Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

[transam]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Horrible looking modifications.

Did you buy it like that or butcher it yourself?

Mind your own business, stick to your bar girlie orifice studies...........

[MalcolmB]

3 minutes ago, transam said:

Mind your own business, stick to your bar girlie orifice studies...........

Whoever came up with that color scheme with the vinyl roof and the body kit must have been very drunk.

[transam]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Whoever came up with that color scheme with the vinyl roof and the body kit must have been very drunk.

As I said, stick to your bar girlie orifice studies...........😉

[BritManToo]

21 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So your brain forgets everything every three years?

I can hardly remember anything from last week!

[BritManToo]

26 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

My mom's basement where @BritManToo?

 

You've lost your moral compass along the way. Up to you. What a sad and pathetic little man.

I'd describe myself as a happy, but old and large and bald man.

Not sure about morals, they're cultural not absolute, I quite like Muslim morality, if forced to choose.

 

[SMIAI]

Come on, we are from stock that knows certain things are off-limits. Snitching etc What happened to you?

I used to have some little respect for you, but as time went by, realised you deserved none of it. What a disappointment.

 

[MalcolmB]

51 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

Snitching etc What happened to you?

Trans people think differently to the mainstream 

[Ralf001]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Horrible looking modifications.

Did you buy it like that or butcher it yourself?

Engine bay is full of shiney chrome bits.... Bought from China !

[MalcolmB]

4 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Engine bay is full of shiney chrome bits.... Bought from China !

He probably got it cheap.

There wouldn’t be too many buyers for such an abomination.

 

 

[Cameroni]

3 hours ago, Nicco said:

It was immediately clear to me she was special.

 

She's not.

 

Every guy who puts a girl on a pedestal will tell you that girl is so very "special". Of course she isn't. There are 4 billion females in the world, so at a conservative estimate there would be 400 million women who are better looking, more charming, more honest, more loyal. You just like the way she gobbles your nuts, but you can't tell yourself that's the reason why you pay her accomodation, food and presents, like a Simp, you need to manufacture a reason to soothe your male Ego. So she's oh so very special. Total nonsense of course.

 

3 hours ago, Nicco said:

I met my wife her 32, me 49. That was 15 years ago

 

Okay, so she's 47, I was 2 years off. So you wake up next to a 47 year old woman every day. My idea of personal hell. But you do you.

 

3 hours ago, Nicco said:

They can't help it they are the definition of failed human beings. It's fine for fun, it gets old after a few decades.

 

You are very confused. I'm not a P4P guy like you were. But nothing much has changed for you, you were P4P before, and you still are. As you admitted, you pay her bills.

 

3 hours ago, Nicco said:

I think this guy doesn't live in Thailand, has a marginal existence in his home country, no family, friends and especially female partner. He's fallen into money and spent to much time on TikTok.

 

 

Lol, you talk more nonsense than anyone on these boards.

 

 

 

[Cameroni]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I'm doubting any man over 50 could attract a 30-35 year old women without having money.

 

Obviously you need money, but let's talk about attraction. We all know there are guys who are fat, short, bald, who are with 9s and 10s. We have seen it with our own  eyes. How could this be? Do women not care about looks? The reality is that they care about looks, but attraction is created by men with what they say and do. It's not just about looks with women. So whilst it may be easier for a 25 year old man to attract a 25 year old girl, a guy who knows how to create attraction by his words, actions and demeanour, who has money, status and confidence, he could be 60 and attract a 27 year old. Lothar Matthaeus is 64 and his girlfriend is 26.

 

https://www.gbnews.com/sport/football/lothar-matthaus-pictured-theresa-sommer-fifth-divorce

 

So age, at least until 65, is not an insurmountable obstacle to attract a woman. 

 

In fact attraction is not the problem at all. The problem is to keep her loyal in the long term. That's the difficult part.

[BritManToo]

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Okay, so she's 47, I was 2 years off. So you wake up next to a 47 year old woman every day. My idea of personal hell. But you do you

Mine is nearly 50, and it's lovely waking up next to her.

[Cameroni]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Mine is nearly 50, and it's lovely waking up next to her.

 

You're giving me nightmares.

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You're giving me nightmares.

They are both just moments away from the hell we call menopause.

 

Transam knows all about the male version someone posted a while back.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Every guy who puts a girl on a pedestal will tell you that girl is so very "special". Of course she isn't.

 

Your outlook is rather crass.

A woman is more "special" to a man initially because there is an inexplicable attraction that is stronger than with other women. It doesn't mean she's the best woman on the planet, but there is something about that particular woman that draws you in more than other women. 

 

And then she can continue to be "special" because now you are developing something called "a bond" that you don't develop with anyone else because you spend the majority of your time with this particular woman.

 

To nullify all of that and reduce it to 'sex for money' and 'a transaction' and 'all women are the same' is rather silly and/or crass.

Or let's face it, you may be a very shallow person who simply looks at women on the most superficial level possible and never actually developed a bond with any woman. 

 

 

[Cameroni]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

They are both just moments away from the hell we call menopause.

 

Imagine. You'd have to stock up on lubricant creams. The sheets sweated every night. Mood swings like in a Harry Enfield sketch. Dried out skin. Incontinence.

 

And when you wake up you look at a 47/50 year old face. 

 

My God.

 

 

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Imagine. You'd have to stock up on lubricant creams. The sheets sweated every night. Mood swings like in a Harry Enfield sketch. Dried out skin. Incontinence.

 

And when you wake up you look at a 47/50 year old face. 

 

My God.

 

 

 

Yes, and let us know when your perfect ten 20 year old girfriend starts sleeping around behind your back. 

 

[Cameroni]

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Your outlook is rather crass.

