Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

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48 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl user back into polite society?

 

Perhaps we should debate this question too?

 

Most men spend time with these girls not because they are too bad men. But simply because nobody else is speaking acceptable English in Thailand.
So a bargirl user becomes a bargirl avoider after 2 years on ED-visa learning Thai.

[Hummin]

14 minutes ago, Tazmo said:

Well I tried several myself but finally decided that it wasn’t for me. Especially after 2 failed marriages, I wasn’t prepared for that high risk!

 

 I also realized that I myself needed rehabilitation from the life that I was living and partly why I came to Thailand. I had experience in working in Rehab and a great believer in it.

In the UK there is a law, “ The Rehabilitation of Offenders Act”, thousands have changed their lifestyle as w result. In drink- driving for example, you will be offered courses to undertake. Or f caught for a speeding offence. Also In High Security Mental Hospitals, patients who have been serious sex offenders have been rehabilitated and returned to the community. Very few reoffend.

 

So Bar girls can rehabilitate if they are motivated to change and given the appropriate help.

Though some may need Specialist Services! 100%  recovery is always going to be unrealistic.

 

Farangs also need rehabilitation of some form. Many I know have never had a serious relationship in their own country but have money and trying so buy love! Others have had like me broken relationships, but in addition no insight into their behaviour, bad tempered; drug dependent ( alcohol included) and other undesirable behaviors that will render them useless with Western women!

 

So it’s a 2- way thing, You can take a man out of the West but you can’t take the West out of him. A big challenge for relationships of mixed races, but never impossible, there are many shining examples. I know of a few close friends who have done well and a few who have got cleaned out! Horses for courses!

 

BTW it doesn’t only happen in Thailand but in other parts of Asia and the World. I know for sure it’s similar in the Philippines!

Seems most here think of bargirls who work in short time bars alike soi 6 fine establishments, while the majority works in beer bars, sports bars, or anything between, where they rarely being taken out more than once a week maybe, or have more than one long timers who take them for traveling. 
 

Some girls works harder than others, but the most popular girls with brain, never stays long. They disappear for not coming back. 
 

Those hardcore party girls with adhd, or other mentally challenged, drugs, adrenaline addicted creatures, are maybe not the best ones to rely on for a healthy life and gf/wife material. 
 

Anyway, those who live and breathe in the bar scenarios should know what’s best for them. Good luck, have fun, don’t die