Homestay Japan?: Best option for youth wishing to have an overseas experience?

[GammaGlobulin]

Dear Friends,

 

This recent tragedy is rather overwhelming to so many around the world.

Why?

Maybe it's partially due to the victims' youth, and also the randomness of the tragedy.

And, also, the fact that these young people were just following their dream to enjoy a first experience in a foreign land.

 

If done right, and with proper planning, one's first experience abroad should be an experience that can be invaluable for future growth....

Etc., etc., etc....

 

In my view, one of the best ways to obtain one's first experience living in a foreign land might be to take advantage of programs such as HomeStay Japan.

 

Through participation in these types of programs, children and young adults can learn much about the world, and these programs can even become a plus on one's resume or CV.....

Unlike...perhaps....time spent at places like JaiDee's, ....and this is just my humble opinion.

 

Therefore, I would urge parents whose children are seeking an experience abroad to consider HomeStay, a program which is usually highly supervised.  Foreign-language training is often offered, and this can be a plus.

Living with a family in countries such as Japan offers additional advantages that one cannot get through tipsy-tubing down some unsupervised river in Lao, too.

 

When I was younger, I lived with several families in Japan and Taiwan. The friends I met while living with these families are still my friends, today.

If one is interested in learning about a "foreign culture", then there is probably no better setting for doing just that.

 

If I had a daughter, under age 25, I would encourage her to do what I did at that age.

 

I just wonder why more parents do not consider the advantages of HomeStay, as an alternative to other ways of spending College-Gap years, or even just a three-month vacation abroad.

 

For sure, HomeStay is far safer.

Most Japanese families grow to care about their young guests almost as much as they do about their own children.

Japan is one of the safest countries one can visit.

And, in my view, Japanese culture is one that promotes safety and security, almost above everything else.

 

If I were to entrust my daughter to a family, then I would guess that I would choose a Japanese family.

And, it is often the case that these Japanese families do not accept a young person into their homes just for money.

Cultural exchange is much more important, and some families will spend much more on their guests than they receive.

 

Therefore, I just wonder:

Why don't more families who have children wishing to go abroad not consider this HomeStay option?

Doesn't make much sense to me.

Is it that they have not considered the advantages?

Or, might they not be aware that there are many programs of this nature that exist?

 

What are the best HomeStay programs in Japan....anyway?

It would be best to find a program which is run by the Japan gov....no doubt.

 

Who knows if these might be good:

https://homestay-in-japan.com/

https://homestayinjapan.com/

 

 

For a young person making a first trip abroad, I would think that Japan can not be beat.

 

And, when I was doing homestay, the family gave me O-Sake, once a night, and it was a pleasurable experience, with the entire family sitting around on tatami.

 

I wish I were young enough to do it again....in fact.

 

Best regards,

Gamma

 

 

 

 

 

[FriscoKid]

Babbling rubbish. 

[GammaGlobulin]

1 hour ago, FriscoKid said:

Babbling rubbish. 

 

Still, even though it might be babbling.....

The advice I have provided in this Topic is very sound advice.

I know it is.

 

(Not everything I write in the Pub is a joke, contrary to popular opinion.)

 

 

[FriscoKid]

1 hour ago, GammaGlobulin said:

The advice I have provided in this Topic is very sound advice.

I know it is.

 

Aimed at whom and for what purpose? Did someone tell you that there are a large number of people reading posts in The Pub who are looking for sound advice on sending their children abroad, particularly to Japan for a cultural visit? Obviously not. So it’s just your own bizarre thoughts combined with a self-fulfilling prophecy and you are basically just babbling.

 

Look at the topics in The Pub that get the most views and comments. That will give you a better idea of what people are interested in reading and discussing. Almost all the most viewed posts have to do with sex, aging, bar girls, Thai marriage problems, ladyboys, etc. Done.

 

You could also seriously benefit from learning some skills on how to write using proper sentence structure, grammar, spacing, line breaks, etc., so that it isn’t so challenging and laborious for people to read your scribblings.
 

