8 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

The above 'reality' mostly applies ONLY in the old, outdated and cliche relationship metric of the sexpat and the bar girl or more recently, the chronically socially challenged older white guy and the younger internet bride. There's also the serial 'bad husband' who blames his unfortunate happenstance on white 'feminazis' or things of that ilk. The inability for some white males to acknowledge their mid-life crisis and respond appropriately also contributes to this social and cultural, slow-motion train wreck.

 

The OP, myself and a few others realize that a whole generational and cultural shift has taken place not only in Thailand but within many other countries and nationalities. The construct of the mongering, comparatively rich, white foreigner and his much younger, less educated, poor Isaan trophy wife are increasingly outdated and thus irrelevant. Similarly, the internet wife where older foreign guys are hooking up with middle-aged Thai school teachers and other professionals has probably passed its zenith. Only the minority of mid-life crisis deniers with their comb-overs and pony tails, Harley-Davidsons and an enduring penchant for gogo dancers have any sort of persistence.

 

My observations from over 40 years of working and living internationally (and not only in Thailand) lend credence to my firm belief that, "That was then... This is now."

Your analysis is correct

however you don't dig in some important questions

why initialy a Thai woman needs to go on internet to meet a foreigner

when she has the possibility to meet everyday Thai men, with the same

language, the same cultur, the same values, in the same country.

It's much more easy for them, so the foreigner option should be anecdotic

and in most of the cases a ''desperate'' one?

Why in your opinion the numbers are so important here?

And it's not specific to Thailand, you have the same thing with 

Philippines, Ukrain and so on. Why the westerners are so sought after?

Inflammatory posts and replies have been removed. 

35 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

Your analysis is correct

however you don't dig in some important questions

why initialy a Thai woman needs to go on internet to meet a foreigner

when she has the possibility to meet everyday Thai men, with the same

language, the same cultur, the same values, in the same country.

It's much more easy for them, so the foreigner option should be anecdotic

and in most of the cases a ''desperate'' one?

Why in your opinion the numbers are so important here?

And it's not specific to Thailand, you have the same thing with 

Philippines, Ukrain and so on. Why the westerners are so sought after?

Because they all rich?

46 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

when she has the possibility to meet everyday Thai men, with the same

language, the same cultur, the same values, in the same country

I think they prefer Thai men.

But many do not.

To reverse it, I as Falang dislike Falang females.  They disgust me in several ways.

I prefer any female but them.

So why? individual preference.

Your wife is very smart.  The correct Thai saying is that the woman is the back legs of the elephant not the front legs which I am sure she knows only too well.  She is effectively saying she wears the trousers in your house.  Maybe a good idea to understand Thai culture a bit better before you sing its praises?

17 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

I think they prefer Thai men.

But many do not.

To reverse it, I as Falang dislike Falang females.  They disgust me in several ways.

I prefer any female but them.

So why? individual preference.

More likely price.

I wouldn't claim anyone disgusts me, but some want a price I'm not prepared to pay (usually a house).

3 hours ago, steven100 said:

Thailand has pros & cons.

Or Khons? Many French think Thailand is a Land of Khons....

And pros are few and far between...

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

So essentially, white men are bad, women are good.

Somehow I just knew you would be one of the first here to interpret my rather long-winded and opinionated puff piece as some sort of defense of lazy, domineering, dishonest, fat, cheating white women.

 

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

And yet, most posters seem to have much younger wives from rural backgrounds.

(But ours are all different)

I am not really sure what version of Windows or android you are using that enables you to detect with any degree of certainty the age and marital status of fellow TV members, let alone if their partner is a country girl.

 

Fascinating.

8 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

I am not really sure what version of Windows or android you are using that enables you to detect with any degree of certainty the age and marital status of fellow TV members, let alone if their partner is a country girl.

 

Fascinating.

Well, you previously posted you had worked around the world for 40 years ........ which would make you over 55 years old, more likely early 60s.

 

As Watson once said, "What school did you got to Holmes, old fellow?"

Sherlock replied, "Elementary, my dear Watson"

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Well, you previously posted you had worked around the world for 40 years ........ which would make you over 55 years old, more likely early 60s.

How old is your wife?

In dog years, or...?

Nice OP. Positive happy guy will be happy, Welcome and successful in thailand.

Congratulations be happy guy! 

