don't do it! not only will you hurt his wife but in the long run you will probably end up hurting yourself!!!

Kidding aside, it sucks when things have to end, but in this world everything ends. Some relationships last a day, a week, a year, fiver years, ten years or until you die; everything thus ends and nothing is forever. The sooner you accept this concept, the quicker it is to move on; find new love; explore other options. Relationships are wonderful and they make living hel_l a lot easier.

Personally though I'm not into relationships. My relationship always seem to end in one way or another and the only thing that remains are my friends (more or less). I am convinced that friendship is the way to go.

Well, I've been comtemplating about having an affair with a married man, but that's another story. Yeah, you can judge me if you like, but........................ It's complicated. At least, I haven't done it yet, but the oppurtunity is there, taunting me.

I agree with Girlx Please DON'T! Am sure it's complicated ; and be sure NO one has the right to judge you.

But try to keep your mind working as much as possible and do NOT buy all the stories he tells about the agony he is suffering from his current (wife).

seriously, guys will say anything to get laid!

I remember reading a magazine by SCUM the society for cutting up men. They did not like men. Two things stuck with me

1 The assertion that the average man will wade across an acre of broken glass in bare feet then swim a mile across a river of snot just to get laid

2. If you must use a man keep him in a vat of industrial bleach as they are dirty and smelly.

Even as a man I wil concede there may be a degree of truth there.

Perhaps for a man the sign of a relationship running its course is when she takes out a subscription to SCUM

Your relationship is at an end when you use any excuse to get out of the house and don't look forward to going home.

<br />Your relationship is at an end when you use any excuse to get out of the house and don't look forward to going home.<br />

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I agree!

That is so true!!

Your relationship is at an end when you start questioning your self if this awful stranger is the same person you had met and madly fall in love with years(months) ago.

Your relationship is at an end when you don't share the same pillow anymore or you would pretend that you are in a deep sleep when the other one tries to ......

Hi Girlzz I have a question.

How can we men tell that a relation is finished?

We love you but there is no sexual feeling anymore.

It's over when you no longer scream while doing it in bed...............

Or perhaps scream at the thought of doing it !

I remember reading a magazine by SCUM the society for cutting up men. They did not like men. Two things stuck with me

1 The assertion that the average man will wade across an acre of broken glass in bare feet then swim a mile across a river of snot just to get laid

2. If you must use a man keep him in a vat of industrial bleach as they are dirty and smelly.

Even as a man I wil concede there may be a degree of truth there.

Perhaps for a man the sign of a relationship running its course is when she takes out a subscription to SCUM

Isnt that a magazine for lesbians ?

Ratchabuild may have it wrong. Apparently SCUM was a hypothetical society created by the woman who shot Andy Warhol and was hospitalized for it

Read all about this woman here. But the interesting part was this quote:

In the July 25, 1977 Village Voice, Howard Smith interviewed Valerie Solanas. She claimed to be working on a new book, about her life "bullshit," titled Valerie Solanas. She was supposed to have received $ 100,000,000 in advance from "The Mob", whom she describes as "the Money Men;" she talked at length about "the Contact Man" for this entity.

In the interview she discussed the Society for Cutting Up Men: "It's hypothetical. No, hypothetical is the wrong word. It's just a literary device. There's no organization called SCUM. . . . Smith: "It's just you." Solanas: "It's not even me . . . I mean, I thought of it as a state of mind. In other words, women who think a certain way are in SCUM. Men who think a certain way are in the men's auxiliary of SCUM."

She also protested a 1968 statement of Smith's: "The part where she said, ' She's a man-hater, not a lesbian' . . . . I thought that was just totally unwarrented. Because I have been a lesbian . . . Although at the time time I wasn't sexual, I was into all kinds of other things. . . . The way it was worded gave the impression that I'm a heterosexual, you know. . . . "

So, don't worry too much guys

Hi Girlzz I have a question.

How can we men tell that a relation is finished?

We love you but there is no sexual feeling anymore.

OH ,you made it clear now ! It is YOU then who suffer from this problem not YOUR friend as u had claimed on another thread.

