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Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count?

Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count? 93 members have voted

  1. 1. Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count?

    • Yes
      65%
      40
    • No I am not comfortable asking her
      11%
      7
    • No I am scared it will be high and I don’t want to know. It intimidates me.
      3%
      2
    • No, because she has had so many she can not remember
      8%
      5
    • No, she wouldn’t tell me
      4%
      3
    • No, she told me but I don’t believe her
      6%
      4

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1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

To be frank Malcy, you make more assumptions than anyone I've ever come across in 68 years, even those of teenagers pale by comparison. And who is we? Remember, you have only 3 friends here on this forum, all unstable and prone to assumptions also. I've only said a couple of women I've been with were promiscuous. 3 out of 100 isn't quite all. 

He has 3 more friends than you then.

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On 7/15/2025 at 11:18 AM, MalcolmB said:

Well said.

But I don’t think Fred will ever admit he is to blame. Narcissists always blame others, it is a trait.

Seeing you haven't a clue what makes a a narcissist. Now try and remember what I've said, and not twist it around like you always do when people give you any information, well pointed out by a few here. I've had 6 children. All raised mostly by myself, all doing well besides the one who moved , at 19, to be near her mother, who has since not done well at all, feeding off the mojo.

 

I do not cheat, abuse, neglect or harm women in any way. If you actually knew the definition of a narcissist, you would understand they always cheat, many abuse, all neglect and all leave their partners when they get bored. Many are prone to going after prostitutes, the more to use women. I knew you would use anything I've said here and turn it around to your low self esteem , need to feed ego, to make you feel superior,as that's your MO, and you do this to others here also, again pointed out before.

 

What you still haven't realized, is that most of the people here are smarter and more mature than you have proven to be, and you are only fooling the ones as dense as you, that also need some rel psychological help, and it's funny, it always seems to be those who buy women and are jealous because they can't get a normal one, along with not having any children, or lost them because they didn't do their job as a father. This means you, and your peanut gallery, aren't qualified to contradict others here, as your have no experience in a normal lifestyle or family situation.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Seeing you haven't a clue what makes a a narcissist. Now try and remember what I've said, and not twist it around like you always do when people give you any information, well pointed out by a few here. I've had 6 children. All raised mostly by myself, all doing well besides the one who moved , at 19, to be near her mother, who has since not done well at all, feeding off the mojo.

 

I do not cheat, abuse, neglect or harm women in any way. If you actually knew the definition of a narcissist, you would understand they always cheat, many abuse, all neglect and all leave their partners when they get bored. Many are prone to going after prostitutes, the more to use women. I knew you would use anything I've said here and turn it around to your low self esteem , need to feed ego, to make you feel superior,as that's your MO, and you do this to others here also, again pointed out before.

 

What you still haven't realized, is that most of the people here are smarter and more mature than you have proven to be, and you are only fooling the ones as dense as you, that also need some rel psychological help, and it's funny, it always seems to be those who buy women and are jealous because they can't get a normal one, along with not having any children, or lost them because they didn't do their job as a father. This means you, and your peanut gallery, aren't qualified to contradict others here, as your have no experience in a normal lifestyle or family situation.

Being a narc has nothing to do with cheating. It is about ego.

 

"I'm right you are wrong" is ego

8 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

He has 3 more friends than you then.

Are you his brother, because you both act like you came from the same background? A family of people who assume things, have low self esteem and need to brag about their paid women conquests to make up for a very lonely life, where no one would be around you after knowing you for m5 minutes.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Are you his brother, because you both act like you came from the same background? A family of people who assume things, have low self esteem and need to brag about their paid women conquests to make up for a very lonely life, where no one would be around you after knowing you for m5 minutes.

All your posts are based on ego. Constant put downs. 

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Being a narc has nothing to do with cheating. It is about ego.

