Help, i fancy my local pharmacist (F) !

[Hawaiian]

On 11/28/2024 at 1:23 PM, Gecko123 said:

Should be able to find someone local who can give you the skinny on whether she's romantically involved with anyone. If that hurdle is cleared, send an emissary to feel her out about her interest in you. That way, if there's no interest, you can pretend you don't know anything about it, and won't have to worry about any awkwardness in the future.

Best advice yet.  My girl's brother-in-law used her as a go between when he wanted to meet her older sister.  Seems like a common and sensible Thai solution.

Edited 6 hours ago by Hawaiian

[Hawaiian]

On 11/28/2024 at 2:07 PM, Farma said:

Having been married to one for over 2 decades and know of 2 other farangs within 60 km of me also married to pharmacists its not impossible to meet or date them.

 

However me excluded they tend to mix with professionals their level or above.

 

There's also lot of unmarried pharmacists either career girls or left it too late to marry.

 

Suggest asking around if she's married or in a relationship. Adding line is a good idea. Don't expect to jump into bed the 1st date. You'll possibly find she'll bring a friend "chaperone" the first few dates.

Nothing wrong with that.  If you are serious about her a little patience goes a long way.

[baansgr]

Pervert!!!

[KhunLA]

1 hour ago, Expat68 said:

At 71 year old I honestly believe that some people are cut out to be married (men and women) and others are more than happy in having a girlfriend but not living together, then there others who just prefer their own company 

I can roll with either or, but relationships, except present, never lasted very long.  No major regrets, as all fun, and mutually separated, luckily. 

[BigStar]

1 hour ago, Expat68 said:

At 71 year old I honestly believe that some people are cut out to be married (men and women) and others are more than happy in having a girlfriend but not living together, then there others who just prefer their own company 

 

[daveAustin]

Didn't read all replies, but I wouldn't leave it as it'll get harder as time moves on... then you'll look like a right donkey when you awkwardly ask her out and she knocks you back. It should be done off the cuff with humour. The LINE thing seems to be the 'easiest' way to do it nowadays (here)... asking if they want to eat can be a bit full on. I also fancy my local pharmacist btw... Muslim, to boot!

[daveAustin]

2 hours ago, Hawaiian said:

Best advice yet.  My girl's brother-in-law used her as a go between when he wanted to meet her older sister.  Seems like a common and sensible Thai solution.

Yeah, I'd go with this. Ignore what I said. 🙂

[BangkokReady]

On 11/28/2024 at 3:30 PM, BigStar said:

My pharmacist, whom I've known for years, and I like each other quite a bit, and we had a little moment last time I was in her shop. But she's quite married, and I have a long-term gf, so that's that.

 

A serious problem with Thai women.  They don't seem to have any issue with expressing desire for someone when they are already in a relationship, even when their partner is with them!  Quite bizarre.

[BangkokReady]

Pass her a note with "Back door beauty?" written on it.  It worked really well in this documentary I saw...