Are you happy with your life in Thailand?

[fredwiggy]

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I know a lot

You're fools for arguing with me

 

It's pathetic that a guy nearly 70yo talks likes this.

 

 

Look in the mirror. Take awhile, actually look back at all your replies not only to me but everyone else. Even a child could see there's a deep rooted problem there, but you won't , because those in denial never do.

[Harrisfan]

Just now, fredwiggy said:

No, I had teenagers so I know how they respond. This is starting to come clear with you, and i know where it's learned............https://www.additudemag.com/oppositional-defiant-disorder-in-adults/?srsltid=AfmBOoqCz9BW43T04mO9yXP58GoUAgWVB-0Y9RnFmjvtBtkgTSX_a4M8.

Mature adults realise they aren't experts on everything. That's a teenage trait. You have it.

[fredwiggy]

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Where are the facts in any of your posts? There's none.

You have to have some basic knowledge in any of them before you can make that statement. You obviously don't know much about anything.

[Harrisfan]

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Look in the mirror. Take awhile, actually look back at all your replies not only to me but everyone else. Even a child could see there's a deep rooted problem there, but you won't , because those in denial never do.

I see a demented old guy ranting. Lots of waffle no subtance. I'm a doer not a talker. You're a talker.

[Harrisfan]

Just now, fredwiggy said:

You have to have some basic knowledge in any of them before you can make that statement. You obviously don't know much about anything.

What degrees do you hold?

[fredwiggy]

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Mature adults realise they aren't experts on everything. That's a teenage trait. You have it.

Slow down, take a breath. First, where did I say I was an expert on anything? I said I have a lot of knowledge on CERTAIN subjects, just as many others also do, and some brag openly about it. 

[Harrisfan]

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Slow down, take a breath. First, where did I say I was an expert on anything? I said I have a lot of knowledge on CERTAIN subjects, just as many others also do, and some brag openly about it. 

What degrees do you hold big boy?

[BritManToo]

58 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I read books that are factual, with data and proven evidence. You, again, are assuming what I read without ever asking.

Like the bible?

[BritManToo]

9 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I know a lot

You're fools for arguing with me

 

It's pathetic that a guy nearly 70yo talks likes this.

 

 

 

9 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I know a lot

You're fools for arguing with me

 

It's pathetic that a guy nearly 70yo talks likes this.

 

 

Way worse is at 70 he's still looking for a (much younger) woman that will love him for himself, without turning into another narcissist.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

I see a demented old guy ranting. Lots of waffle no subtance. I'm a doer not a talker. You're a talker.

Yes, and all you do is post one liners to insult. None to help. You haven't the ability to converse on any subjects here because again, you lack the knowledge. This is what's confusing you. Someone comes in and posts things you disagree with, because you never learned much about them but had to come in just to argue. Then they post links you probably never read, or comprehend. If you would do like others do, you would stop waiting to see what someone posts, reply with another insult without thinking first, then read it, reflect, take some time to read the links posted, maybe see that they are facts with evidence, and possibly change your mind about them. I see very clearly of your kind as I've seen it many times over the years. ODD explains a lot but not all of it. 

[JakeC]

Last look...

 

What you're missing , is that's is always the same ones who are calling me out. An assumption as to my actions. Perhaps they are 'calling him out' for a different reason than he imagines.

 

You don't know the history unless you read it. Take awhile and go over all of my recent posts. There is the assumption that I had not already done so, prior to commenting in the first place. I saw often that it was just his assertion/assumption that  he was correct. But looking at both sides of the discussion, I saw no evidence of that.

Insisting that one is right in the face of evidence to the contrary, is certainly not my definition of a realist. No different from this thread.

 

 

You'll see who the detractors are and what their replies are. if you look back further, you'll see an argument I had with them where I proved them wrong on something, and then you'll see the follow ups. People have different perspectives. One should respect that instead of deflection and dismissal. That is disrespectful behaviour. One can say they have a different opinion and leave it at that. But trying to insist that one is always right is not only impossible, but incredibly obnoxious behaviour. In the eyes of some, narcissistic even.