The best thing you can do before posting something is run it through ChatGPT and ask it to edit, condense, and shorten your text. You can learn a lot that way about how to improve your writing skills, which are frankly nonexistent and resemble the thought patterns of someone with chronic cognitive issues.

[GammaGlobulin]

3 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

 

Aimed at whom and for what purpose? Did someone tell you that there are a large number of people reading posts in The Pub who are looking for sound advice on sending their children abroad, particularly to Japan for a cultural visit? Obviously not. So it’s just your own bizarre thoughts combined with a self-fulfilling prophecy and you are basically just babbling.

 

Look at the topics in The Pub that get the most views and comments. That will give you a better idea of what people are interested in reading and discussing. Almost all the most viewed posts have to do with sex, aging, bar girls, Thai marriage problems, ladyboys, etc. Done.

 

You could also seriously benefit from learning some skills on how to write using proper sentence structure, grammar, spacing, line breaks, etc., so that it isn’t so challenging and laborious for people to read your scribblings.
 

The best thing you can do before posting something is run it through ChatGPT and ask it to edit, condense, and shorten your text. You can learn a lot that way about how to improve your writing skills, which are frankly nonexistent and resemble the thought patterns of someone with chronic cognitive issues.

 

I prefer my own writing style.

Also, most people here, do prefer my writing style, too.

I can easily change my writing style.

But my present writing style suits me, these days.

 

Maybe in the near future, I will change......providing....

I get much more feedback, similar to yours.

 

Thank you.

 

[FriscoKid]

5 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Also, most people here, do prefer my writing style, too.

How did you reach that conclusion? That sounds like another self fulfilling prophecy to me.

 

6 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

I prefer my own writing style.

Which is defined as what, other than terribly poor use of the written English language?

 

7 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

I can easily change my writing style.

Prove it. I doubt you're capable of writing anything that would be considered well thought out and properly constructed written English.

 

If you had any real respect for others on this forum then you would be more selective about the topics that you post and you would make an effort to write in a way that doesn't challenge other readers so much. Presumably you're not really capable of writing good English, thus, as I suggested, rely upon an AI editor in order to help you to improve. 

[FriscoKid]

Following is in an edited version of your OP. Can you deny that this has much greater readability?

 

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Dear Friends,

 

The recent tragedy abroad has been overwhelming, perhaps due to the victims’ youth, the randomness of the event, and the fact that these young people were simply pursuing their dreams of experiencing a foreign country for the first time.

 

A well-planned first trip abroad can be invaluable for personal growth. In my view, homestay programs, such as those in Japan, offer a safer, more enriching experience than unsupervised activities. These programs provide cultural immersion, language training, and connections that often last a lifetime.

 

When I was younger, I stayed with families in Japan and Taiwan. The friendships I formed are still strong today. Living with a host family allows for deep cultural understanding in a safe environment, unlike other less structured gap-year activities. Japan, in particular, is a country that prioritizes safety, and Japanese families often welcome guests out of a genuine interest in cultural exchange, not financial gain.

 

I urge parents to consider homestay programs for their children. They’re safer, culturally enriching, and can even enhance résumés. Japan, with its safety and welcoming culture, is an ideal destination.

 

For those interested, here are a few programs to explore:

 

https://homestay-in-japan.com/

https://homestayinjapan.com/

 

Best regards,

 

Gamma

 

[GammaGlobulin]

22 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

How did you reach that conclusion? That sounds like another self fulfilling prophecy to me.

 

Which is defined as what, other than terribly poor use of the written English language?

 

Prove it. I doubt you're capable of writing anything that would be considered well thought out and properly constructed written English.

 

If you had any real respect for others on this forum then you would be more selective about the topics that you post and you would make an effort to write in a way that doesn't challenge other readers so much. Presumably you're not really capable of writing good English, thus, as I suggested, rely upon an AI editor in order to help you to improve. 

 

Here is CHATGPT's rendition of my Original Topic....

If you prefer this style of writing.....

Then I would be rather surprised....

But, then, it takes all kinds.....(of readers)...

To make this world go round....

 

"Dear Esteemed Friends,

The recent tragedy that has befallen so many around the world is undeniably overwhelming. Why does it resonate so profoundly?