 

"I'm right you are wrong" is ego

It might be better if you and Malcy went to a library and took out a few books on the subject, because you're both clueless. Narcissists cheat because they grew up in an abusive, spoiled and or neglective environment. They saw how a narcissist works, and became one themselves, and there's no cure. 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

It might be better if you and Malcy went to a library and took out a few books on the subject, because you're both clueless. Narcissists cheat because they grew up in an abusive, spoiled and or neglective environment. They saw how a narcissist works, and became one themselves, and there's no cure. 

Another ego post.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

All your posts are based on ego. Constant put downs. 

Look who's talking . I point out your kind so others won't be fooled by your deceptive behavior. My posts are based on facts. That you don't understand them is on you.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Look who's talking . I point out your kind so others won't be fooled by your deceptive behavior. My posts are based on facts. That you don't understand them is on you.

You lecture people daily on relationships despite a string of failed relationships. Pure ego.

 

 

Eckhart Tolle's teachings on the ego emphasize its role as a construct of the mind that creates a sense of identity through social status, possessions, relationships, and other external factors. According to Tolle, the ego is a dysfunctional relationship with the present moment, as it pushes attention away from the present to dwell on the past and future. The ego is threatened by the true self, which is experienced when one is present in the Now, and it will do whatever it can to prevent one from being present and identifying with their true self.

You should read A New Earth. Excellent book on life, happiness and ego.

 

 

13 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Are you his brother, because you both act like you came from the same background? A family of people who assume things, have low self esteem and need to brag about their paid women conquests to make up for a very lonely life, where no one would be around you after knowing you for m5 minutes.

I've never met Malcolm and know nothing about him. You know nothing about me yet keep making assumptions. I have good self esteem. I don't need to lecture people on their relationships because it's none of my business. 

 

You really should learn some basic manners on how to talk to people and try reading up on ego. That book is excellent.

I suggest a certain poster take heed of the words of @atpeace, rather than to deflecting with his continuous bickerfest.

Anyone who has a different viewpoint or perspective is somehow wrong and only he is right. It's clear to all that such behaviour will have been a feature in his every relationship. 

It's sad, but that's just the way it is.

On 7/15/2025 at 9:27 AM, atpeace said:

OK and best of luck with the kids.  I agree with little of the above as it relates to YOU but if it works in your mind, then have at it. 

 

I have a brother I'm "not" dealing with at the moment out of choice that has wrecked his marriage and his family with his a drug addiction and better than thou attitude.  He sounds much like you and blames his wife and fate. 

 

Sad really but nothing anyone wanting to help can do because some just don't get it.  Freddy, fix yourself and forget about the faults of others.  The problem is that it is very difficult and, some like yourself,  would rather blame everybody but themselves. 

Many disagree with things they don't understand. When someone quotes something, it's on you to disprove, as opinions mean nothing. Read it again, and tell me it isn't factual, IF you understand why people don't get along with each other.

 

Your brother is nothing like me, assuming he is shows you really aren't getting my post. I don't have any addictions and seeing you know nothing about the women I married, you can't comment and can only assume it's my fault. Lack of life experience does that to some.

 

Am I to guess you married your high school sweetheart and are still with her? More likely you've had your share of failed relationships and let's see who got the blame for them ending. You have never been with a bad woman? If you have, maybe you can then understand a little of what I said, maybe not. I don't know you from Adam, so you might be one who is a control freak, one who treats women right, has had just a couple of relationships or has had many .

 

Don't assume, especially if you aren't one who reads enough to understand why people do what they do. If you read what I wrote, I treat women good all the time. I don't cheat, control, abuse, neglect or ignore them. If you treat a woman well, then problems arise, its can be deciphered that it might not be the man's fault. Do you not realize how many evil women there are in the world, and that some end up with them, at least for awhile. Kinda naive thinking I couldn't have picked three disturbed women to have children with, seeing the percentage of divorces isn't always due to a man's actions. I put the blame exactly where it should go. If I do something wrong, I admit it and do what I need to so it doesn't happen again. That's why I read 65 books and a thousands or articles. I started out as a decent man who doesn't use women, and wanted to be as good as I could be. Sometimes attraction does people in. Actually it happens millions of times a year.