Thankyou, I like to read about the happy foreigner TVF.

 

Same Villagefarang.

 

But will have negative one will complain everything. Nobody make them live in thailand, only themself right?

Not listen, you happy=you win!

 

oh, look, post#3 and #5. So quickly.

 

5 hours ago, roo860 said:

OP, which 'police state' do you come from?

 

5 hours ago, roo860 said:

'Personal info', no ones asking you for your ATM pin number!

 

4 hours ago, saengd said:

OP, any time you post something positive about Thailand you open yourself up for criticism or attack, there's just so many posters out there waiting to attack any and every aspect Thailand. Occasionally you'll get posters with a constructive and objective balanced view but they're in the minority, mostly it's just adult kids who get their kicks from slagging off something that others like and enjoy. It's difficult to fathom at times, some try to say they are just being realistic, others clearly are bored or envious and get their kicks from put downs, I'm guessing most are quite young and nearly all know sweet <deleted> about Thailand. 

 

Don't waste your time with it.

 

 

Just to be clear, the term sweet FA in the UK refers to Sweet Fanny Adams, typically abbreviated to sweet FA, a common terms among Brits which is not profane in any way: https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/sweet-fanny-adams.html

3 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

I think they prefer Thai men.

But many do not.

To reverse it, I as Falang dislike Falang females.  They disgust me in several ways.

I prefer any female but them.

So why? individual preference.

Yes, thank you for your answer

indeed does make sense

even if it's not the easiest way to find love

3 hours ago, White Christmas13 said:

Because they all rich?

Or because most of the Thai girls think they are?

Could be indeed one of the reason, and also one

explaination for the high % of fail, when the reality is here

1 hour ago, Yinn said:

Nice OP. Positive happy guy will be happy, Welcome and successful in thailand.

Congratulations be happy guy! 

Thankyou, I like to read about the happy foreigner TVF.

 

Same Villagefarang.

 

But will have negative one will complain everything. Nobody make them live in thailand, only themself right?

Not listen, you happy=you win!

 

oh, look, post#3 and #5. So quickly.

 

 

 

Someone can help me to find the facepalm emoticon?

10 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

unfortunately they put also some smoke in the air at the moment

you seem to be in a safe place, and i am looking at one to escape the

nightmare of the actual air pollution, can you please help me saying in

what province you actualy are?

The south is clean.

9 hours ago, saengd said:

OP, any time you post something positive about Thailand you open yourself up for criticism or attack, there's just so many posters out there waiting to attack any and every aspect Thailand. Occasionally you'll get posters with a constructive and objective balanced view but they're in the minority, mostly it's just adult kids who get their kicks from slagging off something that others like and enjoy. It's difficult to fathom at times, some try to say they are just being realistic, others clearly are bored or envious and get their kicks from put downs, I'm guessing most are quite young and nearly all know sweet <deleted> about Thailand. 

 

Don't waste your time with it.

 

 

They not good social. Rejection.

Must pay for girlfriend/wife. Nobody want them.

No real friend.

low intelligence

pitiful guys.

 

I think most TVF member positive. But not post much.

The negative one post to much. Everyday complain. Complain everything. Imagine negative thing happen. Not true story.

 

YINN win POTY. If you read the thread same 20-30 guys attack me so much. But the polite majority one vote me win.

 

Drain the Swamp.

TVF more intersting hear about positive real story same this thread. And people help each other. People complain is boring.

 

Negative guys post to much, because not have real life friend.

 

When somebody post about happy life, the negative guys so jealous about that. 

 

 

20 minutes ago, Yinn said:

Drain the Swamp.

TVF more intersting hear about positive real story same this thread. And people help each other. People complain is boring.

 

Negative guys post to much, because not have real life friend.

 

When somebody post about happy life, the negative guys so jealous about that. 

 

 

On the nail Yinn. On the nail.  ????

21 minutes ago, Yinn said:

They not good social. Rejection.

Must pay for girlfriend/wife. Nobody want them.

No real friend.

low intelligence

pitiful guys.

 

I think most TVF member positive. But not post much.

The negative one post to much. Everyday complain. Complain everything. Imagine negative thing happen. Not true story.

 

YINN win POTY. If you read the thread same 20-30 guys attack me so much. But the polite majority one vote me win.

 

Drain the Swamp.