Perhaps the profound sorrow stems, in part, from the youthfulness of the victims, and the unfathomable randomness of the event. There is also the poignant fact that these young individuals were simply pursuing their dreams, embarking on their first adventure in a foreign land.

When approached with meticulous care and thoughtful planning, one's initial experience abroad should serve as an invaluable opportunity for personal growth and cultural enrichment. Such experiences, when undertaken in earnest, offer unparalleled prospects for maturation and understanding.

In my considered opinion, one of the most exemplary ways for young individuals to gain meaningful exposure to life abroad is through programs such as HomeStay Japan.

By participating in such structured, culturally immersive initiatives, young people can acquire profound insights into foreign cultures while simultaneously enhancing their resumes or curricula vitae. This is a far cry from the fleeting escapism offered by unstructured adventures, such as those spent in places like JaiDee's, though I offer this comparison with all due humility.

I would therefore strongly encourage parents whose children are eager to experience life in another country to seriously contemplate the HomeStay option—an arrangement typically characterized by high levels of supervision and care. Many of these programs also offer language training, which can be an additional advantage in fostering both linguistic and personal growth."

 

NOTE4:  I plan NOT to upload more garbage from ChatGPT....in the future.  I was only replying to this comment, this SINGLE TIME....

 

 

 

 

 

[FriscoKid]

41 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Also, most people here, do prefer my writing style, too.

I fully disagree. There may be a few outliers, but the majority don't prefer it. This conclusion is based on comments that I've seen from others on your posts, as well as people specifically pointing out the challenges in comprehending your writing style. 
 

43 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Maybe in the near future, I will change......providing....

I get much more feedback, similar to yours.

As I said, I am certainly not the first. So you have already gotten a number of responses from other people of a similar nature, but it's evident you've chosen to ignore all of the suggestions that were provided to you. 

[GammaGlobulin]

32 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

If you had any real respect for others on this forum then you would be more selective about the topics that you post and you would make an effort to write in a way that doesn't challenge other readers so much.

 

It's not that I do not respect others on this forum, that I am not able to write good.

Respect has nothing to do with it.

Also, I have made many efforts, over the years, to meet the standards most readers might find acceptable.

I am not here to "challenge" others, in fact.

And, as well, I do not enjoy being challenged, myself, in such a direct way.

Still, for those who post here, I would caution them that they are bound be be challenged, from time to time.

Do you not agree?

 

 

[FriscoKid]

9 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Here is CHATGPT's rendition of my Original Topic....

If you prefer this style of writing.....

Then I would be rather surprised....

But, then, it takes all kinds.....(of readers)...

To make this world go round....

What you have written here, and in all your other posts, is not a writing style. I realize that you like to flatter yourself. But the truth is, this is just poor sentence structuring, written in a bullet point nature, with excessive use of dots that mean nothing, and I could go on.

 

AI writing editors are used broadly now across the media world. So obviously they are considered useful and good at what they do.
 

In fact, quite a number of the posts on this site, which carry a news theme, are in part at least written and/or edited by AI.  

[FriscoKid]

3 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

And, as well, I do not enjoy being challenged, myself, in such a direct way.

Then you've probably come to the wrong place. Nearly every topic in The Pub turns into some sort of pissing match. In fact, one could argue that this is what the majority of the people actually come here for.

[FriscoKid]

5 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Still, for those who post here, I would caution them that they are bound be be challenged, from time to time.

Do you not agree?

Fully agree. That's what I'm doing here.

[GammaGlobulin]

10 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

What you have written here, and in all your other posts, is not a writing style. I realize that you like to flatter yourself. But the truth is, this is just poor sentence structuring, written in a bullet point nature, with excessive use of dots that mean nothing, and I could go on.

 

AI writing editors are used broadly now across the media world. So obviously they are considered useful and good at what they do.
 

In fact, quite a number of the posts on this site, which carry a news theme, are in part at least written and/or edited by AI.  

 

What you consider to be obvious, I do not.

 

Anyway, I have been a long-time admirer of Henry Fielding, ever since I first read Tom Jones.

 

And, I have been thinking of adopting Fielding's writing style, one which I perfected many years ago, for my future postings.

