Luck indeed. Short, 3 month courtship with present, Dec 31st to March 28th, then moved in, 20 yr & counting. Actually lucky in USA, as none were even close to bad, just 'till death do you part' seems way too long. Enough slight differences, as I knew sooner of later they'd end, so sooner seemed better. I'm not an easy person to live with, and you have to be 'flexible', to deal with my 'don't care, doing this now' attitude. Having a kid slowed me down a wee bit. That and the damn temps. 35+C saps my energy.