Are Older Men in Thailand Trading Love for Financial Ruin

[NowNow]

33 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Get real boys, you honestly think a girl half your age is in any way attracted to you physically?

 

Yes. Depends on how you look. I know because I don't give them any money. 

[Hellfire]

On 10/18/2024 at 2:37 PM, JimTripper said:

A lot of them may actually be lesbians...

 

The last time I visited California in the USA there seemed to be a lot more gender identity/gay/lesbian/whatever stuff going on.

 

Stuff that was so strange that I have never come across it before. Like women who were having sex changes into men, but wanted to not be addressed with male pronouns because they were really both male & female and a bunch of head games and convoluted stuff like that. The more complicated it was the more they seemed to be into it.

 

More then any time in the past I was asking myself if someone was lesbian or gay or if they had some odd identity issue that I needed to take into consideration in order to not offend, or even how I greeted people. It's not the same space I grew up in during the 70's/80's.

 

I also seemed to be encountering a lot of gay guys. When I grew up that was an oddity and way out there in left field. These days it seems almost 50/50 someone is gay.

 

 

There are a lot of latent lesbians in Thailand too. When I got me my new gorgeous gf - I was expecting some negative looks from the Thai males. What actually happened was the Thai women behaving strangely towards me. Some of them I knew before and they were nice. Nothing than hatred in their eyes since they saw me with my new and beautiful gf. I was shocked to find out so many thai women are pervert.

[JamesPhuket10]

8 hours ago, Hellfire said:

There are a lot of latent lesbians in Thailand too. When I got me my new gorgeous gf - I was expecting some negative looks from the Thai males. What actually happened was the Thai women behaving strangely towards me. Some of them I knew before and they were nice. Nothing than hatred in their eyes since they saw me with my new and beautiful gf. I was shocked to find out so many thai women are pervert.

 

That is because you are spending your money on the new girlfriend and not on them, the Golden Goose has been kidnapped. 😄

[zmisha]

The main thing to secure the future for an old farang living with a young Thai pretty is to buy a house. But if an old married farang does it - his wife will be the only owner of this house (if not, the Thai justice will correct the mistake).
Those who are not married have better chances to secure the future. But obtaining visa becomes very hard in this case.
Farang can only be an owner of condo. Owning a condo means the need to pay 1500 or even 3000 of service charges every month. Not a safe option.

[BritManToo]

30 minutes ago, zmisha said:

The main thing to secure the future for an old farang living with a young Thai pretty is to buy a house. But if an old married farang does it - his wife will be the only owner of this house (if not, the Thai justice will correct the mistake).
Those who are not married have better chances to secure the future. But obtaining visa becomes very hard in this case.
Farang can only be an owner of condo. Owning a condo means the need to pay 1500 or even 3000 of service charges every month. Not a safe option.

Best to buy on a mortgage in her name, minimum deposited, maximum term.

Then she still needs you to make the repayments.

[Cameroni]

21 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

Yes. Depends on how you look. I know because I don't give them any money. 

 

No it doesn't. That's a fallacy. There are  creepy ugly looking dudes bedding 9s in Thailand, without paying money.

 

Some girls do not care for looks.

[NowNow]

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

No it doesn't. That's a fallacy. There are  creepy ugly looking dudes bedding 9s in Thailand, without paying money.

 

Some girls do not care for looks.

 

Psychotic. All you can talk about is scoring women out of 10 and bedding them. Maybe impressive as a teenager, but at your age it makes you seem retarded and unable to sustain nor even initiate a healthy relationship. 

[Cameroni]

34 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Psychotic. All you can talk about is scoring women out of 10 and bedding them. Maybe impressive as a teenager, but at your age it makes you seem retarded and unable to sustain nor even initiate a healthy relationship. 

 

What you clearly fail to understand is that it takes two to sustain a relationship. 

 

It's not up to the man alone.

 

The woman has to do her part. Starting with loyalty,

[zmisha]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Best to buy on a mortgage in her name, minimum deposited, maximum term.

Then she still needs you to make the repayments.

It's a good idea to do so. But one day you may have temporary problems with regular earnings. For a month or even 5 months. And the bank will steal your house and your entire life with pretty brown angel in snow white bed.
So it is necessary to have savings for it.

[JimTripper]

Can you watch this video please. It talks about the poverty that may come with your date.

 

 

 

 

[NowNow]

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

What you clearly fail to understand is that it takes two to sustain a relationship. 

 

It's not up to the man alone.

 

The woman has to do her part. Starting with loyalty,

 

Starts with you, but you appear not worthy, simply from the information given. Low quality. Lying and cheating and making excuses. Exactly like your previous 'partner'. Birds of a feather. Accept the reality and stop lying to yourself.

[paddypower]

On 10/9/2024 at 4:17 PM, BritManToo said:

All nonsense IMHO.

I'm not sure any woman loves any man in a relationship lasting longer than around 2 years. They might stick around but the sex will be gone. Don't think I've encountered any women worldwide that contribute much financially either, she spends her income on herself, the man pays for everything else. After 15 years here, I've not lost anything to my misses that I wouldn't have spent on rent and hookers.

 

As an old white guy in the UK I was already considering my self a second class citizen, so no change.

 

Never had any problems with her family, but then I make no effort to mix with them.

'As an old white guy in the UK I was already considering my self a second class citizen, so no change.' LOL a very realistic assessment, in most western countries today. 