Fielding is considered to be one of the greatest writers of all time.

I do a very mean Henry Fielding....

Henceforth, I may adopt this style of writing, with minor modifications, just to personalize it and make it my own.

 

So, please stay tuned.....

 

This IS the Pub, you know.

 

If you want academic writing, then you have probably come to the wrong place.....for that.....maybe.....

 

 

[FriscoKid]

26 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

NOTE4

That's a very outdated model smartphone in 2024. It's probably also hindering your capabilities. I suggest you upgrade to a more capable model. 

[GammaGlobulin]

Just now, FriscoKid said:

That's a very outdated model smartphone in 2024. It's probably also hindering your capabilities. I suggest you upgrade to a more capable model. 

 

Why should I...if the NOTE4 is the best Samsung phone that ever existed?
 

[FriscoKid]

2 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

If you want academic writing, then you have probably come to the wrong place.....for that.....maybe.....

There is a big difference between academic writing and writing that is well constructed, easy to read and comprehend. Unfortunately, none of your writing falls into either of those categories from what I've seen so far. 
 

Furthermore, my writing is far from academic, nor does it need to be. Concise and easy to comprehend is all that's necessary.

[FriscoKid]

4 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Why should I...if the NOTE4 is the best Samsung phone that ever existed?
 

How would you know that? Have you tested every single NOTE model that's come out since 2014 in order to reach that conclusion? I think it's fair to say that a smartphone that is now running 10 year old technology cannot keep up with the latest innovations. The technology moves so fast.

 

[merck]

GammaGlobulin is an ai bot used to drum up traffic to the site and improve Google rankings, not a real person.

[GammaGlobulin]

9 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

Furthermore, my writing is far from academic, nor does it need to be. Concise and easy to comprehend is all that's necessary.

 

Unfortunately, I must agree with you.

Your writing leaves nothing to the imagination.

 

If you could write like Philip Roth, then....I would defer to your praise for your writing.

Unfortunately, once again, you do not write paragraphs anywhere near as beautiful as his.

 

Such is the pity....because....

If you wrote like Roth, then....maybe.....

ThaiVisa Forum would soon become even more justifiably famous than.....

It already is.

 

Get back to me when you have perfected your art up to the level of a Roth.....

 

Waiting.....

 

 

 

[GammaGlobulin]

2 minutes ago, merck said:

GammaGlobulin is an ai bot used to drum up traffic to the site and improve Google rankings, not a real person.

 

You know....

 

If only I were that good, that I could improve this site's rankings on Google search....

Then, I might just get a heck of a lot more respect that I get, around here.

 

I would gladly help to increase ThaiVisa's rankings, if only I knew how....

 

Because, certainly, I have already put in the effort....as.....

Almost anyone can plainly see.

 

And, it's not for want of trying, that I have failed...thus far...

 

 

[GammaGlobulin]

13 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

How would you know that? Have you tested every single NOTE model that's come out since 2014 in order to reach that conclusion? I think it's fair to say that a smartphone that is now running 10 year old technology cannot keep up with the latest innovations. The technology moves so fast.

 

 

Yes.

 

[FriscoKid]

2 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Unfortunately, I must agree with you.

Your writing leaves nothing to the imagination.

 

If you could write like Philip Roth, then....I would defer to your praise for your writing.

Unfortunately, once again, you do not write paragraphs anywhere near as beautiful as his.

 

Such is the pity....because....

If you wrote like Roth, then....maybe.....

ThaiVisa Forum would soon become even more justifiably famous than.....

It already is.

 

Get back to me when you have perfected your art up to the level of a Roth.....

 

Waiting.....

 

 

 

I’ve written for various media publication over the years. However, what I am writing here is intended merely for clear communication. So the writing style matches the intended purpose.
 

But that’s not the point. Your writing style here is not academic, easy to follow, comprehend, nor does it demonstrate any gift of the prose. It is, and I regret to say, to the complete contrary. 
 

However, since you keep alluding to an author’s style that you claim to posses then go ahead and try that and see if using that improves the reception and admiration of your writing from others.
 

