she wants money and is threatening me verbally. what should I do?

[ThailandRyan]

19 minutes ago, Lucky Bones said:

Goodnight Bob.

Sleep tight.

Ask mummy to sing "Enter Sandman" to you.

She can repeat the "We're off to Never Never Land" chorus while rocking you.

PS. Liliac do a fair cover of Sandman...hair flaying and all. On you tube

 

Maybe Bob can have her pay for tickets to see Guns and Roses on the 9th of November.  I have my tickets and it will have been 35 years since I saw them last during the Appetite for destruction tour in 1987 when they were an opening act.  Now I do feel old....lol

Edited August 2, 2022 by ThailandRyan

[PingRoundTheWorld]

So basically you pulled a hooker (holiday girlfriend) out of a bar and took her on a trip, then when she asks for money you're shocked? She came back because she still thinks there is potential to squeeze some money or value out of you. Just don't be too surprised when she disappears for a few hours here and there - if you're not paying then she'll find someone who will.

And yes- she is a hooker. A normal girl would never ask you for money. If she asked for it then it 100% means she's used to getting it.

[it is what it is]

On 8/1/2022 at 2:01 AM, starky said:

Next! Just pay her ya tight arris . Question is why would you refuse to pay? Your either trolling or clueless. 

or simply so desperate that you have to pay someone to spend time with you.

[Woof999]

2 hours ago, bob smith said:

Thai womans is the best womans. They got dat sugar cube honey sweet leaf brothers no doubt

At 5000 baht per day they'd need more than that.

[spidermike007]

Did you negotiate a daily rate in advance? If not, that was mistake number one. If so, then pay her and move on. Leave her in the dust. 

 

Second, it might be healthy of you to not consider her "my gal". She is a rental. 

 

It sounds high to me. If she is just trying to scam you, your only option is to leave where you are now, change your phone nunber, and move on. 

Edited August 2, 2022 by spidermike007

[Boyn]

555555555 im still laughing ,this cant be real

[Sticky Rice Balls]

even if its a troll post I got a good chuckle about some of the replies!!!    (chuckles again)

[BonMot]

On 8/1/2022 at 8:05 AM, bob smith said:

she did not tell me she is sex worker when i meet

So, you thought it was your good looks and charm.

 

Apparently, she has a proper job she left with no notice to spend a week with you lol. Oh, that was Pattaya 55555.

 

Give her ten thousand. Leave and don't return to the area you met her.

[BonMot]

3 hours ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

A normal girl would never ask you for money.

Most normal women would never just up and go with a tourist anywhere overnight. It took me two weeks to convince my wife to return to the camping spot we met - then she had to schedule time off at work.

 

A normal woman doesn't live in Pattaya nor work in trashy places frequented by farang there.

 

I think a normal woman would expect payment. Lots of semi-pros, casual sex workers in Thailand. If she doesn't see you as a potential mate what's in it for her?

 

Oh yeah, a *holiday* looking at your handsome mug and screwing you twice a day.

 

Get real.

Edited August 2, 2022 by BonMot

[Enoon]

4 hours ago, it is what it is said:

or simply so desperate that you have to pay someone to spend time with you.

People don't pay for "someone" to spend time with them.

 

They pay to walk away from "someone" after "it's" done.

 

They pay to avoid a "relationship".

 

They pay to move from **** to ****, in considerable numbers, swiftly and with ease, without having to shake off emotional demands, pretend they "like" someone, make excuses or tell lies.

 

Obviously not something I would ever indulge in.  

 

And also probably not the sort of deal a nice, sensitive boy like you would feel comfortable with.

 

 

 

 

Edited August 2, 2022 by Enoon

[Ralf001]

3 hours ago, BonMot said:

 

 

A normal woman doesn't live in Pattaya nor work in trashy places frequented by farang there.

 

 

Plenty of "normal women" live in Pattaya.

 

 

[Rampant Rabbit]

On 8/1/2022 at 10:12 AM, pagallim said:

Why do I have this mental picture of Asean staff having their daily meeting and brainstorming what would be the best 'clickbait' topics from their 'go to' list of fictitious members?   Sadly it's indicative of how little there is in the way of real topics/posters here at the moment if you take away the news stories and these sad attempts to generate interest.

Thats beacsue any decent poster  over the years  has  been weeded  out to align with their  ideologies... 

[RafPinto]

16 hours ago, BritManToo said:

E. Mommy bangs on his door and tells him it's time for school.

F: He checked his bank balance is still sitting in Dumfries, wondering why is not able to pay for a flight to BKK.

[RafPinto]

14 hours ago, bob smith said:

Thai womans is the best womans. They got dat sugar cube honey sweet leaf brothers no doubt

I just spoke to your lady.
She was a bit disappointed by your bed activity.

[Gottfrid]

Hi Bobby, Is ya hooky still with ya at Koh Changy? If tat, ya got a real faityfully honey, ya handysome manny.

[FritsSikkink]

8 hours ago, Enoon said:

People don't pay for "someone" to spend time with them.

 

They pay to walk away from "someone" after "it's" done.

 

They pay to avoid a "relationship".

