kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 36 minutes ago, Jack Hna said: and this is not as serious as it's being made out to be. what have someone framing you by planting drugs and reporting you?is the wifes boyfriend a bib? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 2 minutes ago, steven100 said: I don't understand this part ..... what do you mean ? if she's unstable to talk about ? do you mean if she's unstable and actually reports you ? you would have to onmy toes ? do you mean be aware at all times ? no,i mean jump up and down and wave her knickers in the air. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Hna Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 (edited) Just now, kingdong said: what have someone framing you by planting drugs and reporting you?is the wifes boyfriend a bib? I just reread the post at no point did he say his Mrs was with the BIB so are you one of these who gets too carried away and starts to add a few twists to the story. I miss the cinema too but this is ridiculous Tad Edited July 24, 2020 by Jack Hna 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timebandit Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Report this to the Police In writing with your daughter as witness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 someones liberty and possible life is in jeopardy here and i,ve never read so much garbage in my life,see a thai lawyer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 1 minute ago, Jack Hna said: I just reread the post at no point did he say his Mrs was with the BIB so are you one of these who gets too carried away and starts to add a few twists to the story. I miss the cinema too but this is ridiculous Tad her boyfriend could be the king of tonga for all i know,no worries,i couldn,t give a tinkers cuss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rupert the bear Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 you have evidence and now go to the police st and get a police report,you could bring a charge against her.the police report will be a good thing if she does do it,your clear.she can also be jailed for making such a threat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 1 minute ago, rupert the bear said: you have evidence and now go to the police st and get a police report,you could bring a charge against her.the police report will be a good thing if she does do it,your clear.she can also be jailed for making such a threat he might be better off dealing with the police through a thai lawyer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 10 minutes ago, Jack Hna said: I just reread the post at no point did he say his Mrs was with the BIB so are you one of these who gets too carried away and starts to add a few twists to the story. I miss the cinema too but this is ridiculous Tad i just reread my post and i asked if her boyfriend was a bib,not him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nausea Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 She's kinda shot her bolt, hasn't she. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICELANDMAN Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 18 minutes ago, rupert the bear said: you have evidence and now go to the police st and get a police report,you could bring a charge against her.the police report will be a good thing if she does do it,your clear.she can also be jailed for making such a threat I think the police will make no report having no proof to prove, installing video cameras inside and outside the house and changing the lock and its only defense and divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 I too do not believe the police can/will do anything. They can't record every single threat made by all manners of people every single day. The OP should file for divorce and cite this threat as one of the reasons. The lawyer can certainly put this on the record in case she ever goes through with it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stupidfarang Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 58 minutes ago, ChipButty said: Not as easy as you think, Yes you can put the house in the kids name but you cannot sell it until they are 18 years old correct me if im wrong parent has control over children until they are 20 years old, so mother can control what happens tothe house. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToddinChonburi Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Yes i would definitely take precautions to protect myself. Anyone that has been through a divorce would be advicing you the same. The police and a Lawyer would be best. You never trust a women during a divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stupidfarang Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 hi, the best things to do imo (from experince in Thailand) 1) do not argue with her at all 2) do not shout at her 3) do not react to her arguments or shouting stay cool 4) cut any money you give her 5) your son is with her so supply clothes, nappies, milk only NO MONEY 6) change the locks on the house 7) one or two cctv cameras in house 8 find a good lawyer, what part of Thailand you live in? some expats may be able to recommend a lawyer 9 be smart, this is a game of chess, play the game well 10 do not say bad about wife to your kids, it may backfire on you an if kids say anything to her then more fighting 11 once again do not enter into fights/arguing 12 tell her you want the best for the children future 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NotYourBusiness Posted July 24, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted July 24, 2020 (edited) A police report is simply that, your REPORT. You are not expecting the police to do anything except take your report. The purpose of a police report is to establish the date that you say something happened. It is your REPORT, nothing more. I have made police reports several times when people threatened me. I needed no proof of anything. They just sit there and write down what you say. It establishes the DATE