No.
Per Willie Nelson in Electric Horseman:
Wendall : I'm gonna get me a bottle of tequila and find me one of them Keno girls that can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch and just kinda kick back.
- Your 1st paragraph is spot on! Yes, that's what makes me sleepless these days. Especially for J, he's barely holding it together. The house that he's supposed to be sharing with his brother feels alien to him, though he used to live there before we met...His brother has not upkept it much, or rather the opposite.
- My life-line in America is a couple of old friends (co worker, former roommate) who seem eager to help ("just move back and we'll do our best") . My preference is to stay in Thailand, but the health coverage is a must, which I don't have.
-Time frame for America - 1 or 2 yrs are a long stretch for me. My health has been okay, but I don't know how long that will maintain and I'm living here sans health coverage, so any day is a day at risk. Also with that long extension, J might think "oh I don't really need to hurry (to get my acts together.)" I'm looking more like 6 mos, time to leave is when my retirement ext expires, May 2025.
Also looking back at the course of the relationship: 1st yr - dating, next 2 yrs- covid, next 2 yrs= mom cancer. So we don't really have time to breathe normal ie to really work out the dynamic of the relationship, until now when the financial reality sets in. As the saying goes, we're building the plane as we're flying it.
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