I’m not expecting anything different from you though. 

[FriscoKid]

2 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Yes.

 

Using a low powered 2014 smartphone in 2024. Bravo. 

[GammaGlobulin]

44 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

I’ve written for various media publication over the years.

 

Wait!

 

Please do not tell me....

Your REAL Name is Even Osnos.....

I knew it!

 

I have admired your work for many years.

Especially your great reporting for The New Yorker, when you were based in Beijing.

 

Hats Off to you, Sir!

 

 

Is it really you.....????

 

I have waited so many years to correspond with a real writer.

 

I used to read your articles, religiously, when you and your small group of dynamite writers were reporting from China, back in the day.

 

I am in awe of your work......SERIOUSLY.....

 

We are lucky to have your here, Sir.

 

 

Keep up your good work.....!!!!

 

 

[G_Money]

7 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Dear Friends,

 

This recent tragedy is rather overwhelming to so many around the world.

Why?

Maybe it's partially due to the victims' youth, and also the randomness of the tragedy.

And, also, the fact that these young people were just following their dream to enjoy a first experience in a foreign land.

 

If done right, and with proper planning, one's first experience abroad should be an experience that can be invaluable for future growth....

Etc., etc., etc....

 

In my view, one of the best ways to obtain one's first experience living in a foreign land might be to take advantage of programs such as HomeStay Japan.

 

Through participation in these types of programs, children and young adults can learn much about the world, and these programs can even become a plus on one's resume or CV.....

Unlike...perhaps....time spent at places like JaiDee's, ....and this is just my humble opinion.

 

Therefore, I would urge parents whose children are seeking an experience abroad to consider HomeStay, a program which is usually highly supervised.  Foreign-language training is often offered, and this can be a plus.

Living with a family in countries such as Japan offers additional advantages that one cannot get through tipsy-tubing down some unsupervised river in Lao, too.

 

When I was younger, I lived with several families in Japan and Taiwan. The friends I met while living with these families are still my friends, today.

If one is interested in learning about a "foreign culture", then there is probably no better setting for doing just that.

 

If I had a daughter, under age 25, I would encourage her to do what I did at that age.

 

I just wonder why more parents do not consider the advantages of HomeStay, as an alternative to other ways of spending College-Gap years, or even just a three-month vacation abroad.

 

For sure, HomeStay is far safer.

Most Japanese families grow to care about their young guests almost as much as they do about their own children.

Japan is one of the safest countries one can visit.

And, in my view, Japanese culture is one that promotes safety and security, almost above everything else.

 

If I were to entrust my daughter to a family, then I would guess that I would choose a Japanese family.

And, it is often the case that these Japanese families do not accept a young person into their homes just for money.

Cultural exchange is much more important, and some families will spend much more on their guests than they receive.

 

Therefore, I just wonder:

Why don't more families who have children wishing to go abroad not consider this HomeStay option?

Doesn't make much sense to me.

Is it that they have not considered the advantages?

Or, might they not be aware that there are many programs of this nature that exist?

 

What are the best HomeStay programs in Japan....anyway?

It would be best to find a program which is run by the Japan gov....no doubt.

 

Who knows if these might be good:

https://homestay-in-japan.com/

https://homestayinjapan.com/

 

 

For a young person making a first trip abroad, I would think that Japan can not be beat.

 

And, when I was doing homestay, the family gave me O-Sake, once a night, and it was a pleasurable experience, with the entire family sitting around on tatami.

 

I wish I were young enough to do it again....in fact.

 

Best regards,

Gamma

 

 

 

 

 

We are still waiting for photos of your ex Chinese wife.

 

Have you given up transitioning in Malaysia?

Probably a great idea because it would not be a pretty sight.

[GammaGlobulin]

27 minutes ago, G_Money said:

We are still waiting for photos of your ex Chinese wife.

 

Have you given up transitioning in Malaysia?

Probably a great idea because it would not be a pretty sight.

 

Actually...NO!

 

Malaya is still in the cards for me.....for sure.

(Seriously....this time!)

 

[G_Money]

8 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Actually...NO!

 

Malaya is still in the cards for me.....for sure.