 

 

...you'll see the same things happening.  If the same thing is happening time and time again, perhaps look at the common denominator.

 

What will it take for him to zip it and to LISTEN?

[fredwiggy]

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Like the bible?

Books by John Gray, Dr. Dobson, Gary Smalley, Dr. Laura, Aaron Beck, Craig Malkin, Dr. Ramani, Dr. Les Carter, Daniel Siegel, Jean Piaget, along with many others

[fredwiggy]

3 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Last look...

 

What you're missing , is that's is always the same ones who are calling me out. An assumption as to my actions. Perhaps they are 'calling him out' for a different reason than he imagines.

 

You don't know the history unless you read it. Take awhile and go over all of my recent posts. There is the assumption that I had not already done so, prior to commenting in the first place. I saw often that it was just his assertion/assumption that  he was correct. But looking at both sides of the discussion, I saw no evidence of that.

Insisting that one is right in the face of evidence to the contrary, is certainly not my definition of a realist. No different from this thread.

 

 

You'll see who the detractors are and what their replies are. if you look back further, you'll see an argument I had with them where I proved them wrong on something, and then you'll see the follow ups. People have different perspectives. One should respect that instead of deflection and dismissal. That is disrespectful behaviour. One can say they have a different opinion and leave it at that. But trying to insist that one is always right is not only impossible, but incredibly obnoxious behaviour. In the eyes of some, narcissistic even.

 

 

...you'll see the same things happening.  If the same thing is happening time and time again, perhaps look at the common denominator.

 

What will it take for him to zip it and to LISTEN?

You to do what I asked, and not comment until you understand the reasoning behind all of it. That takes work so I'm thinking laziness wins over .If you don't see where the history began and why, you can't comment because you don't know the whole story. I'm sure this makes sense to you.

[fredwiggy]

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

 

Way worse is at 70 he's still looking for a (much younger) woman that will love him for himself, without turning into another narcissist.

And yet another assumption from a man that pays for sex and doesn't believe there are such things as a mutual partnership not involving cash handouts other than bills and food. And again, I'm 68, so maybe you're confusion is getting the best of you. 

[SAFETY FIRST]

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I know the definition. I've been studying psychology for over 30 years, including narcissism, depression, sociopaths, misogyny, and child psychology.

Gawd, Freddy. 

 

I've just skimmed through the last 4 or 5 pages, from where I last made comment. 

 

Along the way you've manage to argue with so many here. 

 

I'm sure your studying psychology claims are not truthful, I reckon it was you, the patient, the one lying down on the sofa being psychoanalysed 😂. 

 

You have this fettish for giving out thumbs down to every comment you disagree with, this is not normal behaviour mate, get treated please. 

 

You've been on your keyboard all morning, go out, get some fresh air 

 

 

[fredwiggy]

14 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

What degrees do you hold big boy?

That shows more how little you understand of what makes a person have knowledge on subjects. Am I to think you're one of those who think doctors are the ones who go to for help with seeking a healthy lifestyle? You do realize there are countless books one can read to increase their knowledge on any subject ? That anyone can take those books and have the same amount of knowledge as a person who goes to school and ends up reading the same books the teacher read? That passion and desire are better teaching methods than wanting to pass a course just to make money?

[ElwoodP]

Please note, posters joining the forum just to post down votes are not appreciated. Please participate, so people don't consider your actions as trolling.

@nowonline

[Harrisfan]

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That shows more how little you understand of what makes a person have knowledge on subjects. Am I to think you're one of those who think doctors are the ones who go to for help with seeking a healthy lifestyle? You do realize there are countless books one can read to increase their knowledge on any subject ? That anyone can take those books and have the same amount of knowledge as a person who goes to school and ends up reading the same books the teacher read? That passion and desire are better teaching methods than wanting to pass a course just to make money?