[paddypower]

On 10/9/2024 at 7:25 PM, MalcolmB said:

A lot of deep thinking on this thread.

 

I think that might be a mistake that many make, over thinking things from a western perspective, especially those who have been sadly brainwashed and conditioned by feminists .

 

With Thai females they think with their hearts, not their heads.

 

Best to keep it simple, don’t ask any complicated questions and to completely skip over any foreplay, it just confuses them. 

 

 

agree. whatever else, the biggest challenge is the difference in education. 

 

[Cameroni]

38 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Starts with you, but you appear not worthy, simply from the information given. Low quality. Lying and cheating and making excuses. Exactly like your previous 'partner'. Birds of a feather. Accept the reality and stop lying to yourself.

 

You don't have the full information. I did not cheat on my partner. 

[NowNow]

57 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You don't have the full information. I did not cheat on my partner. 

 

I have the information that you posted here. You were deceitful, you got caught out and your reaction was about how to not get caught the next time 😊 and blaming the girl for checking. Low....

Make as many excuses as you like. You're only fooling yourself. Reality will put you right eventually.

[john donson]

On 10/9/2024 at 8:09 PM, novacova said:

My wife says I’m heartless, my response is “it’s how I maintain sanity”. And no, she is not financially independent on me, she has her own money. Nothing is more blinding than an emotional quagmire and if guys want to lose their head and mindlessly jump into a money pit and crash and burn, then I’d suppose it’s well deserved.

 

no, she is not financially independent on me

 

=== meaning, she is dependent on you

[john donson]

On 10/31/2024 at 9:05 AM, JimTripper said:

Can you watch this video please. It talks about the poverty that may come with your date.

 

 

 

 

 

follow up... he might have caused the death of her mother by overloading the 'stairs'

[fondue zoo]

 

No, many come here for hand reconstruction surgery, stop using bad prompts.

 

[black tabby12345]

Absolutely.

It is so easy to find out someone who was financially ruined by the marriage with Thais.

I have met an American man in his 70s who have given 200000 USD(what he inherited from own father) to his Marriage Partner.

Then he was locked out of her house in Nongkhai.

 

And that woman was not a prostitute or a  bar hostess.

Instead she was in public service.

 

He eventually had to leave Thailand for home.

 

[BritManToo]

On 10/31/2024 at 9:55 AM, paddypower said:

agree. whatever else, the biggest challenge is the difference in education. 

 

I sent mine to high school and then university.

Wasn't even expensive.

[BritManToo]

On 10/31/2024 at 9:26 AM, NowNow said:

 

Starts with you, but you appear not worthy, simply from the information given. Low quality. Lying and cheating and making excuses. Exactly like your previous 'partner'. Birds of a feather. Accept the reality and stop lying to yourself.

How weak does this sound ...... needing to be worthy of a woman.

[black tabby12345]

38 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I sent mine to high school and then university.

Wasn't even expensive.

 

Did your wife enter hi & uni as a mature age student?

[NowNow]

40 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

How weak does this sound ...... needing to be worthy of a woman.

 

Who said anything about women? Would you be happy to allow a lying and cheating friend in your home?

Standards my friend. Some of us maintain high standards.

I'm not so weak that I need to pay someone to stick around.

[NowNow]

45 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I sent mine to high school and then university.

Wasn't even expensive.

 

You are the "best dad she ever had" 😊

[NowNow]

On 10/30/2024 at 1:50 PM, Cameroni said:

 

No it doesn't. That's a fallacy. There are  creepy ugly looking dudes bedding 9s in Thailand, without paying money.

 

Some girls do not care for looks.

 

Is this an admission that your previous girlfriend left you for a "creepy ugly looking dude"? That must hurt, for a 'ten times a night' stud. That's what can happen when you think mostly with your little head. Expect a repeat performance in the future. Even when you put them on lockdown and monitor them. They will find a way. If you love someone, set them free 😊

[NoshowJones]

On 10/9/2024 at 8:14 PM, save the frogs said:

where does CharlieH get his inspiration for these thread topics?

 

ChatGPT? Alcohol? Weed? A combination of all 3?

 

 

 

 

 

What a load of nonsense. This topic makes a lot of sense and must be a great help to anyone thinking of retiring here to Thailand.

[BritManToo]

4 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

Who said anything about women? Would you be happy to allow a lying and cheating friend in your home?

Standards my friend. Some of us maintain high standards.

I'm not so weak that I need to pay someone to stick around.

My pals are all fully funded, I don't mix with guys that need to work or scrabble around for money. Lying and cheating just doesn't enter into the equation.

[scotty1286]

23 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My pals are all fully funded, I don't mix with guys that need to work or scrabble around for money. Lying and cheating just doesn't enter into the equation.

What's wrong with people that need to work, most under retirement age do ?

Vast majority of my friends work.

[NowNow]

58 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My pals are all fully funded, I don't mix with guys that need to work or scrabble around for money. Lying and cheating just doesn't enter into the equation.

 

You seem to have lots of 'pals' all of a sudden. 😊

Similarly with my women. They have their own and don't need mine. So we can have a more balanced relationship. Worthy of each other.

 

[NowNow]

49 minutes ago, scotty1286 said:

What's wrong with people that need to work, most under retirement age do ?

Vast majority of my friends work.

 

He's just exaggerating as usual 😊