My eperiece so far..

[stigar]

My first thai gf i meet in singapore(orchard tower)Ur rigth,she worked there in a bar.After 2 months we meet in phuket.It took about a year before i understood she had many different foreigners sending her money.

 

She even stole my ATMCARD in Ubon and steel about 90.000 bath.When i found out the touristpolice in Ubon braugth me to her home in Amnat Charoen.All the things i have give was in her wery nice house.She had 6-7 TV..and alot of other things.The "poor family"had alot.

The touristpolice arrested her sister as a part of this.After i went to phuket..but i just f...around for about 5 months.Next stop Pattaya.There i meet my first thai wife.We get married in Surin after 6-7 months,but no sinsod or big wedding.We got 2 kids together and everything was good.At that time she learned me to speak thai and khmer.I feel so lucky that time.(shes differnt)

Well after we  moved to Norway,things changed.She was in her phone 5-6 hour everyday and sometimes crying.Even she knewed i understand she didnt care.She called her thai lover everyday and told him she miss him..love him etc etc..Even she get a good job (salary about 4000 US a month)she said i was i cheap charlie because i dont gave her 2000 US a month.She never ever paid a bill here.

 

We used to go to thailand together as a family after we moved here.Well..after 2 year she said i better go alone to Surin,and she could go alone too.I said ok,no problem.So for about 10 times i went alone..stayed in the home in Surin 4 weeks.Her "uncle"took my everywhere.Many nigths to karaoke.The last trip she want alone with our kids she came back pregnant.Yes..her "uncle"is the father.So i took DNA our kids and im happy im the real father.Now shes remarried in Norway,but actually im happy for that.Last nigth her new husband called me ask for advice because he is frutrated about her time in her phone everyday.He cant speak thai so he asked our kids what and who she talk with.They speak thai fluent,but the mother just speak khmer.. so they dont understand.After 11 year marrige we divorced.But no hard feelings.

 

Then i meet a waitress in Beer Garden that i know many years.Ww agree to meet after her work.Well..nothing happend.Just sleep together in same bed.After a week it got more serious.So we start a relationship.Anyway i start to get worry because she knew every girl i had been with in Beer-Garden.First just teasing me,and after she got crazy.Sooo..after about a year i said goodbye.Actually we r still friend.She call me about one time a month ask how im doing.

 

Then i meet the HIGH-SO lady from Rayong.(about 2 year ago)We meet in TAGGED.She asked if i have LINE..i said yes.She asked me if i really can speak thai..i said yes.The same nigth she called me.We talked about 3-4 hour.Shes a financedirector in a big company.Her salary is 150.000 bath a month.She called me everyday from her apartment..her office and her wery nice house in Rayong.

I talked with her daugther..and mother..father..sister..brother etc..In march i went to BKK..took 15 days quarantene and supposed she picked me up.But to busy in office.I said ok.so i went to a hotel near her office in lad phrao.In the afternoon she asked me to come to her office..so i did.She didnt look happy when we meet,but wery polite.We went for a lunch..she insisted to pay.I asked her many times in LINE whats gana happend when we meet in real.She said we will shower together..make love etc etc...Well..first nigth i sleep alone..actually we sleep togther 1 nigth in 2,5 months(not touch echother).The only nigth we sleep together was when she called from her office and i open my cam to let her see im party with 2 of my thaifriends(girls).After 30 minutes she knocked my door with a small bag.

 

This lady is a HIGH-SO..we get drunk together and then she start ask them about this and that.Told them they just LOW-SO withouth no future.So they went.Really unpolite.After that she start unpolite to me.Speak wery bad.I must tell u that the first time we talked together she said pls never ever ask her to get naked on cam.I said. no problem.She told me that shes been stupid before and after get blackmailed from a guy from Romanina who have lied his from germany.He have asked 500.000 bath she said.ONE day in her LINE i saw someone had post in her comments.There she was with a <deleted> in her pussy and bbutt

A video.Masterbating in her bathroom online with this guy.I asked her whats going on.NO ANSWER!!!

 

After we start talking online she and her friend from her office use sometimes to go having a good time together in a hotel(girl)I found it strange because why stay in a hotel 2 km from her apartment.One afterrnoon i went to her office we had a party there.Alot of drinks..everybody got drunk.I wanted to take a picture of her,but wasnt allowed from her thick lady friend.(my ex wery small..about 43 kilo and short..thai chinese)So i find out that she was lesbian.She never asked for money until she wanted me to buy a apartmentbuilding for 50. million bath.I said NO WAY.I was a part of her and her gf plan.She called everyday asked me to come to her office.I said  NO.So i left thailand.She get wery upset becausei left and wanted me to change my ricket.I said no way and good luck.She write english wery good so i thougth she speak wery well.NO..herenglish was terrible.I didnt understand so thats why she allways told me to speak thai.