But anyways; you should try what I suggested for you to solve this problem in that thread ASAP

BTW;am sure the vampire will be at me again !

Regardless of what signs you will get, it will not change anything, and you have to get used to it. The most important thing here is how you accept, fight and move on with your life. They said you will only have one greatest love in your lifetime.

However, like a mechanical toy when handled too tight, it breaks; same like with relationships. You can try to put it together and you can even fix it, but it is no longer quite the same anymore. It is broken, even though the cracks may not show.

Too much is always not too good. When abuse creeps in, even if it is just verbal and not physical, the relationship is shattered. And its effects endure longer, sometimes forever.

I’m still a martyr. I have learned the meaning of sacrifice. As R.P. Evans once put it, “Loving something is not desiring it, but desiring the happiness of the thing you love.” In plain language, JUST LET GO!

Though I am still struggling, I believe this is the right thing to do. Despite all the mistakes and the wrong decisions I’ve made, one thing is certain: I will overcome. So what if my heart has been broken?

If circumstances dictate that our paths should cross again, he will meet the real me and then he can do nothing but look and regret everything that happened in the past.

All of my life, I have been looking for the real me. Now when I look at the mirror, I think I have found her: one tough gal, wearing a big grin and winking, with her halo back in its proper place.

If circumstances dictate that our paths should cross again, he will meet the real me and then he can do nothing but look and regret everything that happened in the past.

All of my life, I have been looking for the real me. Now when I look at the mirror, I think I have found her: one tough gal, wearing a big grin and winking, with her halo back in its proper place.

SO NOW I HAVE MOVED ON....BUT INTO DIFFERENT DIRECTION..YOU MIGHT BE SURPRISED, BUT I JUST REALIZED THAT I AM MORE COMPATIBLE WITH MY NEW PARTNER IN LIFE NOW..SHE ....YES SHE.. MAY NOT BE THE TALL DARK AND HANDSOME GUY THAT SOME GIRLS DREAM OF BUT SHE IS CERTAINLY THE BEST PAL, FRIEND, CONFIDANTE I EVER HAD..SHE COMPLETES ME AND MADE ME THE BEST PERSON I AM NOW

I am not encouraging you guyz to follow my footsteps but based on my experience, I was able to find happiness and regardless of sexual preference, it is really up to the person how you relate with people.

That's why I am now worried about my sister who is now in the same shoes I was...Men really sucks! sorry about that but for breaking our hearts, men are really like that..born polygamous...

So anybody out there who is single, male or female, bi or les I don't care, I just need someone a decent one to match up with my sister in order to divert her attention to somebody else. She is amazingly gorgeous, kind hearted and super pretty and smart. I dont want her to waste her time again with some I mean some wicked men out there, who will break her heart again...So please help me find somebody perfect for my sister....HELP PLEASE!!! Help me play as a cupid...Let hook her up with a decent, single , witty and smart person (regardless of sexual orientation)....Help guys....Im desperate to find one to hook up with her.....help please ! please!

Regardless of what signs you will get, it will not change anything, and you have to get used to it. The most important thing here is how you accept, fight and move on with your life. They said you will only have one greatest love in your lifetime.

However, like a mechanical toy when handled too tight, it breaks; same like with relationships. You can try to put it together and you can even fix it, but it is no longer quite the same anymore. It is broken, even though the cracks may not show.

Too much is always not too good. When abuse creeps in, even if it is just verbal and not physical, the relationship is shattered. And its effects endure longer, sometimes forever.

I’m still a martyr. I have learned the meaning of sacrifice. As R.P. Evans once put it, “Loving something is not desiring it, but desiring the happiness of the thing you love.” In plain language, JUST LET GO!

Though I am still struggling, I believe this is the right thing to do. Despite all the mistakes and the wrong decisions I’ve made, one thing is certain: I will overcome. So what if my heart has been broken?

If circumstances dictate that our paths should cross again, he will meet the real me and then he can do nothing but look and regret everything that happened in the past.

All of my life, I have been looking for the real me. Now when I look at the mirror, I think I have found her: one tough gal, wearing a big grin and winking, with her halo back in its proper place.