(Seriously....this time!)

 

Do you have a purdy mouth?

[GammaGlobulin]

30 minutes ago, G_Money said:

Do you have a purdy mouth?

 

Actually, I am more pert mouthed, than purdy mouthed.

 

Still, if you really want to see something quite purdy, then you might walk outside, about now, and gaze up at the sky.

 

The stars are really OUT, tonight.

Here in Thailand, at least near most cities in Thailand, it's a rarity to be able to see so many stars, shining bright, as we can see this night.

 

Why not?

What do you have to lose?

 

You just might get happy.

 

And, to repeat....

What do you have to lose?

 

Otherwise, you might, one day soon, just wind up in a place where you aren't much fun....anymore.....

 

 

 

[FriscoKid]

1 hour ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Wait!

 

Please do not tell me....

Your REAL Name is Even Osnos.....

I knew it!

 

I have admired your work for many years.

Especially your great reporting for The New Yorker, when you were based in Beijing.

 

Hats Off to you, Sir!

 

 

Is it really you.....????

 

I have waited so many years to correspond with a real writer.

 

I used to read your articles, religiously, when you and your small group of dynamite writers were reporting from China, back in the day.

 

I am in awe of your work......SERIOUSLY.....

 

We are lucky to have your here, Sir.

 

 

Keep up your good work.....!!!!

 

 

It's much clearer now. You think that your tangential babbling about beer, security cameras, connecting monitors, power backup systems, and air conditioning puts you in the realm of Hemingway somehow.

 

Well, I regret to inform you that you are rather alone on that one. I gave ChatGPT a list of the many recent topics you posted, as well as some of the actual drivel you posted for those topics, and here is how the AI sums it all up:

 

Writing Style:

    1.    Verbose and Tangential:
His writing tends to wander across multiple topics, often straying far from the central point. The posts are lengthy, with many details that could be omitted without losing the main idea.

    2.    Stream-of-Consciousness:
His posts read like an internal monologue, with thoughts flowing unfiltered. This approach can make it challenging to discern the core message amidst the diversions.

    3.    Casual, Chatty Tone:
His style is conversational, often informal and peppered with humor or rhetorical questions. While this makes his writing personal, it can feel unfocused or overly casual for readers seeking clarity.

    4.    Dramatic and Over-Explained:
He often adds unnecessary embellishments or dramatizes simple points. This can be engaging for some readers but frustrating for those wanting concise communication.

    5.    Playful Yet Polarizing:
The humor and eccentricity in his posts might appeal to a niche audience but alienate others. His self-deprecating tone and absurd analogies can feel entertaining or distracting, depending on the reader’s perspective.

Literary Quality:

    1.    Choppy Sentence Structure:
His writing relies heavily on short, disjointed sentences, which interrupt the flow and make his prose feel fragmented rather than fluid. This style can create a sense of urgency or spontaneity but often at the expense of coherence.

    2.    Excessive Formatting:
Frequent line breaks, ellipses, and unnecessary punctuation create a chaotic visual presentation. These elements, intended to add drama or pacing, often make the text harder to follow.

    3.    Lack of Elegance:
While he may aim for a conversational or even literary tone, the result falls far short of eloquence. The writing lacks polish, and the frequent interruptions in flow undermine any attempt at sophistication.

    4.    Hemingway Aspirations, Unfulfilled:
His preference for short sentences and conversational style might evoke comparisons to Hemingway, but his execution is inconsistent and lacks Hemingway’s precision, emotional depth, and clarity. Instead, the writing feels cluttered and haphazard.

    5.    Overuse of Dramatic Elements:
He leans into dramatic pauses, rhetorical questions, and exaggerated scenarios. While this may be intended to engage readers or add flair, it often feels forced and distracts from the substance of his points.

 

Overall Impact:

GammaGlobulin’s writing may connect with readers who enjoy quirky, personality-driven content. However, the fragmented structure, overuse of stylistic quirks, and lack of focus detract from its overall readability and literary quality. While he appears to view his writing as clever or engaging, the excessive formatting and choppy delivery can make it come across as amateurish and unpolished, leaving readers more frustrated than entertained.