_Pat_Pong]

Thread closed at posters request / Admin.