that you say something happened. A court will not accept what might be a photoshoped SMS, but they would accept it if it was complete with a police report. Go make a police report. Nothing will happen from that except that you establish a date that you say something happened. Show it to her and she will suddenly realize you removed all her power, you have boxed her out, and you are NOT afraid of the police. Tremendously helpful. Edited July 24, 2020 by NotYourBusiness 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted July 24, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted July 24, 2020 1 hour ago, Jack Hna said: Win her affection again, convince her to sell house move AWAY from the environment she has been festering in, including as far from her family as possible. Mend the relations with her children and her. If you love the children that much you will do it. Walt Disney movie of the year nomination............. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowgard Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Report it to the police immediately !!! A police report on something like that is actually GOLD VALUE. And it will teach her that you are not an afraid pussy.Section 392 Whoever, puts a person in fear or in fright by threat, shall be punished with imprisonment not exceeding one month or fined not exceeding one thousand Baht, or both. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Hna Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 38 minutes ago, kingdong said: i just reread my post and i asked if her boyfriend was a bib,not him. You definitely need a plant then. A brain transplant. Oh dear.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingdong Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 1 minute ago, Jack Hna said: You definitely need a plant then. A brain transplant. Oh dear.. 10,000 comedians out of work and jack hat ,s trying to be funny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elgenon Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Plant it in her house first? Give the cops "taxi money" to get get there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Hna Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Just now, kingdong said: 10,000 comedians out of work and jack hat ,s trying to be funny. Yep and your a lawyers gopher. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedhump Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Thai women certainly say things they don't mean when they go crazy. They can be very scary. Terribly volatile compared to most westerners. But I'd keep the screenshots safe and quietly investigate how to get them authenticated for use in the future if you need to. Just in case; this is your freedom we're talking about 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xylophone Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 You really do need to do something, even if it is simply a report to the police, which seems to be quite a common suggestion, and at least it's on record, along with the message she sent you. Do take it seriously because a friend had a falling out with his girlfriend a few years back and she went to the police and brought them to his house where she showed them a stash of drugs, and he was arrested and would have spent many years in jail had he not been able to raise a very substantial amount of money and had a contact or two. There is no telling what goes on in the mind of a Thai woman and as they don't think of "consequences", then it could be anything. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Hna Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Fact is you don't even know she sent the message. It may have come from her phone but you do not know she sent it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 11 hours ago, Grumpy one said: But where to keep her? In the freezer ... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangkok Barry Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 On 7/23/2020 at 8:39 AM, nicelee808 said: she threatened to plant drugs in the house, call the police and said they would arrest me, the crazy thing is she did it via text message which I have taken screenshots of. You just couldn't make up how stupid some Thais can be. No common sense at all. None. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henryford Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Why are you still married? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baerboxer Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 You can file a police report in Thailand and then ask the police not to take any action yet. They will keep the report on file and you can activate it at any time in the future. Take a good lawyer with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 1 hour ago, NotYourBusiness said: A police report is simply that, your REPORT. You are not expecting the police to do anything except take your report. The purpose of a police report is to establish the date that you say something happened. It is your REPORT, nothing more. I have made police reports several times when people threatened me. I needed no proof of anything. They just sit there and write down what you say. It establishes the DATE that you say something happened. A court will not accept what might be a photoshoped SMS, but they would accept it if it was complete with a police report. Go make a police report. Nothing will happen from that except that you establish a date that you say something happened. Show it to her and she will suddenly realize you removed all her power, you have boxed her out, and you are NOT afraid of the police. Tremendously helpful. What if the police decided to do "something?" If I was the police and someone came to me with such a complaint, the first thing I'd do is contact the woman to get her side of the story. Then of course, all hell will break loose. If the OP is ready to deal with that, by all means, go for it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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