A woman is more "special" to a man initially because there is an inexplicable attraction that is stronger than with other women. It doesn't mean she's the best woman on the planet, but there is something about that particular woman that draws you in more than other women.

 

Translation: She touched his pee pee and he likes how she gobbles his nuts. This is the "something" and the "inexplicable". No miracle about it, I'm afraid. All the "specialness" is manufactured thereafter.

 

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

And then she can continue to be "special" because now you are developing something called "a bond" that you don't develop with anyone else because you spend the majority of your time with this particular woman.

 

 

Yes, clearly he got very attached. Always dangerous. Indeed a bond then develops. The same happens between seagulls. Nothing special.

 

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

To nullify all of that and reduce it to 'sex for money' and 'all women are the same' is rather silly and/or crass.

 

You clearly don't understand what I'm saying. I am not "reducing" it to "sex for money", I am saying he is still paying his super-special and oh-so-unique Supergirl. What do you think would happen if he stopped paying her bills? 

 

Nor am I saying "all women are the same", that is indeed silly and crass. As is your total misrepresentation of what I've been saying.

 

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Or let's face it, you may be a very shallow person who simply looks at women on the most superficial level possible

 

I am not. I look at women more deeply than most, and that, I am afraid, is the scary part.

 

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

and never actually developed a bond with any woman. 

 

Now you're just talking nonsense.

[MalcolmB]

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Imagine. You'd have to stock up on lubricant creams. The sheets sweated every night. Mood swings like in a Harry Enfield sketch. Dried out skin. Incontinence.

No wonder he also seems like he is in such a bad mood.

It can’t be fun.

 

Obviously the female version is a lot worse and would likely be even harsher for an ex bar girl with a body count in the thousands.

[Cameroni]

23 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Yes, and let us know when your perfect ten 20 year old girfriend starts sleeping around behind your back. 

 

 

That's why I'm saying that is the difficult part. To keep a 25 year old girl loyal in the long term. Because most want to explore their options.

 

But to be honest, I'd rather run that risk than spend 15 years with a 47 to 62 year old woman. That would be absolute hell for me. Couldn't do it. Even when I dated that 35 year old, I was disgusted already. Nothing over 25 for me. If she cheats, okay, it's regrettable and unpleasant. But you just get a new one.

[MalcolmB]

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Translation: She touched his pee pee and he likes how she gobbles his nuts. This is the "something" and the "inexplicable". No miracle about it, I'm afraid.

Let’s face it, if they didn’t have a vagina and breasts we would probably be throwing rocks at them.

[Cameroni]

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

No wonder he also seems like he is in such a bad mood.

It can’t be fun.

 

Obviously the female version is a lot worse and would likely be even harsher for an ex bar girl with a body count in the thousands.

 

I don't think women over 45 are a lot of fun. Not because they're uglier, but because by age 30 a good looking woman would have slept with 10 or 20 guys, and each time that would have made her harsher and more difficult to deal with. Only the very young are gentle, full of joy and pliable. Older women are no fun.

 

Not that I've ever had a relationship with a 45 year old woman, I'm not insane, but I've met some and it wasn't a happy experience, on an aesthetic or a personal level.

[MalcolmB]

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Only the very young are gentle, full of joy and pliable.

Yes pliability is very important aspect of choosing a partner.

Right up there with flexibility.

[Cameroni]

7 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Let’s face it, if they didn’t have a vagina and breasts we would probably be throwing rocks at them.

 

Which is what we did when we were 7 and still all-knowing savants. Let's be honest.

 

And then the lies started.

[Cameroni]

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Yes pliability is very important aspect of choosing a partner.

Right up there with flexibility.

 

Oh it's very underrated. A woman that can't be led, that says "no" to so many things, that's no fun. She has to be capable of being led.

 

It's like with horses. Some horses are made for dressage. Others, you can spend a lifetime training, they'll always be wild and unwilling. Those kinds of women exist too.

[transam]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Trans people think differently to the mainstream 

And you would know  ................

[worgeordie]

The bigger question , "Is it possible to bring back polite society"

people today ,it takes nothing to set them off ,they go crazy..

 

regards worgeordie

[Nicco]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Mine is nearly 50, and it's lovely waking up next to her.

 

Yup. Kiss good morning, makes me a coffee first, sex a few times a week.

 

I couldn't imagine what he wakes up next to at home and in Thailand. I expect even dogs don't much want him around.

 

Another two week millionaire telling us what poor choices we make.

 

I guess one large difference is that money appears to be especially dear to him. For me it's much of nothing. He's still so fixated on money he thinks me covering household expenses, buying small gifts, taking her to a restaurant oils somehow... Oh, nevermind 🙄

 

He reminds me of Sparktrader / Nok something/ Susan Lea but writes more (trash)

[Nicco]

7 minutes ago, worgeordie said:

The bigger question , "Is it possible to bring back polite society"

people today ,it takes nothing to set them off ,they go crazy..

 

regards worgeordie

 

My wife has a totally even temperament. She's never blown up at me or for any reason. If this happens it's totally un Thai and you should dump her. That's a lack of respect.

 

These women with these explosive tempers they're always from the bar. Every freaking time

[BritManToo]

8 minutes ago, Nicco said:

Yup. Kiss good morning, makes me a coffee first, sex a few times a week.

 

I couldn't imagine what he wakes up next to at home and in Thailand. I expect even dogs don't much want him around.

 

Another two week millionaire telling us what poor choices we make.

 

I guess one large difference is that money appears to be especially dear to him. For me it's much of nothing. He's still so fixated on money he thinks me covering household expenses, buying small gifts, taking her to a restaurant oils somehow... Oh, nevermind 🙄

I always assume other posters obsessing over paying don't have much money.

I have enough to cover everyone in my household, and a bit to spare for my wife's pals/kids every now and again.