 

They pay to move from **** to ****, in considerable numbers, swiftly and with ease, without having to shake off emotional demands, pretend they "like" someone, make excuses or tell lies.

 

Obviously not something I would ever indulge in.  

 

And also probably not the sort of deal a nice, sensitive boy like you would feel comfortable with.

 

 

 

 

Nice attempt but they pay for sex because otherwise they don't get any.

[ThailandRyan]

35 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Nice attempt but they pay for sex because otherwise they don't get any.

You missed the point completely, you pay them to leave...

[OneMoreFarang]

58 minutes ago, ThailandRyan said:

You missed the point completely, you pay them to leave...

I think by now we all know that Charlie Sheen said that.

I have to admit I didn't meet to many hookers in Thailand who told me they will stay with me for a long time if I don't pay them.

 

My conclusion: We are not all like Charlie Sheen

 

 

[ThailandRyan]

4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think by now we all know that Charlie Sheen said that.

I have to admit I didn't meet to many hookers in Thailand who told me they will stay with me for a long time if I don't pay them.

 

My conclusion: We are not all like Charlie Sheen

 

 

At the end of the day, you never pay up-front for any services and that includes contractors for your house, mechanics working on your vehicle and so on.  Why would you pay upfront for a hooker? After all she could say thank you and just walk out the door without providing the service.  I mean that has happened in every service, including building houses.  Those that buy off-plan condo's that have not ben built take a huge risk........

[Gottfrid]

2 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

Nice attempt but they pay for sex because otherwise they don't get any.

Are you about that? Of course there are many that is going to agree and even admit they pay for sex, but I believe Enoon has a bit of a point. Look at some of these two aspects.

You get free sex with someone you meet outside, or take to dinner or other reasons. You have unprotected sex, and make the woman pregnant. That, IMO, makes you a little bit responsible for your actions, as she could believe you have a crush or love her. On the other hand, if you pay for sex, and she let´s you have it your way, it´s more of her responsibility to protect herself from unwanted pregnancy as it is her occupation. Isn´t that a scenario that makes it easier to walk away without any thoughts?

You have sex with a girl without any cash transaction, there might be unwanted follow-ups, she might get your phone number or already had it. You might in a second of weakness feel obligated to give her a contact option. This is nothing that will be any obstacle when paying for sex, as she usually not want any contact info. Also not have to worry for any unwanted follow-ups.

That was only two small facts, that might make it a better option for some of us to go with the banking method.

Edited August 3, 2022 by Gottfrid

[Sticky Rice Balls]

12 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think by now we all know that Charlie Sheen said that.

I have to admit I didn't meet to many hookers in Thailand who told me they will stay with me for a long time if I don't pay them.

 

My conclusion: We are not all like Charlie Sheen

 

 

I met him...I was a college Dj in a bar he was filming major league...AND he drinks Johnnie Walker Red!!!  he was the only one to ever hit that bottle in the bar!  So he walks up to me and asks for Pearl Jam Evenflow and Doors  LA Woman.....he also had security....smoked a tons as pic shows.....as he was walking out the owner threw a bar shirt and it landed on his head...lol    I also met Bruce willis after hours club as i was Djing there..drank Rumplemintz with him and let him do the light board....he was filming 12 monkeys....both decent dudes....

[Mac Mickmanus]

13 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

You missed the point completely, you pay them to leave...

Or, they don't go away until you've paid them 

[London Lowf]

14 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

Why would you pay upfront for a hooker?

In the UK you have no choice and, no doubt much to the annoyance of many on here, I'm quite happy to play by the same rules in Thailand if asked. I've only ever been caught out once.

 

In fact, many outcalls will not even travel until you've made a bank transfer, but I don't play that game - too many Romanian scammers!!

[LaosLover]

Whenever I went to Ko Chang and an old guy and a young Thai woman would check in next to me, I would either change rooms or change hotels. Because loud fighting would soon commence.

 

They want you to go away too. Asking someone who's not really that into you -at all- to spend 24 hours a day with you is a bad idea.

[GammaGlobulin]

Sir, you have stated that, "she says if i no pay she will call her brother in Korat and he will do something to me".

 

Therefore, why are you so worried?

 

Just lie down and take it like a man, while her brother does something to you.

 

Obviously, her brother will do unto you no more than you have done unto his sister.

 

If she enjoyed it, then you will too.

 

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

 

Will this be your first time?

 

If so, this might, very likely, not be your last time.

 

 

 

[Grecian]

On 8/3/2022 at 6:59 AM, Gottfrid said:

That was only two small facts, that might make it a better option for some of us to go with the banking method.

That suggests some of you actually have the choice for the free option.

[Gottfrid]

35 minutes ago, Grecian said:

That suggests some of you actually have the choice for the free option.

No, it does not.

[Sparktrader]

2 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Just lie down and take it like a man, while her brother does something to you.

Did you enjoy it?

[Sticky Rice Balls]

4 hours ago, Sparktrader said:

Did you enjoy it?

think happy thoughts.....mind over matter

[tjintx]

On 8/2/2022 at 10:08 AM, FritsSikkink said:

Did she buy it for you?

...and, did it fit you?