She have a mmaste dergree in economy..study in 2 different universitys in bangkok for7 years.She wanted to followme to the airport.I said NO.

Wgen im in airport she tried call me many times..ii never answer.

After i came back to norway she tried to call mein LINE andmany differernt thai numbers.I never answer.She contacted my daufher asking about me.Mynew thai gf is so far wery honest.Call me everyday 2-3 hours.Ican call her at anytime.Shehave her own business in Korat.We have been friends about 5-6 years before we agree to be together.

Last time we stayed rogether 2-3 months(this year)No secret calls or left me 100 m away in her phone.I toldher we should be together lonjg time ago.She said shes been waiting.She had a farang bf before.2 kids with her ex husband from thailand.She is a really lovely person.

Do i support her?Yes i do.But not much.Helping her to pay bills and food.Sometimes i give10.000 bath..and sometimes 20.000 bath a month.

She have house and land,so building is not a issue.So this is my story and my eperience so far.

 

[2 is 1]

LMAO ????. I think you should try other woman than Thai. Or maybe that dosent help!

[stigar]

Just now, 2 is 1 said:

LMAO ????. I think you should try other woman than Thai. Or maybe that dosent help!

I keep my hope dream on

[JustAnotherHun]

Learning disability seems to be a widespread desease of western men visitig Thailand.

Good luck for your next attempt.

[stigar]

1 minute ago, JustAnotherHun said:

Learning disability seems to be a widespread desease of western men visitig Thailand.

Good luck for your next attempt.

I been to 43 countries at work.So i have some experience.I think my wallet attracts girls.

Thank u anyway.

[Golden Triangle]

If you decide to do another lengthy post can you learn to do paragraphs please, maybe google can help you, that nearly broke my eyes. Thanks.

[connda]

1 hour ago, stigar said:

After 2 months we meet in phuket.It took about a year before i understood she had many different foreigners sending her money.

Run Forrest, Run!!!

 

[OneMoreFarang]

And what's the point of your post?

[stigar]

12 minutes ago, connda said:

Run Forrest, Run!!!

 

i did long time ago..So i went working in Labuan(malaysia).Meet a beatiful pinay there.She was gorgeous.and almost killed me in bed.Great lady until i found out she had 2 differnt passports.

Its so funny.She went out one nigth alone and told her pinay friend stay with me..make sure im ok.Make sure that i dont contact other girls in Labuan.Well..after 30minutes i f.... her friend.Everybody happy.She came bak about 1 am..and her look at her friend wasnt friendly.I think she knew we have brake the actually deal.

[Spooky1968]

I think you are not in this world about relationships.

Better get a pretty lady bar when your body need party and say bye next morning.

Sure you will live better and easier

[OneMoreFarang]

2 minutes ago, Spooky1968 said:

I think you are not in this world about relationships.

Better get a pretty lady bar when your body need party and say bye next morning.

Sure you will live better and easier

It seems he is looking for drama -  and he finds it again and again.

[HappyExpat57]

15 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And what's the point of your post?

Did you actually read all that? ????

[stigar]

19 minutes ago, Spooky1968 said:

I think you are not in this world about relationships.

Better get a pretty lady bar when your body need party and say bye next morning.

Sure you will live better and easier

Been there..done that.

[stigar]

23 minutes ago, Spooky1968 said:

I think you are not in this world about relationships.

Better get a pretty lady bar when your body need party and say bye next morning.

Sure you will live better and easier

I have 5 kids..3 differnt mothers.Anyway still in conract everyday with mothers and my kids.

[bojo]

Perhaps consider penning your somewhat addictice sounding memoirs and as Golden Triangle highlighted; take a breath!..................................... You have quite a bit of mishievous ammunition from over the years to fill a few potentially riveting chapters......................has the makings of a fun read..............................

[herfiehandbag]

Perhaps, in précis: I am a randy sod, with a thing for Asian women. I will <deleted> anything which stands still for more than 5 minutes, like to splash my money around, and don't really have much success in forming relationships.

[473geo]

Gotta admire your tenacity on the Thai woman front, you certainly appear to have covered many aspects of life with Thai ladies.

I get the impression you could probably squeeze out quite a few more with minimal effort

[stigar]

1 hour ago, 473geo said:

Gotta admire your tenacity on the Thai woman front, you certainly appear to have covered many aspects of life with Thai ladies.

