Chelseafan Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 On 5/23/2023 at 8:09 AM, spidermike007 said: You are unlikely to get much sympathy here. Most of us would have said <deleted> off the first time he asked. You cannot feel put upon or disrespected, if you are treating yourself with high regard. You are not, by helping this sluggard. So all this is on you. "Sluggard". Love it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravip Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 (edited) We both agreed that we can see other people, as long as it doesn't affect the core of our marriage. What bothers me the most is the lack of respect I perceive from him. How can I effectively communicate my concerns to my wife's boyfriend without causing unnecessary conflict? Holy cow! With the 1st agreement, are you surprised at the rest? Should he respect you at all? ALL respects to HIM, IMHO ???? Just scrap it all and start again! Edited June 18, 2023 by ravip Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravip Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 On 5/23/2023 at 1:09 PM, rattlesnake said: Interesting to see how many members are taking the bait and answering seriously… I thought you guys were smart. Smart? What's that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravip Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 On 5/23/2023 at 4:39 PM, save the frogs said: is that ever possible? i think these types of arrangements always end up affecting the marriage. Why have a marriage for this type of relationship? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n00dle Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 On 5/23/2023 at 2:39 PM, rattlesnake said: Interesting to see how many members are taking the bait and answering seriously… I thought you guys were smart. whatever gave you that impression? it certaily wasn't reading the site, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n00dle Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 On 5/23/2023 at 4:11 PM, fredwiggy said: a lot of us have long term memories. Bless your earnest socks. you'd need a long memory to remeber what it was you were trying to say when you began one of your epic pargraphs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 The OP has not returned to the OP since he posted it. If this was a serious issue then the OP would have returned. Due to a lack of interest by the OP poster this OP is now......///CLOSED/// Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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