TVF more intersting hear about positive real story same this thread. And people help each other. People complain is boring.

 

Negative guys post to much, because not have real life friend.

 

When somebody post about happy life, the negative guys so jealous about that. 

 

 

Do you even realize in this post

you are just complaining yourself about

the same thing again and again

at a point it's now laughable?

35 minutes ago, Yinn said:

TVF more intersting hear about positive real story same this thread. And people help each other.

Can you explain me in what way this topic in interesting or give some help to someone?

 

The OP loves his Thai wife? And? I am happy for him, but it isn't the minimum required in that case?

 

Even married to a Thai, and supposed living in Thailand, his contribution has been 0 to the forum untill today.

 

And now suddenly he comes here boasting and shouting at everyone in a rude maner because we are not all in blissful admiration at his `` discovery '' of the country?

 

What a joke !! 

6 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

Do you even realize in this post

you are just complaining yourself about

the same thing again and again

at a point it's now laughable?

 

You confused again.

I wish you happiness.

But...

 

9 minutes ago, Traubert said:

On the nail Yinn. On the nail.  ????

 

Thank you 

(new saying, on the nail = to describe exactly what is causing a situation or problem) 

right?

other meaning= pay immediately 

2 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

Can you explain me in what way this topic in interesting or give some help to someone?

 

The OP loves his Thai wife? And? I am happy for him, but it isn't the minimum required in that case?

 

Even married to a Thai, and supposed living in Thailand, his contribution has been 0 to the forum untill today.

 

And now suddenly he comes here boasting and shouting at everyone in a rude maner because we are not all in blissful admiration at his `` discovery '' of the country?

 

What a joke !! 

He likes real love. Up to him.

 

You like to to pay for ladyboy love in Pattaya. Up to you.

 

You different people. Opposite.

 

He start the positive thread. I like to hear it. You and other like to mock, criticize, ridicule him. For what?

 

He is happy. He win IMO.

11 hours ago, GeorgeCross said:

oh gawd another one been at the sherry..

Sangsom for me please.....

8 minutes ago, Yinn said:

He likes real love. Up to him.

 

You like to to pay for ladyboy love in Pattaya. Up to you.

 

You different people. Opposite.

 

He start the positive thread. I like to hear it. You and other like to mock, criticize, ridicule him. For what?

 

He is happy. He win IMO.

No need to get nasty about Pattaya and people who live there, not every body is interested 

in sex, look in your own backyard first. And lady boys are all over Thailand.

13 minutes ago, Yinn said:

He likes real love. Up to him.

 

You like to to pay for ladyboy love in Pattaya. Up to you.

 

You different people. Opposite.

 

He start the positive thread. I like to hear it. You and other like to mock, criticize, ridicule him. For what?

 

He is happy. He win IMO.

Again you don't understtand

i don't pay for love. i pay for they leave after we have sex

but it's not the topic here

and it was not my question, still you don't answer.

I don't mockm criticize or ridicule him, you have to read again

the topic, i have asked serious questions as some others members have done

and then the OP has refused to answer and start to be rude with everyone.

For what? He win? Yinn there is nothing to win here, even POTY is a big joke ahaha

1 minute ago, White Christmas13 said:

No need to get nasty about Pattaya and people who live there

 

I not nasty. He tell me he like pay for ladyboy before. Up to him. I not agree with him a lot of thing, but he very honest guy.

 

1 minute ago, White Christmas13 said:

 

, not every body is interested 

in sex, look in your own backyard first. And lady boys are all over Thailand.

None in my village. But I go Uni with some before, still friend together. I like ladyboy, very funny humor (most).

i read TVF some Pattaya ladyboy make problem. I think because Yaba. 

13 minutes ago, ChakaKhan said:

Sangsom for me please.....

you are a little bit in late 

but still some action

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10 hours ago, Yinn said:

Negative guys post to much, because not have real life friend.

You are in luck, I am not negative today, had a great boomboom last night, and still amazingly cheaper than Switzerland.

 

And look at the bright side, even mother earth has had 183 Geomagnetic reversals in the last 83 million years.

10 hours ago, Yinn said:

He likes real love. Up to him.

 

You like to to pay for ladyboy love in Pattaya. Up to you.

I love both P4P and my Wife...  errrr... P4P, bot not LBs....