So none. Thought so.

[fredwiggy]

3 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Gawd, Freddy. 

 

I've just skimmed through the last 4 or 5 pages, from where I last made comment. 

 

Along the way you've manage to argue with so many here. 

 

I'm sure your studying psychology claims are not truthful, I reckon it was you, the patient, the one lying down on the sofa being psychoanalysed 😂. 

 

You have this fettish for giving out thumbs down to every comment you disagree with, this is not normal behaviour mate, get treated please, it's back to the sofa for you. 

 

You've been on your keyboard all morning, go out, get some fresh air 

 

 

No, I've had argument with the same ones who constantly argue the same exact ways with others. That there are a few of them in this topic now isn't strange. That you are also one of the ones I argue with, mainly because you're always putting down other foreigners and I don't think anyone here understands just why you come to AN in the first place besides to do just that.

 

Assuming I'm the one that always puts thumbs down on your posts is yet another assumption, as I can only put one, and you get more than a few in most of your posts anyway, or did you miss that?

 

You, and those other three, are definitely in need of some help. but at your ages, with your way of thinking, being in denial, nothing will ever become of it. I can also say the same thing again, to you. Don't bother coming to a forum of foreigners if you're just going to complain about them. Join a Thai forum and be with those you think like you.

[JakeC]

This is painful to read. Quite sad really.

But it explains why someone has ended up in the 'middle of arse', far away from his peers. Paying money to the family of a middle aged woman with whom he has no kids. Bad decisions again and again.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

So none. Thought so.

So your thinking is that one needs a degree to have a lot of knowledge on a subject? Okay, that's all I needed to know. Re-read what I just wrote. take your time. How does anyone continue learning after high school? There are two ways besides going to college. Reading and listening to a competent teacher.

[Harrisfan]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

So your thinking is that one needs a degree to have a lot of knowledge on a subject? Okay, that's all I needed to know. Re-read what I just wrote. take your time. How does anyone continue learning after high school? There are two ways besides going to college. Reading and listening to a competent teacher.

Most knowledge is useless. It is actions that matter.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, JakeC said:

This is painful to read. Quite sad really.

But it explains why someone has ended up in the 'middle of arse', far away from his peers. Paying money to a middle aged woman's family. Bad decisions again and again.

Who are you talking about? That seems to me to be yet another assumption or two. A question. What are your previous other usernames here?

[fredwiggy]

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Most knowledge is useless. It is actions that matter.

Knowledge is the key to any success in any endeavor. The only other way is who you know, as many dimwitted and or dangerous people have risen to power from. 

[JakeC]

I am just recapping what has been written by the man himself. Giving money to parents. Yes or no? Middle aged? Yes or no?

Middle of arse? Yes or no?

 

It seems he will even argue with his own statements.

[Harrisfan]

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Knowledge is the key to any success in any endeavor. The only other way is who you know, as many dimwitted and or dangerous people have risen to power from. 

Not really. Most success is just luck. 

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Not really. Most success is just luck. 

With every reply.............

[fredwiggy]

4 minutes ago, JakeC said:

I am just recapping what has been written by the man himself. Giving money to parents. Yes or no? Middle aged? Yes or no?

Middle of arse? Yes or no?

 

It seems he will even argue with his own statements.

Well, I never said I gave money to anyone's parents. Middle aged like everyone else here besides a few older and younger, yes. Living in middle of arse, if that's what you mean, yes, like almost everyone in Thailand outside big cities and the beach areas, yes. Still waiting for that answer of what usernames used before.

[Yellowtail]

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Knowledge is the key to any success in any endeavor. The only other way is who you know, as many dimwitted and or dangerous people have risen to power from. 

Knowledge is not key to anything. 

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Yellowtail said:

Knowledge is not key to anything. 

Obviously.