Relationship Dynamics: Ladyboys vs Women in Thailand?

[Cameroni]

5 minutes ago, daveAustin said:

 

If 'she' was a nice person, you could have still met up and had a laugh without any funny business.

 

I don't think so, she was so hot as a fake girl, I may have crossed over to the other side. Too dangerous.

 

Plus, I'm so attractive she would probably not have to been able to contain herself and then she'd have been so mad that I don't reciprocate. And if I know one thing, you don't want to get a ladyboy mad. 

 

I did actually think about it, because she was so very nice as a person and she clearly looked forward so much to visiting CM, but I decided against it. It was too dangerous. And after i had rejected her she was too dejected anyway.

[Cameroni]

5 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Problem is they do try and con guys so I wouldnt feel bad

 

You know she somehow fell through the system. I must have written to her on TF without noticing the "T" and then when she replied and I had a closer look I realised she was a ladyboy and did not take it further. But what happened was that she just texted me months later when I was shopping in Pavilion in Kuala Lumpur, after I'd forgotten all about her. I was just so psyched that this "hot" girl texted me out of nowhere and immediately agreed to come to Chiang Mai, it someone didn't click in my memory who she really was. i just assumed I'd written to her on TF, but I write to so many its' hard to keep track. So she just slipped through the system. I don't think she was trying to con me, I think she really thought I knew she was a ladyboy. But I really didn't because she looked so much like a hot girl, I was tricked I guess.

[SoCal1990]

16 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Plus, I'm so attractive she would probably not have to been able to contain herself

Ah, now it all makes perfect sense, no wonder you were trawling the internet for ladyboys and paying for their flights to Chiang Mai. Who needs the hassle of meeting a real woman in a normal setting like a pub or shopping mall near to you when you can just wire money to a stranger online located far away and hope for the best?

[SoCal1990]

5 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Problem is they do try and con guys so I wouldnt feel bad

You mean ladyboys do that too, not just the majority of the local women having a go at it?

[SoCal1990]

5 hours ago, save the frogs said:

are their personalities genuine or fake?

 

since they try so hard to come off as a woman, i'm wondering if the personality is an act. 

 

if you get into a relationship with them, maybe their dark side starts to come out? bitchiness like you never seen before? 

 

And that's just the real women...

[Cameroni]

3 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Ah, now it all makes perfect sense, no wonder you were trawling the internet for ladyboys and paying for their flights to Chiang Mai. Who needs the hassle of meeting a real woman in a normal setting like a pub or shopping mall when you can just wire money to a stranger online and hope for the best?

 

It is very comfortable actually. I still can't believe so many girls are so eager to just come meet a total stranger and stay in his house. It's incredible really. A bit like Grab for girls.

 

Of course I also do cold approaches in malls and MRT stations and anywhere it makes sense. But these days you have to curtali that, you can't be seen chatting up 20 girls in a mall. Those days are over. You'd get police called on you.

[SoCal1990]

26 minutes ago, daveAustin said:

I do, however, hear that the former do a 'proper' BJ. 

Of course, no firsthand experience. Clearly, it was a friend who told you that, right?

[SoCal1990]

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It is very comfortable actually. I still can't believe so many girls are so eager to just come meet a total stranger and stay in his house. It's incredible really. A bit like Grab for girls.

 

Of course I also do cold approaches in malls and MRT stations and anywhere it makes sense. But these days you have to curtali that, you can't be seen chatting up 20 girls in a mall. Those days are over. You'd get police called on you.

Ah, got it. Totally makes sense now. I mean, that’s what everyone does these days, right? Scouring the internet for ladyboys who live in a completely different province, wiring them cash, and flying them in because obviously the BIB are lying in wait to arrest any poor foreigner who dares say hello to a real girl at a coffee shop or shopping mall in their own province. It’s just the modern dating norm. Who even meets people face-to-face anymore? How 1995.