I get the impression you could probably squeeze out quite a few more with minimal effort

I agree.But when the goverment say its ok to lie and cheating its not any problem for thai people.

TAT numbers..covid numbers etc etc..They learning everyday.My exwife aunte borrrowed 500 bath from me.Promised 1 week.I waited 2 years.Her daugther get married twice with sinsod.Get alot of money,but i was the lowest range so she didnt care.When i went to teir home my exwife said it unpolite to ask for the money.<deleted>!!!

[OneMoreFarang]

24 minutes ago, stigar said:

I agree.But when the goverment say its ok to lie and cheating its not any problem for thai people.

TAT numbers..covid numbers etc etc..They learning everyday.My exwife aunte borrrowed 500 bath from me.Promised 1 week.I waited 2 years.Her daugther get married twice with sinsod.Get alot of money,but i was the lowest range so she didnt care.When i went to teir home my exwife said it unpolite to ask for the money.<deleted>!!!

So is there anything you learned in all those years?

[CharlieH]

OP split into paragraphs to break the "wall of txt".

 

Off topic /troll remarks removed.

[BangkokReady]

53 minutes ago, stigar said:

But when the goverment say its ok to lie and cheating its not any problem for thai people.

Probably the other way around.

[BangkokReady]

3 hours ago, Spooky1968 said:

Better get a pretty lady bar when your body need party and say bye next morning.

Sure you will live better and easier

It really sounds like they are of that quality and behavior.  Possibly more expensive also.

 

As a great man once said: “I don’t pay them for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards.”

[BangkokReady]

5 hours ago, stigar said:

She called her thai lover everyday and told him she miss him..love him etc etc..

What a horrible situation for everyone to be in.  All for money or sex.

 

How could any of you be happy with this arrangement?

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[spidermike007]

Looks like you never read any of the numerous books and manuals written by guys with alot of experience navigating these Thai minefields! 

 

I have so many friends, who come here, and from the very start, make the same mistakes they made back in the West. Except here, they do not need to make those mistakes. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take over. They have to. Someone needs to be the captain!
 
Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. That is the undoing of most of these guys. Lastly, do not get hung up on them, emotionally. Have some fun. Get to know them. Take your time. Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, they will reveal themselves over time. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. We need to be honest, and let them know we are not interested in an immediate relationship. Something might develop, but if you are in a hurry, I am NOT YOUR GUY. An environment like this allows us to set boundaries, and take our time. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. 

 

And do not let a woman take advantage of you, and treat you like a cash cow. Step up your game. Change your well worn bad habits. 

[473geo]

9 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Looks like you never read any of the numerous books and manuals written by guys with alot of experience navigating these Thai minefields

Life is about enjoying experiences, your experiences.

People who require advance knowledge/advice will react in a different way to situations when they arise, based on the observations of another. Easily possible to screw up an opportunity this way.

I highlight the multitude of different views held regarding sin sod, all of which are correct in the eyes of the 'expert' who relates them.

I like the approach of the OP get in there give it a go, be brave enough to know that if things don't work out, you are capable of making changes and starting a new exciting chapter. Isn't that what the Thailand experience is all about ????

[Pravda]

15 hours ago, stigar said:

Then i meet the HIGH-SO lady from Rayong.(about 2 year ago)We meet in TAGGED.She asked if i have LINE..i said yes.She asked me if i really can speak thai..i said yes.The same nigth she called me.We talked about 3-4 hour.Shes a financedirector in a big company.Her salary is 150.000 bath a month.

 

Lol...were you born yesterday.... Haha

[spidermike007]

19 hours ago, Pravda said:

Then i meet the HIGH-SO lady from Rayong.(about 2 year ago)We meet in TAGGED.She asked if i have LINE..i said yes.She asked me if i really can speak thai..i said yes.The same nigth she called me.We talked about 3-4 hour.Shes a financedirector in a big company.Her salary is 150.000 bath a month.

 

 

Lol...were you born yesterday.... Haha

We have all heard that story before. My family owns 25,000 rai of land. But, I need 20,000 a month to send to them, because all their wealth is tied up in their land, which they won't sell! 

 

Most have stories. Without the use of a good private detective (astonishing that more men do not use their services here), a copy of her paystub, or other evidence, I would greatly question her claims of being hi-so (whatever that silly term means), or being a high earner. Always question the narrative! 

[bkk6060]

Sounds like you are a magnet for lousy women.  Maybe work on it, before you find yourself in some big trouble.

[talahtnut]

For Gawds sake stay single. Continue learning English, you're almost there,

well done Sir.