Pattaya Is Great For Lonely Men

[chuckd]

I met a girl who assured me she did not have a boyfriend, but as soon as I left, she was back with her old boyfriend, who may have been in on the scam himself. She e mailed me when I was back home and asked me for money, but I did not send her any. Her later e mail to me said she did have a boyfriend. The next time I came to town, I saw her at a bar. I asked her what happened to her boyfriend. He said he was dead. I later found out he was killed in a road rage incident with a tuk tuk driver. I guess what goes around , comes around. She told me he did not know that she was cheating on him. and that he would be mad if he found out about her other guy friends. I guess it is only natural to have a lot of guys on the line, as most of the guys only come around for a couple of weeks or a month anyway. What is she going to do the other 11 months when the guy is back at home working away? The only problem is when two guys show up at the same time. Then it is juggling time. Some boyfriends or their pimps even encourage this behaviour and use the goods the other boyfriends leave behind. The girl I know got a suv and a lot of other things from one guy, which she promptly put to good use driving around her other bar customers.

whats the relevence of your post here? an excellent post anyway

Zorro:

If vinchang is one of the "old guys" most of you don't think should be here, he may have forgotten why he made the post. It was posted ten months ago.

[pattaya_girl]

Hey hey, what about the ladies! I came to Pattaya 7 years ago from the UK, I met a Thai Man and we have been together for 6 years - Pattaya is a great place if your lonely. I have LOTS of Thai friends, it was the best move i ever made - it certainly beats working hard every day back home to pay for large bills and expensive food, shivering i must add. This is the life for me.

[NIRVANA1]

Great thread, especially for people who have never been there.

I am sure that for every happy face there a lot of them will have problems around the corner

Keep the opinions rolling in.

[mogy]

when I came here first, was having trouble getting to grips with seeing 70 year old westerners with 25 year old locals (of either sex...)

at the same time was working with one of the straightest guys I have ever met in my life. A good guy but just wayyy to straight. Anyway one Monday morning as he usually did to get his kicks, he was asking me about my weekend and that same weekend I had spotted coming out of my condo a fairly elderly guy (70++) with a much much younger lass on his arm. It kinda knocked me over a bit the difference of age and I wasn't overly impressed. Anyway when i explained this to my co-worker, instead of agreeing with me, he pointed out the EXACT original point of this post (and the picture from the pattaya mail - mentioned above - which I remember well also) and it was that quite possibly the same guy would be sitting in a bedsit in back in Europe, pissing rain outside, freezing cold inside, no-one comes to visit him, family don't give a toss about him, not enough money to go out for a pint ....and then he comes here .....

Point taken !

and at that time there was no viagra here either ...

Go on the oldies ! I hope I'm half as active as some of the elder lads I see around the place now when I'm their age....

[nungnatee]

I think Pattaya is a great place to come and visit and start living life again. You could never get a live in care-er, companion, cook and maybe lover in farangland 24/7 (full time care-ers are hard to find) but here in Thailand many ladies are happy to provide this kind of care and some are quite happy to eventually get married to the man. I would highly recommend Thailand to anybody for the above reasons, the happy men with smiling faces I see everyday speak for themselves, well done Thai ladies and Thailand.

"Come To Pattaya, Where You Can Have A Personal Live-in maid And A Lifetime Sex Slave, For The Price Of One"

Ahh...I got it, "the true reason" why so many men are here. Hmm...I wonder what do the thai people think of this?

they realy dont care, cos money is no 1, line there pockets and ur god looks dont come into it

[thaihome]

Is the thread not about Pattaya? Pattaya is an entire city that serves the sex industry. Non-Thai at that. I have heard about middle class and above, thai men having mistresses, though they sure don't appear to be from Pattaya. Educated thai men have said yes, some do indeed maintain girlfriends, however when I ask them about bar girls, the uniform answer is "no good" They refer to bona-fide university students that may need some help for school, their primary goal is some plan for the future, rather than scamming a man as the future. I have noticed a huge difference between actual university students opposed to bar girls. Yes, exceptions do exist.

Yes, Pattaya does serve a very clear purpose and is regarded as heaven by many. What I comment about is the "realities" there and not the wishful thinking of some.

Actually Pattaya has a large sex industry serving the thousands of Thai construction workers that are employed in the area. It’s just not on Beach or Second Road.

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[Jack Jones]

Pattaya can be one of the loneliest places in the world. If you're prepared to buy into the bullsh*t, flashing neon and empty promises, then it's a great place. If you have an ounce of scepticism about you, then the bg lines can ware a little thin and you discover the outward appearance of the place papers over the cracks.

I think lonely men are incredible vunerable here and usually set-up for a fall of some kind. My advice to the lonely man would be to enjoy a great night out here but don't expect anything to come of it.

I know that may be a little stereotypical and I don't deny there are exceptions to the rule, just being realistic.

[Ulysses G.]

Pattaya can be one of the loneliest places in the world. If you're prepared to buy into the bullsh*t, flashing neon and empty promises, then it's a great place. If you have an ounce of scepticism about you, then the bg lines can ware a little thin and you discover the outward appearance of the place papers over the cracks.

I think lonely men are incredible vunerable here and usually set-up for a fall of some kind. My advice to the lonely man would be to enjoy a great night out here but don't expect anything to come of it.

I know that may be a little stereotypical and I don't deny there are exceptions to the rule, just being realistic.

If the "lonely men " are looking for "love" in Thailand, they will probably end up even more lonely.

If they can learn to enjoy all the female company and sex that they want without anything but kindness, sweetness and affection, they will never be lonely again.

I have found that lots of enjoyable sex with young, beautiful girls makes my desire for "love" very easy to control.