[Cameroni]

43 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Ah, got it. Totally makes sense now. I mean, that’s what everyone does these days, right? Scouring the internet for ladyboys who live in a completely different province, wiring them cash, and flying them in because obviously the BIB are lying in wait to arrest any poor foreigner who dares say hello to a real girl at a coffee shop or shopping mall in their own province. It’s just the modern dating norm. Who even meets people face-to-face anymore? How 1995.

 

Again, she slipped through, I don't scour for ladyboys.

 

And yes, a moderate amount of cold approaching in a mall is fine, but if you do it too much it would become a problem. It's not well seen. I still have to use that mall, I can't be seen as the weird farang chatting up girls endlessly there.

[Yellowtail]

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Again, she slipped through, I don't scour for ladyboys.

 

 

 

 

[Cameroni]

Just now, Yellowtail said:

 

 

 

She slipped through! I met her on TF and she texted me 3 months after on Insta! How can anyone remember every girl from TF, let alone if they had a tiny "T" next to their name!

 

My heterosexual credentials are impeccable!

[scubascuba3]

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

You know she somehow fell through the system. I must have written to her on TF without noticing the "T" and then when she replied and I had a closer look I realised she was a ladyboy and did not take it further. But what happened was that she just texted me months later when I was shopping in Pavilion in Kuala Lumpur, after I'd forgotten all about her. I was just so psyched that this "hot" girl texted me out of nowhere and immediately agreed to come to Chiang Mai, it someone didn't click in my memory who she really was. i just assumed I'd written to her on TF, but I write to so many its' hard to keep track. So she just slipped through the system. I don't think she was trying to con me, I think she really thought I knew she was a ladyboy. But I really didn't because she looked so much like a hot girl, I was tricked I guess.

always worth doing a video call before a meet up like that, you would have been able to tell easy, usually voice gives it a way

[scubascuba3]

2 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

You mean ladyboys do that too, not just the majority of the local women having a go at it?

men pretending they are women is pretty bad, different issue with Thai women

[SoCal1990]

10 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

men pretending they are women is pretty bad, different issue with Thai women

What about going for an oil massage, getting whacked with a meat and two veg in the face while lying there and then getting a herky-jerky at the end? Especially with a BOGO discount. Good value?

[scubascuba3]

11 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

What about going for an oil massage, getting whacked with a meat and two veg in the face while lying there and then getting a herky-jerky at the end? Especially with a BOGO discount. Good value?

If you enjoy that kind of thing go for it, but admit you're gay

[Yellowtail]

25 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

always worth doing a video call before a meet up like that, you would have been able to tell easy, usually voice gives it a way

Anyone that doesn't see it, doesn't want to see it. Wink-wink-nudge-nudge

[SoCal1990]

4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

If you enjoy that kind of thing go for it, but admit you're gay

Funny thing, there is a guy who posts videos on Instagram regularly from Thailand. Young guy, Northern European I believe, perhaps mid to late 20s. Has a ladyboy girlfriend in Thailand. Posts together with his ladyboy swearing he's not gay and all the reasons why him dating a ladyboy isn't homo. Lol. 

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

Funny thing, there is a guy who posts videos on Instagram regularly from Thailand. Young guy, Northern European I believe, perhaps mid to late 20s. Has a ladyboy girlfriend in Thailand. Posts together with his ladyboy swearing he's not gay and all the reasons why him dating a ladyboy isn't homo. Lol. 

Why you care? Seems you are after everyone who enjoys life more than you.

 

Jealousy is that called. I guess I have seen the same guy, and they seem authentic enough. Positive and nice couple as far I could see. 

 

To much negativity at this forum and world. 

[Yellowtail]

Just now, SoCal1990 said:

Funny thing, there is a guy who posts videos on Instagram regularly from Thailand. Young guy, Northern European I believe, perhaps mid to late 20s. Has a ladyboy girlfriend in Thailand. Posts together with his ladyboy swearing he's not gay and all the reasons why him dating a ladyboy isn't homo. Lol. 

No. He has a ladyboy boyfriend in Thailand, and he's pretending he's not gay. 