41 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

He has rules, his commandments, most of which make perfect sense, to protect us from evil and stupid decisions. People are the reason most things go wrong here. Yes, again, there are a lot of bad things here, but again, we're not here forever.


so god is male, and he gave women a clitoris? 

1 minute ago, SMIAI said:

I suggest a certain poster take heed of the words of @atpeace, rather than to deflecting with his continuous bickerfest.

Anyone who has a different viewpoint or perspective is somehow wrong and only he is right. It's clear to all that such behaviour will have been a feature in his every relationship. 

It's sad, but that's just the way it is.

What;s sad is some don't understand you can do everything right in a relationship and just pick the wrong partner. And it can happen a few times in your life.If you would look at this world, you might understand the breakdown of society is the breakdown of the family. Who are you to cast the first stone? I'm guessing all your relationships were perfect? And some just don't understand women, men or people in general and just go by their own bling narrative. 

Please stop.... it's painful to read. Why don't you ever zip it and just listen?

Just now, madone said:


so god is male, and he gave women a clitoris? 

If you don't believe, that's up to you. Most of us here do. No one knows what God is. We think an entity, not male or female.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Anyone who has a different viewpoint or perspective is somehow wrong and only he is right


i reckon this about sums you up.

Just now, SMIAI said:

Please stop.... it's painful to read. Why don't you ever zip it and just listen?

Why don't you educate yourself instead of looking like someone who only goes by opinions? Maybe you and those two just might be wrong. Oh, but that couldn't be right?

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

If you don't believe, that's up to you. Most of us here do. No one knows what God is. We think an entity, not male or female.

You clearly refer to god as male.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Why don't you educate yourself instead of looking like someone who only goes by opinions? Maybe you and those two just might be wrong. Oh, but that couldn't be right?

Why don't you educate yourself? You don't even know what ego is. Stop embarrassing yourself. 

Just now, madone said:


i reckon this about sums you up.

Assuming again. You did say I didn't know you, but the more you comment, the more I see what you really are, and how little you know. Also the reason you come here. Thinking someone you don't know, and can't understand what he writes, is delusional. That we call ignorance with a tendency to assume.

2 minutes ago, madone said:

You clearly refer to god as male.

Most use he when they talk about God. It doesn't mean we know he's male.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Assuming again. You did say I didn't know you, but the more you comment, the more I see what you really are, and how little you know. Also the reason you come here. Thinking someone you don't know, and can't understand what he writes, is delusional. That we call ignorance with a tendency to assume.

How to win friends and influence people.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Most use he when they talk about God. It doesn't mean we know he's male.


ah ok then. 

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Why don't you educate yourself? You don't even know what ego is. Stop embarrassing yourself. 

You get a thumbs down on every one of your posts. Ever wonder why? And most of the thumbs downs I get are from you and 5 or 6 just like you, and you all stick up for each other, which is blatantly obvious, and also amusing.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

You get a thumbs don on every one of your posts. Ever wonder why? And most of the thumbs downs I get are from you and 5 or 6 just like you, and you all stick up for each other, which is blatantly obvious, and also amusing.

Yes lefties do that. I have a few stalkers with ego problems.

So, according to fred, everyone here, including myself and @atpeace is uneducated. 

Take a look at yourself and what you are doing. 

"We are all sticking up for each other".....or we all see the same thing?

12 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I've never met Malcolm and know nothing about him. You know nothing about me yet keep making assumptions. I have good self esteem. I don't need to lecture people on their relationships because it's none of my business. 

 

You really should learn some basic manners on how to talk to people and try reading up on ego. That book is excellent.

Read your last line and try hard to think its' you that needs that advice.

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