SO NOW I HAVE MOVED ON....BUT INTO DIFFERENT DIRECTION..YOU MIGHT BE SURPRISED, BUT I JUST REALIZED THAT I AM MORE COMPATIBLE WITH MY NEW PARTNER IN LIFE NOW..SHE ....YES SHE.. MAY NOT BE THE TALL DARK AND HANDSOME GUY THAT SOME GIRLS DREAM OF BUT SHE IS CERTAINLY THE BEST PAL, FRIEND, CONFIDANTE I EVER HAD..SHE COMPLETES ME AND MADE ME THE BEST PERSON I AM NOW

I am not encouraging you guyz to follow my footsteps but based on my experience, I was able to find happiness and regardless of sexual preference, it is really up to the person how you relate with people.

That's why I am now worried about my sister who is now in the same shoes I was...Men really sucks! sorry about that but for breaking our hearts, men are really like that..born polygamous...

So anybody out there who is single, male or female, bi or les I don't care, I just need someone a decent one to match up with my sister in order to divert her attention to somebody else. She is amazingly gorgeous, kind hearted and super pretty and smart. I dont want her to waste her time again with some I mean some wicked men out there, who will break her heart again...So please help me find somebody perfect for my sister....HELP PLEASE!!! Help me play as a cupid...Let hook her up with a decent, single , witty and smart person (regardless of sexual orientation)....Help guys....Im desperate to find one to hook up with her.....help please ! please!

signs your relationship has run its course:

your shagging a skeleton.........

Regardless of what signs you will get, it will not change anything, and you have to get used to it. The most important thing here is how you accept, fight and move on with your life. They said you will only have one greatest love in your lifetime.

However, like a mechanical toy when handled too tight, it breaks; same like with relationships. You can try to put it together and you can even fix it, but it is no longer quite the same anymore. It is broken, even though the cracks may not show.

Too much is always not too good. When abuse creeps in, even if it is just verbal and not physical, the relationship is shattered. And its effects endure longer, sometimes forever.

I'm still a martyr. I have learned the meaning of sacrifice. As R.P. Evans once put it, "Loving something is not desiring it, but desiring the happiness of the thing you love." In plain language, JUST LET GO!

Though I am still struggling, I believe this is the right thing to do. Despite all the mistakes and the wrong decisions I've made, one thing is certain: I will overcome. So what if my heart has been broken?

If circumstances dictate that our paths should cross again, he will meet the real me and then he can do nothing but look and regret everything that happened in the past.

All of my life, I have been looking for the real me. Now when I look at the mirror, I think I have found her: one tough gal, wearing a big grin and winking, with her halo back in its proper place.

SO NOW I HAVE MOVED ON....BUT INTO DIFFERENT DIRECTION..YOU MIGHT BE SURPRISED, BUT I JUST REALIZED THAT I AM MORE COMPATIBLE WITH MY NEW PARTNER IN LIFE NOW..SHE ....YES SHE.. MAY NOT BE THE TALL DARK AND HANDSOME GUY THAT SOME GIRLS DREAM OF BUT SHE IS CERTAINLY THE BEST PAL, FRIEND, CONFIDANTE I EVER HAD..SHE COMPLETES ME AND MADE ME THE BEST PERSON I AM NOW

I am not encouraging you guyz to follow my footsteps but based on my experience, I was able to find happiness and regardless of sexual preference, it is really up to the person how you relate with people.

That's why I am now worried about my sister who is now in the same shoes I was...Men really sucks! sorry about that but for breaking our hearts, men are really like that..born polygamous...

So anybody out there who is single, male or female, bi or les I don't care, I just need someone a decent one to match up with my sister in order to divert her attention to somebody else. She is amazingly gorgeous, kind hearted and super pretty and smart. I dont want her to waste her time again with some I mean some wicked men out there, who will break her heart again...So please help me find somebody perfect for my sister....HELP PLEASE!!! Help me play as a cupid...Let hook her up with a decent, single , witty and smart person (regardless of sexual orientation)....Help guys....Im desperate to find one to hook up with her.....help please ! please!