 

Now some homosexual men will claim that only heterosexual men have sex with ladyboys, and that homosexual men are not at all attracted to men pretending to be women, but that has to be a lie, because it were true, there would be no intentionally effeminate gay men. 

[Yellowtail]

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Why you care? Seems you are after everyone who enjoys life more than you.

 

Jealousy is that called. I guess I have seen the same guy, and they seem authentic enough. Positive and nice couple as far I could see. 

 

To much negativity at this forum and world. 

Why do you assume a guy posting about having sex with a ladyboy is "enjoying life" more than the men laughing at them? 

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, Yellowtail said:

Why do you assume a guy posting about having sex with a ladyboy is "enjoying life" more than the men laughing at them? 

The bitterness among the older chaps here, versus a young guy living and exploring life in his prime and makes money of it? 

 

I miss those days, and they are long gone, even I basically can do whatever I want, when I want, I do not have taste for it, or stamina to do everything I did before. 

 

I'm in a very comfortable structured lifestyle by now, compared to 30 years ago. Read comfortable as not exploring and experience with same intensity as when younger.

[SoCal1990]

13 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

No. He has a ladyboy boyfriend in Thailand, and he's pretending he's not gay. 

 

Now some homosexual men will claim that only heterosexual men have sex with ladyboys, and that homosexual men are not at all attracted to men pretending to be women, but that has to be a lie, because it were true, there would be no intentionally effeminate gay men. 

You've seen him? Roman Kondratiev. He's a good giggle. Totally deluded. 

[SoCal1990]

17 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Why you care? Seems you are after everyone who enjoys life more than you.

 

Jealousy is that called. I guess I have seen the same guy, and they seem authentic enough. Positive and nice couple as far I could see. 

 

To much negativity at this forum and world. 

Ouch. So much butt hurt you have there and you don't know whose butt to stick it in. Lol. Carry on. 😂

[Hummin]

7 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Ouch. So much butt hurt you have there and you don't know whose butt to stick it in. Lol. Carry on. 😂

 

By how you responds to other on the forum, it is clear somebody else is butt hurt 👏

 

Keep up the good work

[SoCal1990]

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

By how you responds to other on the forum, it is clear somebody else is butt hurt 👏

 

Keep up the good work

More photos needed too of all your food and drink. I promise, I'm not completely unimpressed like everyone else. I love them all!

[actonion]

21 hours ago, hankypankee said:

Very insightful Donald, but how can you be sure?

Do the Crocodile Dundee test,    if you're brave enough 

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, Yellowtail said:

Anyone that doesn't see it, doesn't want to see it. Wink-wink-nudge-nudge

You're not able to tell the ones that have no obvious sign of being a LB

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, SoCal1990 said:

Funny thing, there is a guy who posts videos on Instagram regularly from Thailand. Young guy, Northern European I believe, perhaps mid to late 20s. Has a ladyboy girlfriend in Thailand. Posts together with his ladyboy swearing he's not gay and all the reasons why him dating a ladyboy isn't homo. Lol. 

He just hasn't come to terms with it, obviously he's attracted to man features 

[SoCal1990]

4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

He just hasn't come to terms with it, obviously he's attracted to man features 

That seems like an accurate analysis. If he's happy that's great. But he seems to go to such lengths to reinforce that he's not gay and that his male partner with male genitals is a woman. Why doesn't he just embrace it? And so many videos on the subject of him being not gay. 

[Yellowtail]

2 hours ago, Hummin said:

The bitterness among the older chaps here, versus a young guy living and exploring life in his prime and makes money of it? 

 

I miss those days, and they are long gone, even I basically can do whatever I want, when I want, I do not have taste for it, or stamina to do everything I did before. 

 

I'm in a very comfortable structured lifestyle by now, compared to 30 years ago. Read comfortable as not exploring and experience with same intensity as when younger.

Always the same tired claims of bitterness from people like you. What is that based on? That your life is so empty that you are jealous of a kid having homosexual sex says about you than it does about those you call bitter.